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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/27/2007 3:57:03 PM   
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Are you really that bored with World of Warcraft?
 
Please don't say I have to quit Wow  ::begs::

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/27/2007 10:15:12 PM   
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Do you ever feel pity for this creature who will do whatever you ask of her?


Oh lord no, pity for someone who is fullfilling their central core purpose, that would be their core purpose even if they didn't serve me, would be misplaced.

I work very hard change negative emotions or keep them away from my dynamic.



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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/28/2007 2:02:43 AM   
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Do you ever feel pity for this creature who will do whatever you ask of her?

No, no pity.  I agree with Archer.  They are a tool.  I use my tools, but I also take care of them and see to their needs. One has to take care of one's tools if one wants to use them again.  <smile>

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/28/2007 9:21:31 AM   
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My thanks to all the Dominat men & Women who have responded. I thought I was the only submissive who wondered what was going through the Master's head when He was being served, but this seems to be a question most subs want to know. I've had three Masters and all three had a sense of pure entittlement. Could it be those are the Masters I was attracted to? For me, being a sub/slave is an extremely erotic thing.  I've spent hours and hours with clenched teeth, waiting for the Master to permit sexual encounters.Also, I was born submissive. When I meet a Dominant male, I automatically go into sub/slave mode. I've always wondered what it like to sit on the throne.
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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/28/2007 3:47:34 PM   
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Dear labrat18610, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
I will attempt to put into text how in my mind's eyes I see the transition of 'entitlement.'  I will use a ritual of investiture as an example as it has meaning to these steps in the ritual.
 
Most times when I was in a Leather man's dungeon, he was not wearing a vest.  It was sitting on a table or chair, with the left front panel to the ceiling.  When a slave of his, came in and knelt at his feet and presented himself, he reaffirms his recognition of the dynamic  of the M/s relationship, respecting the authority as well as the establishment begins when someone submits and establishes his slave role in a silent form of a salute, such as kneeling and or other form of presentment.  It is a silent means to establish entitlement as roles are established by ritual and or gestures.  Now --onto the investiture.  When slaves 'dress' or 'invest' the Master by taking the leather vest, it is much like the presenting of armour upon a knight.  The vest represents the final process of being leather or, what Old Leather folks refer to as "Final Leather" and or "Finished Leather."  By placing the vest on the Master, it is a silent exchange of having the power in their hands as a slave; to have trust by the Master as his back is to the slave and thus vunerable--The slave placing the leather vest on the Master, thus acknowledges the power and authority and by the slave's placement--thus consents to that authority, power and what it represents to them both.  It then gives 'entitlements'
 
That said, entitlements should also be acknowledged as limited by the boundaries of the relationship between said Master-slave.  I also know what happens in private is often different in public when both Master and slave are in public review of their peers.  So, many behave more in the high protocols or more formal, than what would take place in residence  on a daily basis.  There is a more 'business' or 'serious like' aire in public and during formal parties--and more relaxed and informal in private and or a closed personal party.
 
Perhaps for some, it may look cruel on the exterior in public forums--however, I know there are many things happening.  No different from friends from the Officer's Club, put on a different aire when drilling on the parade grounds during Taps.  The smiles and gushing are gone--it is business and the focus is on the 'training' and showing how sharp their troops are.
It is a sense of pride and affection for the soldiers who work so hard at the details as to make a rifle drill look effortless.  Words aren't necessary--body language, eyes.. salute exchange makes the score down and period (punctuation mark) for the whole world to see.
 
The saying, the slave is a reflection of their Master.  So too, a Master is a reflection of their slave.  It is also based on reality on never giving a slave more than they can realisticly handle.
 
Just some thoughts.
 
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/28/2007 4:42:26 PM   
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It has been interesting to hear how Master's feel.
Thanks for starting this thread.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/28/2007 8:58:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: labrat18610

I'd like to know what's going through their minds. What kind of feelings do Masters have while being served?

Good question.  I thought about this and the past week (I've had a slave visiting and serving me as it happens) and how I've felt.  The one word that repeatedly keeps coming to mind is satisfaction.  Whether it was sex, or a back rub, or watching as she learned something new I was teaching her, or her serving me a cup of tea or just enjoying her company... I found it all... satsifying.  There were other emotions at times, sometimes feelings of power or pride or arrousal... but among them and common to every situation was simple satisfaction.  There are lots of things that go through my mind while being served, wicked thoughts, random thoughts... but as for feelings, I'd have to say satisfaction most often sums it up.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/28/2007 9:09:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DistantThunder

As I look down and I see them on the floor, sensing their anticipation, nervousness and sometimes fear, there is a mixture of emotions.

