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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:05:14 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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I still think you should be the first woman to take him with a strapon.


Diane


I agree! 

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:06:39 PM   
DianeB269


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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:12:34 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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Photo session too.....


Diane

Diane,
pictures of this boy would make a very nice addition to your yahoo group site..
it's the same one I was talking to you about a while back..

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:16:40 PM   
DianeB269


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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:30:43 PM   
chiaThePet


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i'll just tell him it's a strap-on!

The boy's gonna be sixty before this gets settled!

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:41:56 PM   
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Photo session too.....


Diane


i have to admit, that the idea of photo's taken without my consent is a stumbling block to trying this. especially  with face shots.

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:55:49 PM   
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Photo session too.....


Diane


i have to admit, that the idea of photo's taken without my consent is a stumbling block to trying this. especially  with face shots.


Are you nuts?  Of course if he didn't consent I wouldn't take photos.

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:58:02 PM   
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Photo session too.....


Diane


i have to admit, that the idea of photo's taken without my consent is a stumbling block to trying this. especially  with face shots.


Are you nuts?  Of course if he didn't consent I wouldn't take photos.


well, that's comforting. just a fear of mine i guess. i had an ex-girlfriend who took a nude picture of me once and she had it hidden in her bedroom. then one day her mother came to visit  and decided to clean the house while she was gone and found the picture. she just layed it on her desk and didn't say anything. was a little awkward facing her the next time. can't imagine what she'd say if she saw a strap-on in the pic. when we broke up, i asked for the picture back. she said she lost it. funny, that's what my ex-wife said too about the one she had. oh well, hopefully they enjoyed it.

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 8:59:33 PM   
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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 9:07:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		first off i love strapon play   my mistress usually takes my ass 2 times a week now ..first with her strapons and then her fist   fisting for me is much more itimate and personal and my mistress is great at doing it ..love giving myself to her that way ..and yes boy can it become addicting   she is the only one who has fisted me but not the only one who has taken my ass with a strapon ..its quite funny the other day she showed my the 6 in strapon that she first used on me and now im slowly working on trying to take more of the bam ..trust me there is no comparing the 2 --lol ..i do think with strapons now size does matter and i love the bigger ones too   amazing feeling it is once its all in but with a virgin male ass go slowly ...use lots of lube ..communicate is key ..and let him get used to having something inside of him at first ..once you get it past a certain point the little bit of pain quickly turns to pleasure   boy if me loving strapon play makes me gay then so be it ..but i will gladly bendover for my mistress anytime she wants   and gawd she looks so damn sexy wearing that big 10 in one   have fun and enjoy ..mal

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 9:36:05 PM   
NefertariReborn


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Status: offline 		I'm in the minority I suppose.  I think you should leave it for the Mistress he eventually will find to take his virginity.  If he had already done it and it was like no big deal, a strap on pro, then friends with benefits would be cool.  But, frustration based ass fucking ??? hmmmm I'm gonna have to stick with leave his ass alone and let him practice getting ready for Her on his own...butt plugs, small dildos lots of lube whatever. 

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 9:55:04 PM   
DSwriter


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Status: offline 		To toss in a counter-point to all the advice to pop this boy's cherry...

Reverse the situation.  Imagine a man talking about taking a woman's virginity.

Is this the optimum way it should happen?  As a "play" experience?  Without any intention of actually having a relationship?  Isn't losing her virginity rather a big deal for a woman?  Doesn't it also involve her emotions?  Who's to say it won't for this man?

What if you do take this boi's virginity, and it's a very important experience to him, and he becomes emotionally attached to you?  You've said for other reasons you don't feel you're compatible.  Is he too young (just a guess)?

Casual play is one thing, engaging in strapon intercourse is something else.  Penetration can take things to a different level.  Women don't think men have any emotions, but they do.  What if, as his first, suddenly he becomes infatuated with you and after 2-3 pokes, you decide it's time to move on?  And he's hurt and confused.  Aren't you risking losing your friendship?

What you do of course is your business.  Just playing devil's advocate and throwing out some thoughts for consideration.

There is an interesting role reversal going on here.  Usually it's men who take sex casually.  It's interesting to see a woman talking about penetrating a man who she knows she'll never commit to emotionally long-term, just because he's cute.

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/18/2007 10:09:01 PM   
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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/19/2007 6:44:36 AM   
submissiveguy69


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Status: offline 		Just the opinion of another submale here. I really wish my first time had been with someone I had that type of friendship with. My first time being taken anally was with a pro-domme........and there really wasn't anything bad about the experience. I think however that from a mental standpoint it would have been much more intense if I had that kind of friendship with the woman who had taken my virginity. I also disagree with those who have suggested having him play with his own ass with various toys. I thoroughly enjoy being done by a woman with a strapon, but absolutely hate playing with my own ass. What I enjoy is the feeling of being taken by a woman, not being able to pull it out when I'd like, not being in control. Sticking something inside yourself is no where near the same experience.  The actual feeling of having something inside your ass is something you will get used to in a matter of minutes regardless of whether you have "practiced" on yourself. The feeling of being taken by a woman........is not something you can practice.......you have to experience it for yourself. I wish you the best of luck with this experience!




