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ORIGINAL: Fun4All3OfUs2
Master, do You prefer Your slave/sub to re-act only by Your command or do You sometimes want Your slave/sub more teasing and straight-forward without first granting permission? 

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When You ask Your slave/sub their comfort zone are You enticing them or sometimes unsure of Your own powers? 

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ORIGINAL: Fun4All3OfUs2

Master, do You prefer Your slave/sub to re-act only by Your command or do You sometimes want Your slave/sub more teasing and straight-forward without first granting permission?  When You ask Your slave/sub their comfort zone are You enticing them or sometimes unsure of Your own powers? 

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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper

Because I am My Pet's Master all the time, I feel our minds cannot afford to be Master and Slave all the time.  She is always mine.  She is always devoted and eager to please me... to seek my happiness however she can.  There is certainly a time for "I say, you do." but to have our entire life that way would be boring.  Even though I own her, there is no reason I can't sit her on my lap and read to her, petting her hair as she turns the pages.  And thats something I intend to do often.  Lifestyle BDSM needs to be sustainable.  It needs to be a dynamic that works.  I may be a pansy of a master by some measure, but I'm ok with that.... Sometimes I equip My Pet with the metaphoric extending leash (sometimes not metaphoric).  I could, at any time, remind her of her place, and end her foolish games... But I wouldn't.  I like them too much.  What made me fall in love with her is the way she danced with words and actions... Like submarines battling, each action was meaningful and calculated, while the other was blind and worked on instinct alone.  I still love to dance. 

In that way, we will always be dating.  Sure, you can't go back into the past, but you can keep that flame alive.  When I let My Prey run just far enough so I get to chase her down, it excites us both.  Our blood pumps faster, hotter...  It's a delicate balance... Being My Pet and vice versa, me being Her Master is not just kinky, it's part of us.  She doesn't like to come across as disobedient, so we carefully balance reassurance that her 'teasing' is not disobeying without ruining the fun.  I could tell her to tease me, to make me claim her, but I'd rather let her know Master wants to see her creative side.  She knows I love her dearly, but is still skittish around not being perfect.  She is perfect... Perfect by the very nature of her flaws.

More to the point, I guess I do like a little teasing.  A game, a dance, a tease, a hunt... There is certainly a time for it, and can be very fun.  Not all people are alike.  I can't speak for any other dominant, or any other man.  I would not be suprised to hear that many masters don't like teasing, that all they want is compliance.  As a brash, unfounded, untested, and inexperienced generalization, most masters who cannot or will not laugh with, hug, love, or romance their submissives are probably not in a 24-7 lifestyle.  I couldn't imagine any human being so serious all the time...

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ORIGINAL: Fun4All3OfUs2
do You prefer Your slave/sub to re-act only by Your command or do You sometimes want Your slave/sub more teasing and straight-forward without first granting permission? 

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When You ask Your slave/sub their comfort zone are You enticing them or sometimes unsure of Your own powers? 

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submissives are probably not in a 24-7 lifestyle. I couldn't imagine any human being so serious all the time...

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ORIGINAL: HeavansKeeper

Because I am My Pet's Master all the time, I feel our minds cannot afford to be Master and Slave all the time.  She is always mine.  She is always devoted and eager to please me... to seek my happiness however she can.  There is certainly a time for "I say, you do." but to have our entire life that way would be boring.  Even though I own her, there is no reason I can't sit her on my lap and read to her, petting her hair as she turns the pages.  And thats something I intend to do often.  Lifestyle BDSM needs to be sustainable.  It needs to be a dynamic that works.  I may be a pansy of a master by some measure, but I'm ok with that.... Sometimes I equip My Pet with the metaphoric extending leash (sometimes not metaphoric).  I could, at any time, remind her of her place, and end her foolish games... But I wouldn't.  I like them too much.  What made me fall in love with her is the way she danced with words and actions... Like submarines battling, each action was meaningful and calculated, while the other was blind and worked on instinct alone.  I still love to dance. 

In that way, we will always be dating.  Sure, you can't go back into the past, but you can keep that flame alive.  When I let My Prey run just far enough so I get to chase her down, it excites us both.  Our blood pumps faster, hotter...  It's a delicate balance... Being My Pet and vice versa, me being Her Master is not just kinky, it's part of us.  She doesn't like to come across as disobedient, so we carefully balance reassurance that her 'teasing' is not disobeying without ruining the fun.  I could tell her to tease me, to make me claim her, but I'd rather let her know Master wants to see her creative side.  She knows I love her dearly, but is still skittish around not being perfect.  She is perfect... Perfect by the very nature of her flaws.

More to the point, I guess I do like a little teasing.  A game, a dance, a tease, a hunt... There is certainly a time for it, and can be very fun.  Not all people are alike.  I can't speak for any other dominant, or any other man.  I would not be suprised to hear that many masters don't like teasing, that all they want is compliance.  As a brash, unfounded, untested, and inexperienced generalization, most masters who cannot or will not laugh with, hug, love, or romance their submissives are probably not in a 24-7 lifestyle.  I couldn't imagine any human being so serious all the time...