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phthalo -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:06:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

someone once said that a male undergoing anal from a strap-on is subconciously gay. not sure if that is true or not and don't care to test that theory


No offense but think about that for a second please.

A male ... Turned on by the idea of a FEMALE using a PLASTIC penis to "do" him ... Is subconciously gay?

Thats like saying a girl undergoing oral sex (with a man) while playing with her own tits is gay.




Politesub53 -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:07:30 PM)

Ma`am speaking from a male submissive viewpoint, im not sure this would have been answered any better on the ask a submissive forum. Female virginity  means the first time intercourse has taken place. i may be wrong but i suspect most submissive males have already had sex. it`s not quite the same scenario for us as society doesnt really consider male and female virginity in the same way anyhow.

That said, i can see both a plus and a minus side to Youre Op. The plus side is, if the guy just wants to see what anal sex is like, and then wants to do it with someone he trusts and feels safe with. Then there is no morality argument as he is happy for it to take place.

The down side is if he wishes it to be with someone special, but decides to do it as he cant wait until he meets that special someone, then in that situation he may well regret it at a later date.

Speaking for myself, i am not sure what i would do in the same situation. The knowledge that "IT" was about to happen could well be stronger than my worry of what i may or may not feel emotionally down the road. Either way its a big step which you both need to be sure of before going ahead.
[;)]




DianeB269 -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:11:12 PM)

michael

I don't know who you've been talking too. It has nothing to do with being gay or bi.



Diane




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:15:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

michael

I don't know who you've been talking too. It has nothing to do with being gay or bi.



Diane


i don't want to point fingers or name names




AAkasha -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:15:10 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

someone once said that a male undergoing anal from a strap-on is subconciously gay. not sure if that is true or not and don't care to test that theory


Homophobia to the point of being afraid something like a dildo in your ass makes you gay is also a sign of latent homosexuality. UH OH!

Akasha




switchsecrets -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:20:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

someone once said that a male undergoing anal from a strap-on is subconciously gay. not sure if that is true or not and don't care to test that theory


who's someone? and who cares what they say? anyways, the  rule book says that is false, unless it's one of those wonderful squirting types.




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:21:58 PM)

the last thing i need is for the MODs to come down on me again. so i shall not divuldge that info




DianeB269 -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:26:19 PM)

Send me a message and tell me who said it.


Diane




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:28:20 PM)

all i will say is that, if i do something like that, word gets around and i end up being the bad guy. has happened more times than i can count. no disrespect intended, Ma'am.




chiaThePet -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:36:14 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

someone once said that a male undergoing anal from a strap-on is subconciously gay. not sure if that is true or not and don't care to test that theory


SLAP! That's it! Enough with this, it makes him, he's gotta be, he wants to be,
he must be, just stamp the big ol "gay boy" label on his head train of thought!

i'm sending ten, yes count em, ten big burly strap-on lovin Dommes to your
humble little abode my boy, and They're just dying to test the theory!

Ass up, devotion in motion!

Be sure and tell us all about the in's and out's of this trial run and how it made
you squeel......ah......feel.

chia* (the pet) 




DianeB269 -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 5:42:12 PM)

chia

I always thought you were gay.


Diane




chiaThePet -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 6:00:48 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

chia

I always thought you were gay.


Diane


shhhh, someone might hear You, it'll be our little secret!

and don't tell anybody that i'm a total Lesssssssbian with Women!

chia* (the pet) 




rob425 -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 6:36:09 PM)

i think he might be using that as an excuse cause honestly the viginity does mean alot but it's not everything. In general the Domme's first strap on session with the sub is special enough. Believe it or not I get alot of domme's would love to spend the time to break him in

But if his search isn't going well why don't you play with him if your guys are friends. It's not like it's some random person




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 7:28:14 PM)

He doesn't "just play" and the truth is, I don't "just play" either... He is really looking for something... an ideal that may or may not be out there for him..






DianeB269 -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 7:35:09 PM)

I still think you should be the first woman to take him with a strapon.


Diane




michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 7:41:00 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: rob425

i think he might be using that as an excuse cause honestly the viginity does mean alot but it's not everything. In general the Domme's first strap on session with the sub is special enough. Believe it or not I get alot of domme's would love to spend the time to break him in

But if his search isn't going well why don't you play with him if your guys are friends. It's not like it's some random person


excuse me? was this directed at me?




switchsecrets -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 7:41:48 PM)

sometimes a sub needs help making those decisions. show him some leadership




DianeB269 -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 7:44:43 PM)

I never have any problems telling a virgin male sub to bend over.



Diane




MasterFireMaam -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 7:47:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: michaelOfGeorgia

someone once said that a male undergoing anal from a strap-on is subconciously gay. not sure if that is true or not and don't care to test that theory


In my humble opinion: that's stupid.

Master Fire




switchsecrets -> RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins (7/18/2007 8:00:30 PM)

now that's the attitude!

quote:

ORIGINAL: DianeB269

I never have any problems telling a virgin male sub to bend over.



Diane






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