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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 5:58:55 AM

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That's the thing novels are made of. Pure fantasy

In reality what you have describe is abuse

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 6:10:12 AM

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a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny

I think that's a common feeling until you leave the computer keyboard behind and start meeting some real people. The danger is that the reality of BDSM is nothing like the extensive fantasy you have created in your mind, and online. So in your case, you run the risk of experiencing disappointment as the most common feeling.

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but this one thought people were *real* people behind a pc ?

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 6:13:48 AM

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I feel sorry for Zack... To be a Master , and feel nothing, must be terribly boring, as well as frustrating. I absolutely glory in the power I possess, and My ability to use it such that the sub always wants MORE!! I am in awe of a woman who: can prostrate herself before Me in absolute trust; can kneel beside Me in adoration; can allow Me to have complete control of her body and mind; only wants to serve. I feel very strong emotions as a Master, towards a sub. Aside from love, I believe the strongest human emotions are desire and the need for fufillment. How can any Master not revel in those feelings??????

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 6:16:10 AM

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but this one thought people were *real* people behind a pc ?

Yeah, they're *real* people behind the PC. And truth be told, it was a poor choice of words on my part. But the fact remains that *real* people do not always (often?) portray themselves accurately from where they sit behind that PC, and fall prey to developing feelings constructed upon other people's deceptions and/or a fantasy version of BDSM that does not exist beyond that PC.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 6:16:13 AM

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LadyHugs,
Meant the previous as a reply to the OP. Not as a comment on your delightful response.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 7:39:09 AM

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a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny

*tilts my head to the side and re-reads this a third time*

Daddy/Sir told me just last night that i was the most precious treasure he owns, that he feels GREAT pleasure in owning me because i am so eager for his approval, that i try so hard to do whatever he expects of me, and i feel such shame when i cant do what he wants. his pleasure is in watching me react to the things we do together, and to see the struggle in my face as i strive to please him.

and while i realize its not a "need" for some D/s, M/s pairings, love does mean a lot to the both of us.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 7:50:51 AM

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Responsibility, Power. I tend to be one who feeds off a persons energys emitions and I enjoy pushing her to get them.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 7:52:03 AM

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Well, you know how you feel all flushed, arroused and fulfilled when you're being true to your role? We get the same kind of reaction. It may ore may not be a sexual thing (althought a lot of the time it is) but it almost always is a power trip.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 7:55:44 AM

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I feel contented and like I'm finally off the tightrope in life, grounded, assured, and like I'm doing what I'm meant to be doing. It's a heavy dose of "zen thing" along with being horny.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 8:10:01 AM

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Using fast reply:

No matter how one tries to label folks, folks keep resisting. There is not one blanket definition of master, slave, dominant, submissive, top or bottom. There are general guidelines, such as the master/dominant/top being the guy in charge and the slave/submissive/bottom being the one acting on the guy in charge's wishes.

Of course, I am textually referring to only the Male/female dynamic, however, I am leaving it to be understood that I do mean everyone without constantly having to type everyone.

Because your personal definition of a master is such what you stated, zack, that doesn't mean that it holds true for everyone, nor should it. People are individuals, are proud of being individuals and are, by nature, birth and design, unique. We don't, generally speaking, look alike (other than in the case of twins, etc), none of us have exactly the same voice. While one may be covered in body hair, another will have little to none. While one's favorite color might be red, another's will be puce. With that understanding, how could one truly say, that a particular mindset applies to all of a group of individuals?

Many masters are in search of someone to love, nuture and care for. It just happens that the person he's searching for is a person whose submissiveness will compliment and attune with his dominance. By the same token, many masters want nothing more than a piece of property that they have no emotional investment in. None of it is right or wrong, as long as it fulfills the needs of all parties involved and no one is harmed.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 1:10:11 PM

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Thank you all for those inciteful comments.
When I did have a Master,once I had to work double shifts. By the time I got home, I didn't have the time to do all the things I was supposed to. I got up my usual two hours before He did. I poured His bath, made His breakfast, etc., and ironed His clothes. When I was putting on His shoes, He said, "you didn't shine them". I had forgotten to do this. I was so utterly ashamed that I let the Master down. He didn't say anything more. But I wish He would have gotten angry and beat me, I wouldn't have felt so bad. If I have these kinds of intense emotions as a slave, I've always wondered what emotions a Master felt. I found that Master Zach's attitude is not that unusual. Yet, quite frankly, I think it's because there are extreme emotions some Masters find it hard to articulate.
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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 1:34:05 PM

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Hi, minxy;
Your greatest pleasure is pleasing your Master and seeing how He expresses His being pleased. Ahh, you know what I mean .It's definitely a two way street.
Thanks.
Rick

BTW,I still think your Master has a lot of hard work ahead of Him. Two of you!

