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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 11:52:18 AM   
Celeste43


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I'm only 5'4" but I like men 6' about. Dated someone 6'4" once but that was too extreme a difference for me. And I like muscles and a little extra padding. I want to know that if I dig my nails into him it won't hurt. Skinnier men seem to object more ime.

But yeah, being picked up and tossed on the bed, being pinned down no matter how I try to wiggle free - that's hot.

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 1:25:50 PM   
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Thanks for all the positive responses. I was having a bad week, my self esteem hitting an iceberg of a breakup, and being diagnosed with type II diabetes recently, until I read through this thread. You didn't intend it, but you've helped to keep it from taking on water and sinking. (Being in the middle of a bipolar down period isn't helping either.) Sometimes, we bigger guys think we're a little undesireable, and possibly even a little unintentionally threatening to others, since we are often protrayed as hulking bruisers in movies and TV. (Now I remember why I like this site so much, despite so many people putting it down elsewhere!)

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 2:25:58 PM   
freyjasdottir


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Status: offline 		Hmmm, big men are yummy, I am not small by any means though very short and Mine is almost a foot taller and much heavier, He has picked me up and tossed me on the bed and I love it.

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 3:13:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I really don't care. Even when I was 140 pounds in high school, I still was head over heels in love with a 300 pound guy. He had a great sense of humor and he carried his weight well. He turned out to be a jerk but oh well.

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 4:14:54 PM   
Kartusch


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Status: offline 		Well seems I am in the minority.  I am  5'7 , 215 lbs and  could careless about size or hight.  By defualt I have mostly dated men about my hieght and  skinny/fit. I just seem to attract that type. I myself have so many types that get me on just physical attraction, that I could never narrow it down.  About my only unifying theme is an interest in calves and I tend to prefer facial hair on men.  I felt no difference in protection  from my 6'2 , 250  ex to my 5'6, 130 ex.  I for totally other reasons prefered the smaller of the 2 since way more about personality, and brains for me.


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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 4:52:47 PM   
petdave


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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 5:04:59 PM   
slaveofKaos


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Status: offline 		I use to go for height and build, the tallest guy i've been with was 6'4 and strong and I loved it, however my Master right now is the exact same height I am, at first before meeting him I was a little worried as I didnt know how this would affect me but to be honet as soon as he grabbed me and I felt the strength in his arms I dont think i've thought about his height since. Arm strength is sooooo hot, ok im drooling now.

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/16/2007 8:42:49 PM   
Mystique567


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quote:

ORIGINAL: petdave

w00t! All you jogging, triglyceride-counting, donut-skipping chumps can take THAT!





I spit my coke out on that one, tyvm

I really don't care, big, small, tall, short, it's the brains that need to wow me.

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 12:09:19 AM   
Kellendra


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Status: offline 		Likes tall men.....
Loves  a man that looks like he could toss me over his shoulder in a firemans carry and take me back to his cave....

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 2:00:35 AM   
hana20


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Status: offline 		i love my Master to be huge ,tall and big man, but if he is not i think that it wouldn't mind me so much as long as he can control my mind and body.

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 2:06:28 AM   
persiphone


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Status: offline 		I like tall men, but size doesn't matter. As long as he can keep up with me....we are good.

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 2:20:17 AM   
MissIsis


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Size really doesn't matter so much.  If I had to make a choice based on size, I prefer men with a little meat on their bones & something to grab ahold of.  There are so many other things that matter much, much more than size when it comes to a good man. 

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 2:40:09 AM   
phoenixxy


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Status: offline 		I really did think i liked big men, most of my partners have been 6'4 + (I'm only 5'1) and well in excess of 200 lb, however my partner now is 5'3 and weighs the same as me.  So what i thought i liked has varied a lot!

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 3:41:17 AM   
mons


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i prefer tall man, not thin. but 6 foot is just right not much taller then that .

mons

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 3:43:26 AM   
heartcream


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Status: offline 		big men are hot. big as doors, built like a phone booth, arms the size of my waist mmmmmm....pick me up throw me down on the bed, hold me tenderly against his chest. *sighs, would be nice, more than nice.

and sabis you married one. ( whoa hot much girl? no wonder he married you.) lucky.

then again if prince ast me to marry him i would say yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 7:07:10 AM   
Trampler


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Status: offline 		Well my last bf, was 6'6 and almost 400 lbs.Not alot of physical chemistry, but definately major emotional chemistry.  (and having those huge hands spank me, OMG!!  I love the heavyness on top of me too. ) In general I like guys that are husky, but not to much taller then me,(I am 5'3 and 180 lbs.) As I like to go to dancing, and being able to look into their eyes, (instead of up, up,up,up.) and being able to rest my head on their broad chest, oh yeeeesssss!


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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 7/17/2007 3:44:03 PM   
felicitousdove


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Status: offline 		Being a 5ft 2in BBW, its not hard to find a man who is taller than me. Or a woman either for that matter. I DO love large men. I like them to be at least 5ft 10in, and of a large stature.

When i was int he getting to know you stage of the relationship with my Master/Husband, and had nto seen his picture, i asked: Are you fat and firm or fat and sloppy? He thought i was teasing,  but i wasn't. i dont want a guy with a lot of flubber... but i do like a nice solid healthy round belly. I have a bit of a Santa Clause fetish... not the red suit and such- but i do love a large guy, with white hair and beard... sexy as hell. i have been with my Master/Husbad for 7yrs now... and he looks like Santa!

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 4/29/2009 11:59:34 AM   
Phoenixpower


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Status: offline 		I prefer men who are taller though my current date is a bit taller then he "has" to be (I am 5'6 and he is 6'2)...nevertheless, that does not exclude dating someone similar height if I like him...regarding weight...whilst I am not the skinniest person myself at the moment I don't need him slim (and seriously dislike a guy where his damn bones hurt me at times which should be enjoyable), but I would not submit to a whale either who is that extreme out of shape, such as 350-400 lbs +...met that once which was not known to me and did put me off big time

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 4/29/2009 12:22:27 PM   
niah


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Status: offline 		Since i am 5 foot, most men are taller.  Sir is 5 8, and HWP. He does have a bit of a potbelly, but i think it's cute. 

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RE: How many women/men prefer Big men? - 4/29/2009 12:23:10 PM   
AngelGeena


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Status: offline 		I'm 5'9" and over 6 ft in heels.  I prefer men over 6 foot, but its just that, a preference.  Not a requirement

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