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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 3:01:56 PM

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Will I ever find love?

I dunno. Do tree knotholes love?

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 3:02:37 PM

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what's it like out there these days?

I wouldnt wish it on my worst enemy....I was married for 30 yrs, and have been back to dating for the last two yrs.....its no fun at all!!!

I know. If THAT'S the available breeding stock out there, we are doomed as a species (or better get the concession on bags for double bagging :)

Before everyone's answers on here (which I appreciate (the SERIOUS ones that is), it seemed, to me, that modern dating scene had all the romance and purpose of a dry hump. I guess it boils down to being sure everyone is on the same page before you connect.

Nonsense....You just start bangin' away and hope for the best...It might be cause you are old....If old people fuck can they catch on fire?

Love...Is such an elusive emotion....Sometimes when subsusie is deepthroating me I feel the strangest of emotions....Hmmm....Dare I say, a strong like?

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 3:04:02 PM

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ah, the single dating scene. definately, not easy. sometimes fun, sometimes frustrating, but a never ending learning experience. i'm new to this lifestyle and have little experience with anyone involved with bdsm yet, but from a past vanilla dating perspective (which could be relevant here), i tend to want to get to know someone and feel like it's something that you're mutually ready for. i sense that some women are uptight if i take them out a few times, because they're thinking that i'll expect sex from them.in some cases, they're ready and waiting. first and foremost, i'm just there to enjoy their company and have a good time. then, i'm contemplating if this is somebody that i'm seriously interested in and whether or not i'm someone that they're interested in. i'm not one to mislead someone or hurt them emotionally and i don't care to get emotionally hurt either. i do tend to overthink the consquences, in which case i spent most of my time alone. in search of this wonderful match is indeed frustrating. if you do find it, they're either taken or may not be interested in you. or visa/versa. also interesting, is how women have become more liberated with dating. sometimes they just want you for sex and nothing more. that was hard for me to comprehend before and i screwed up some wonderful opportunities. it boils down to knowledge, respect and communication. i really like a lot of the attitudes here in bdsm. i can see where you can have some mutually rewarding, trusting, caring and sometimes loving relationships when you're able to come clean with each other up front. but, there is something to be said about getting the sex out of the way before you've got too much emotional investment. it really is a fine line. it's not just men that pressure women for sex right away, sometimes it's the women pressuring. a couple of past women that i've dated took the initiative first. i'd probably still be thinking too much about it if they didn't. in hindsight, i'm glad they did. i was pleasantly surprised. i guess i really appreciate an assertive/ Dominant woman, just didn't realize it before.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 3:10:47 PM

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Will I ever find love?

Not true love until you actually do some self assessment. and be honest with yourself instead of putting on a facade... if it isnt... then I am guessing real love is no

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 3:17:43 PM

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Will I ever find love?

Not true love until you actually do some self assessment. and be honest with yourself instead of putting on a facade... if it isnt... then I am guessing real love is no

I'm screwed.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 3:41:26 PM

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Will I ever find love?

Not true love until you actually do some self assessment. and be honest with yourself instead of putting on a facade... if it isnt... then I am guessing real love is no

I'm screwed.

LMAO ... or at least you want to be

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 4:10:29 PM

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Will I ever find love?

I dunno. Do tree knotholes love?

rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrim shot! ba- da boom! (Good one :)

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 4:17:24 PM

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Will I ever find love?

I dunno. Do tree knotholes love?

rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrim shot! ba- da boom! (Good one :)

Be quiet, you.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/16/2007 9:10:02 PM

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Be quiet, you.

Ah dont worry domi... you know theres a dawg lover out there for you.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/24/2007 8:01:30 PM

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My last date was seven years and some months ago. Met this guy in person at the airport for the first time. We'd been chatting on the phone and online for 2 months at that point. It was, in essence, our first 'date.' There were no safe calls set up; no one on the planet other than him knew where we were meeting. He told me that if I wanted to get fucked, I'd better dress like I wanted to get fucked. If I didn't, dress accordingly. So I wore black fuck-me pumps, a gray business pinstripe skirt (mid-thigh, but not quite 'mini'), and a spandex/cotton (skintight) shirt. Provocative, but not blatantly whorish, I thought.

He took one look at me and practically ran me out of the airport, to the car rental... The whole trip down the jet way and to the vehicle, and most of the way to the hotel, he was strangely quiet. I asked him, "What are you thinking?" He looked at me with golden, snakey eyes and said, 'Are you sure you want to know?' Secure in my ignorant naiveté, I said, 'Yes!’ His answer was, "I'm thinking I wanna fuck you in the ass."

Domiguy, count me as one of your unromantic whores, because I not only let him, I begged him for it, and everything else he did that night that indelibly imprinted his ownership on every part of me, physical and otherwise.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 7/24/2007 8:35:06 PM

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i recently had an occurance where sex waited til the 2nd date....

I tend to try to wait a few dates.

Although, sometimes if I am jumped on Mr. Tiny gets all the blood and makes the decisions, but I find it is better to wait a bit.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 8/13/2007 1:02:30 AM

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i would feel it is prolly best to wait cuz dat wut most folks say. me however i am, um not like most folks. if i like a guy he can get some, it seems to happen pretty naturally. sometimes i dont sleep wif em right away but it is usually not cuz i am abiding by a restriction placed there by me, even if i fink i ought ta. too bad it hasnt ended as happily yet as let's say, sabis and Cumulus but dat would be da idea. havin said all that, i rarely get any cuz i rarely meet a guy i like.

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RE: I wouldn't survive~ - 8/13/2007 8:47:22 AM

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Will I ever find love?

The magic 8 ball says.....Maybe.

Or was that........Try again..

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