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 1:58:02 PM

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Master Zack, Sir;
You, Sir, may be more able to answer my question than you think. "A master's pleasure is a slave's suffering and destiny". Sir, it's obvious that you enjoy being a Master. What are those Master's pleasurable emotions? What is going through your mind when you use a slave?
Thank you, Sir.
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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 7:30:47 PM

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Personally I feel a grand sense of power and completeness. Its a form of pleasure but for me its completely seperate from something sexual. The closest I can really compare it to is the feeling you get when you have worked on something for weeks and you look at it and its finished and its an accomplishment.

Of course, conversly, when a sub misbehaves I get a unique and intense anger and displeasure.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 7:45:27 PM

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I feal good. Very good.

Its hard to describe into words. Fulfilled, powerful, harmonic, but most of all...honored.

And in certain contexts, arousal and exstacy

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 7:49:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: zack2912

a true master does not feel anything for the slave .They r mere objects with life and no mind to obey every command and serve. They r expected to suffer pain and should be immune to humiliation as they have no respect.

a god like master is feared , respected and worshipped in that order.

masters pleasure is slaves suffering and destiny

Hi

This is crap

Bye

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 8:01:13 PM

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with all due respect, and i realize that i'm a total noob when it comes to anything bdsm related LOL
zack's comment reminds me of what i've seen protrayed as that Gor lifestyle thing. . . ?

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 8:10:15 PM

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The "Gorean lifestyle thing" is about a bunch of men on a fantasy planet in a completely different society where treating women like objects is "OK".

At the end of the day, its still fantasy and healthy M/S relationships dont match up to it.

Personally speaking, all the Gorean men I know dont treat their women anything close to what Zach depicts and they identify as "Gorean" because they follow a particular philosophy of virtues.

In reality, slaves are simply human beings with emotions, self esteem and self respect like everyone else and not the objects depicted by Zach with no sense of self and no self esteem.

Some people like to come here and claim they live in the "extreme" as depicted in Gorean novels or whatever free story you want to pick up off Literotica, but...people lie.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 11:15:52 PM

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ok here ia little more detail about my emotions as a master :

1. Since i am straight i started out with girls , women and felt great when they submitted to me and used to lay at me feet worshipping them and i felt great like most of you do - Its mostly sexual when there is an interaction between opposite sex because they r wired that way and domination submission seems to be a game for variety .But women r damn complicated and you cannot ignore the emotional aspect being the master hence caring etc comes into play.

2. Gay men or sub men can be used as footstools or doormats & abused without any sense of guilt because you see them as objects who r imperfect and sissy and its their good fortune to get a chance to serve a real man. wether they like it or not a master is not concerned about satisfying them and gets the pleasure of dominating these restless souls and feeling the power of standing on them like a fallen prey . It gives a high which is more than sex. It satisfies your ego , superego which is higher than sex on the mans need list as per maslow.( sorry for all the blah blah )

3. Domination without any emotional attachment is more brutal and cold and u dont care about feelings so your mind is free like a bird without the weight of expectations etc.

So all u dominants out there ( MEn or Women ) rule on these submissives as has been happening since time immemorial because one is made to satisfy and please the other.

One last thing for all our knowleadgeable , sensible members to not to judge me by the views i write coz i am a nice humorous guy and quite frank about my feelings and want to know if there r others who feel the same way.

Bye and have fun coz you dont live twice

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/25/2007 11:20:13 PM

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I know slaves have emotions ,self esteem etc. then why the hell r they submitting at another persons feet. They should be ready for what follows in all respects and without complains because domination cannot be customised as per submissives wishes and cna be any thing from a slap on the face to scum on the face

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