There is a real surge of power, the reality that "I have made this person kneel, to obey and they will continue to do so out of respect for me." There is a quivering excitement at all the sensual and kinky possibilities that wait there. This of course leads to a flood of images filled with flesh, toys and sometimes a rubber chicken (Best if you not ask too many questions on that one.)

This is followed by what I can only call a profound respect, the realization of the "balls", for lack of a better word, it takes for someone to kneel, often half dressed or naked, sometimes blindfolded on a cold floor; waiting for whatever my perverse imagination has in mind and my imagination is rather... unique... especially when it comes to kink.

From that point it is never the same twice, each scene is and should be unique. Yet, there is always the sense of respect and adoration.

But, always remember my loves, never cast blanket statements or generic concepts. Each Dominant is different and feel different things. Indeed and sadly in my NEVER humble opinion, there are those that feel nothing for those that serve them, simply a sense of sexual power. A disconnection that does not allow them to feel perhaps. Others, like myself, lavish in that sense of power, in that rush of respect and devotion and it is in turn recipricated, but is different in its delivery to the person(s) on their knees.

"Our truths will never be the same nor should they be. After all, what is blue and who is to say that blue is indeed blue."
Zen Proverb

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Very nicely put

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 7/31/2007 11:40:14 PM   
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hello everybody

thanks for pointing out the evident shortcomings and the culture differences and i am pretty sure that you are in love with your slaves or masters.

but in my case i amd not grateful to a slave for letting me dominate or i am not doing a favour by dominating and giving pleasure to a slave by dominating , its just without emotions but a lot of pleasure to feel your bare feet on the slaves face pinning it down with force and revelling in the beauty of towering above someone like a god and pitying his helplessness

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/4/2007 8:57:51 PM   
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When my sub sumits,  I feel total bliss. I feel totally transcendent! There is no feeling quite like it!

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/5/2007 12:02:08 AM   
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I was once asked if I considered my lady a girlfriend or my submissive. I Replied “both” without hesitation. I don’t think I am with the majority when it comes to how we practice out BDSM lifestyle, but at the same time I suspect my feelings are with the general populace. I do feel like a king. I feel satisfaction. I feel loved. I feel an absolute adoration for my lady all the time, but sometimes it overwhelms me when she is looking up at me so proud to be there. I swell with pride. I have a great since of pride in everything she does.  Those are how I feel.
 
As to zack2912. I read through this the entire time wondering not only how you could feel nothing, but more importantly how the others could judge you for that. I have to defend your right to be who you are, and practice how you believe. If you have a submissive or slave who wants that in their life, then I am happy for the both of you. As long as you don’t expect me to practice it the same way as you, then I see no reason to put you down for answering a question honestly, just because I don’t agree with you. The place where you loose my respect is in your writing. I can not stand people who write r instead of are. There are things you can do to spell check. I can’t spell to save my life, but there is a spell check function.
 ~Ki

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/5/2007 9:54:20 AM   
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Greetings labrat18610,
 
Thankyou for starting this thread, it has been very enlightening

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/5/2007 5:25:01 PM   
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Go back to Dom School.  You seemed to have missed the basics.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/5/2007 6:15:39 PM   
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LOLOLOL

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/6/2007 7:04:58 PM   
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Don't ya think?

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/6/2007 7:33:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: zack2912

hello everybody

thanks for pointing out the evident shortcomings and the culture differences and i am pretty sure that you are in love with your slaves or masters.

but in my case i amd not grateful to a slave for letting me dominate or i am not doing a favour by dominating and giving pleasure to a slave by dominating , its just without emotions but a lot of pleasure to feel your bare feet on the slaves face pinning it down with force and revelling in the beauty of towering above someone like a god and pitying his helplessness


From a glance at your Profile you come across more as a Top with a simple foot fetish

...just saying

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/15/2007 12:03:06 PM   
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What you said makes sense to me MadRabbit, ty ;) 

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/15/2007 9:11:53 PM   
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My Master says that when i'm serving him in anyway it makes him feel happy, loved, cared about and over all, special. He also says it makes him feel proud of me.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/15/2007 9:17:05 PM   
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I feel bored.

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RE: What does a Master feel? - 8/19/2007 8:33:32 AM   
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How do I feel from the service of my girls? mmmmmmmm that is not an easy answer.  There is no one word that could appropriately satisfy all the emotions and thoughts that come from that service.

On occassions I am particular proud and happy with the service I recieved.  This happens particularly when they are doing something with a sense of grace and I know that it is not something they actually enjoy.

On occassions I pay not particular attention to what service they give.  This happens particularly when they are doing something that is not of particular importance to me.

There is alot of emotions and thoughts that range between the two that is all dependent on the particular situation and no word can describe them all.

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