mistoferin -> RE: Louisiana bans partial birth abortion (7/18/2007 9:19:27 PM)
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ORIGINAL: CrymsonSins Hmm.. What about if you're a 16 year old girl, who was always safe. Used protection and got tested regularly, and then one time the condom breaks. Then you get pregnant. 1) You KNOW your parents will never look at you the same way once they know what their baby girl has been doing. 2) You're just a baby yourself, if you have that kid your life is pretty much over. Then what? I know alot of you are like "oh well that girl should have thought of it" but when you're a teenager caught up in whatever, you're not thinking about the after. And those situations aren't just the 1% . That happens every single day, to about half the girls in just about every single public high school. ... and besides, this world is over-populated as it is. The last thing we need are more people breeding and having kids they can't support. Well, I wasn't 16 when it happened to me, I was 15. Yeah, it was shocking to everyone who knew me. The end of the world....or at least my future, or so they all thought. Everyone wanted me to abort....and everyone really pressured me to do so. I chose instead to take responsibility for the life I helped to create, against all of their advice. Did my parents look at me differently? Yeah, I guess they did. At first there was disappointment....or maybe just a lot of worry about my future, or their perceived lack of it. They also looked at me with an understanding that I had undeniably crossed that transitional line between childhood and adulthood and that there was no chance at turning back. I was suddenly making decisions for myself that they no longer had any control of. I'm not going to lie and say it was an easy time, it wasn't and there were some really rough patches. But in time they looked at me with pride and respect for making a tough commitment and backing that commitment with action. So, did it ruin my life? Nah, I'd really have to disagree. If anything it enriched it. I might not have had the same life as some of my peers...but my life was rich and rewarding in ways they could not yet fathom. I have managed to accomplish many things, gone to school, held great paying, highly respectable postions, even become an owner of my own business. Sure, there were definitely obstacles along the way that needed to be overcome...but nothing really worth having ever comes easy it seems. Commitment and responsibility are tough things, especially when one is so young. But I have to say that there has never been even one single moment that I have regretted the decision that I made. Had I chosen to abort I would have robbed myself of the opportunity of ever knowing one of the most amazing, intelligent and loving human beings I have ever known....my now 29 year old son. I can not imagine my life without him in it. I love him in ways that I could never even have imagined at that tender age I had that decision to make. But even more important, I like him. Not because he's my son, but because he is a man of character and integrity, a man who treats people with care and respect, a man who takes his own responsibilities and commitments in this world as seriously as I took mine to him. In another month or so, he and his wonderful mate will be gracing me with my first grandchild. Imagine all of the wonderous and amazing moments of my life that would never have occured had my decision been different those 29 years ago. Just because a pregnancy occurs at an inconvenient time in a person's life, it doesn't mean the best option is to abort. Just because someone is young or unpartnered it doesn't mean that their life will be in ruins if they decide to have the child. Sometimes it can even be the best damn thing that ever happened to them.
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