AAkasha -> Naughty Nurse, Kidnapped Virgin and Secret Agents (7/21/2007 10:27:11 AM)
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Does anyone roleplay anymore? Often when there's talk of "play scenes" or "roleplay" it dwindles into a discussion about people who are proud to state their their dominance or submission is not make believe, or a role, and that there's no need for "scenes" because scenes are for players. Call me a player, but I still love to roleplay as much as I did when I was a youngin' femdom, and "let's play make believe" was the only safe outlet to get my boyfriend to let me tie him up. After all, it was just make believe, right? I love the melodrama that comes with playing different roles, and I don't go into a lot of planning most of them time, just tell my man, "ok, you are a virgin that doesn't want to give it up to me." and then we go. I still get incredibly turned on when we do resistance type scenes, where I tell him he's not supposed to let me kiss him or seduce him, or that he has secret information I'm trying to get out of him. Even though we're "roleplaying," it doesn't take away from the fact that I am the dominant and he's the submissive anyway; except that he doesn't get the chance to say, "I don't want to roleplay. I want to watch F1 qualifying." I still enjoy planning kidnappings, "breaking" secret agents and being a naughty nurse. They aren't just excuses to use my toys because I can use them any time I want, but I like to add a little flavor now and then to change it up. It's never very complicated for us, in fact, I don't think beyond the one line "set up" I toss out there's anything to it - we don't assume fake names or accents (well, sometimes I make him do that), or dramatically change our personalities. I think roleplaying is very natural and exciting for me because it was one of the foundations for my femdom side. When I was just dating and trying to express my urges and desires in a safe way, I'd playfull ask my boyfriend at the time to assume roles "for fun" and that gave me a reason to use handcuffs or blindfolds, rather than just pull out the kinky toys and go, "Guess what, I'm a sadistic bitch!" Akasha
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