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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

Photo session too.....


Diane


i have to admit, that the idea of photo's taken without my consent is a stumbling block to trying this. especially  with face shots.


Are you nuts?  Of course if he didn't consent I wouldn't take photos.

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/19/2007 8:23:38 AM   
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Just the opinion of another submale here. I really wish my first time had been with someone I had that type of friendship with. My first time being taken anally was with a pro-domme........and there really wasn't anything bad about the experience. I think however that from a mental standpoint it would have been much more intense if I had that kind of friendship with the woman who had taken my virginity. I also disagree with those who have suggested having him play with his own ass with various toys. I thoroughly enjoy being done by a woman with a strapon, but absolutely hate playing with my own ass. What I enjoy is the feeling of being taken by a woman, not being able to pull it out when I'd like, not being in control. Sticking something inside yourself is no where near the same experience.  The actual feeling of having something inside your ass is something you will get used to in a matter of minutes regardless of whether you have "practiced" on yourself. The feeling of being taken by a woman........is not something you can practice.......you have to experience it for yourself. I wish you the best of luck with this experience!



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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/19/2007 10:10:54 AM   
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i think he might be using that as an excuse cause honestly the viginity does mean alot but it's not everything. In general the Domme's first strap on session with the sub is special enough. Believe it or not I get alot of domme's would love to spend the time to break him in

But if his search isn't going well why don't you play with him if your guys are friends. It's not like it's some random person


excuse me? was this directed at me?

Wasn't direct to any buddy but the original poster with her question. If it was directed you I would have quoted you

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/19/2007 3:15:52 PM   
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someone once said that a male undergoing anal from a strap-on is subconciously gay. not sure if that is true or not and don't care to test that theory


It's total bullshit. While a latent gay or latent bisexual might be interested in being penetrated anally, a straight guy might also be interested. So interest in anal penetration doesn't prove anything about one's orientation.

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/19/2007 3:19:20 PM   
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OK.. Maybe it's time for a bit of backstory here.. I really didn't mean to come off as a heartless bitch..lol!

This particular sub is someone I have known for about 8 months (he is the person I have to thank for telling me about CM) and although we have "chemistry" together,  we are probably not a good D/s match for each other. 
So we talk to each other every now and then about this and that... Eventually we get to talking about how his search for a Mistress is going (usually not going well).  So today, we were having the same such conversation and he was telling me how several of the Mistresses he has been interested in were very adament about anal/ strap-on play..
So I told him that I would be happy to "break him in" and he seemed fairly into the idea.  (He is fairly easy on the eyes and if I am being honest, I have wanted to "play" with him for quite a long time.)  If he asked me to use him after that, I would be only too happy to do so.  In the vanilla world, this sub could pick up a new girl every day of the week if he chose too.  
So I told Michael about this chat and of course he just had to bring up the morality of it (grrr).. which of course led me to start this thread...


I think the breaking in idea is a good one, as long as both of you are OK with it. Hell, after reading all this stuff, I might even be interested in being "broken in" by you!

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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/19/2007 3:24:23 PM   
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someone once said that a male undergoing anal from a strap-on is subconciously gay. not sure if that is true or not and don't care to test that theory 


Someone also once said the world was flat!  Geezeeeeeeeeee michael; speaking of HE doth protest too much!  What would your 'someone' say of a man who brought up the fact that he is not gay at EVERY SINGLE OPPORTUNITY???  Hummm?
 
just wonderin,
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RE: Strap-ons and (male) virgins - 7/19/2007 8:33:52 PM   
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OK.. Maybe it's time for a bit of backstory here.. I really didn't mean to come off as a heartless bitch..lol!

This particular sub is someone I have known for about 8 months (he is the person I have to thank for telling me about CM) and although we have "chemistry" together,  we are probably not a good D/s match for each other. 
So we talk to each other every now and then about this and that... Eventually we get to talking about how his search for a Mistress is going (usually not going well).  So today, we were having the same such conversation and he was telling me how several of the Mistresses he has been interested in were very adament about anal/ strap-on play..
So I told him that I would be happy to "break him in" and he seemed fairly into the idea.  (He is fairly easy on the eyes and if I am being honest, I have wanted to "play" with him for quite a long time.)  If he asked me to use him after that, I would be only too happy to do so.  In the vanilla world, this sub could pick up a new girl every day of the week if he chose too.  
So I told Michael about this chat and of course he just had to bring up the morality of it (grrr).. which of course led me to start this thread...


I think the breaking in idea is a good one, as long as both of you are OK with it. Hell, after reading all this stuff, I might even be interested in being "broken in" by you!


I peeked at your profile.  Hop on a plane.  I'll be waiting..

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