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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/2/2005 10:29:42 AM

MistressXD

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I don't use strap-ons on men, ever. I'm a very feminine sort, and for me, that's where a lot of the power in my power exchange dynamic comes from. I feel awkward and wrong wearing an appendage that's meant to mimic a man's, first off, and second of all, for me, it's a dilution of the source of the power I'm able to muster. I'm far more prone to use another man as a "strap-on." ;)

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/2/2005 11:36:00 AM

LadyAngelika

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I can understand how it may be awkward for you. Situations that require a certain amount of gender bending can be disturbing at times and make us question many things. Trust me, I’ve explored a bunch!

I just wanted to demystify however that a “feminine sort” and “strap-on usage” can go together beautifully. In fact, many men I know find it terribly erotic to see me in a garter-belt or stay-ups, a corset, heels and a strap-on. It really comes down to a question of perception and not really gender.

I actually find strap-on play to be quite empowering. Then again, I find intercourse empowering as I see it as me capturing him instead of him penetrating me. But then again, I’m a weird girl that way ;-)

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/2/2005 11:42:15 AM

LadyHibiscus

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I heart LA!

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/2/2005 12:49:57 PM

incognitoinmass

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I have been on the receiving end of a strap on and have enjoyed it. It's not that it feels great. For me it's the role reversal, the 'naughtiness' of the activity, having my partner talk 'nasty' etc. Just seeing her wearing it is a turn on.

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/2/2005 1:32:18 PM

LadyHibiscus

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I prefer to use a handheld dildo over a strap on, but I found that *wearing* the strap on is a hoot! Playing with it, waving it around, jumping up and down and watching it bounce...... then laughing madly! I guess it's the incongruity of it, since my current strap on is in extravagant hot pink. My old one was a glow in the dark version, which was superfun!

It helps, I guess, that I have no fear of looking silly! And it does look rather sexy, with the lingerie and all.......

Plus, you get the hilarious fun of watching them try to put on a condom with lips alone, and all that guy stuff!

:)Francine, goofydomme

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/2/2005 3:50:41 PM

LadyAngelika

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quote:

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I heart LA!

Awww shucks Francine <blushes>

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/12/2005 1:44:08 PM

kinkyslaveboysub

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I found many nice thoughts as well as some pretty lame post as well. I have received the strapon over 1000 times. some may ask. is it a gay thing? well, yes for some people it is. for others it's the complete loss of control and humiliation. I am not gay, nor bi. I do not look at guys and get hard. it just doesn't happen. but I am sure for some that is the case. the stimulation of the prostate in the male body is quite intense. but you don't need a strapon to get there either. I've been with Mistresses that would not use a strap-on and I have been with Mistress that it brought such amusement to them they wanted to use it 3 times a day. I have been teased and only given it for a minute and told that was all I was going to get because that is how long most men last. and I have been tied with my ass in the air for several hours at a time.

Each Mistress is different. Your there to serve Her and her needs. your there for Her amusement, not yours. If that is the only way you wish to serve a Mistress/Goddess/Dominatrix then your a selfish egotistical self centered sorry excuse for a man (like most men). You should just stop bothering Mistresses, pull up a pic on the web and jack off like the pussy you are.

One last thing, a strap=on can be a glorious reward or a strict punishment. thankfully I have never received it as a punishment. Don't get me wrong. I've been pounded so hard and long that no "man" could even compare. Strap-on's don't go limp.

It's ok for it to be pleasurable. that in inself will not make you gay either. the prostate is pleasurable when stimulated. so it is ridiculous to say "It's not that it feels great." Because if you do take a strapon up the ass you like it. PERIOD. LOL the only way you wouldn't is if you were raped dry over and over again. then your talking something else entirely.

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/12/2005 2:19:41 PM

brightspot

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quote:

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ORIGINAL: shykyguy

Ok well how often do you use it on him?

heh, what "him"?

As far as I've known, Bright is perfectly happy with her Domina, and though I'm not sure, I think she orients as lesbian.

This is correct perverseangelic...Thank You

With that squared away, to answer your question, although there are occasions that I use the strap-on on my Domina, She prefers to use it on me.

Bonus: She also usually picks out the shape and size too and when she feels I have been extra sweet she will let me pick it.

*Brightspot

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/12/2005 2:27:57 PM

Cloudz

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

We are not robots. We all have our methods and they differ.

You might not realise this, but for a first post, it comes across quite troll like, like so many boys all wanting to know "what's in it for me and my ass". You might want to try addressing the Ladies here with something a little more thought provoking.

- LA

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/12/2005 9:46:28 PM

Carameldomme

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I use it when I want (frequently- when I have a sub to play with) and it's not a punishment.

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/12/2005 10:43:03 PM

perverseangelic

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quote:

ORIGINAL: brightspot
This is correct perverseangelic...Thank You

You're welcome. I didn't want to make too many assumptions, but it seemed the commenter had made more than I was :)

Sounds like y'all have fun *grin*

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/13/2005 12:14:33 PM

MaitresseEden

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Well Said!..

It is more about torturous pleasure than punishment for me, and oooh the power rush.

Ms.Eden

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/13/2005 8:17:51 PM

nephandi

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Some like anal play some dont, it can be done painful or humiliating and can be a kind of punishment i think, my advice is that if the OP wants strapon play he should talk whit his Mistress aboute it and she will deside.

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/17/2005 3:22:47 AM

Vampirelover69

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I agree with the Domme's on this one if you want to have a strap-on used on you just ask, because not everyone is the same and that's what makes it interesting is that each Domme has her own way of doing things and none are alike, some may mimick another Domme's style but they do have their own and some prefer to use a strap-on, some prefer a hand held dildo, and some don't use one at all, like the Domme's who have posted here have said it all depends on their preferences and as one domme quoted "no one mold is made exactly like the other each is different in their own way!"

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RE: How often does a mistress want to use a strapon on ... - 11/19/2005 8:10:06 AM

mistyann

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MsPurrmeow frankly I adore a Woman standing before me wearing a strap-on not for anything more or less of the helplessness and feminine part of my being.
In part a Woman wearing or having it concelled to me is alluring and a reminder of my position beneath her. Yes a huge fetish of mine as are Women in nylons, corsets, girdles, leather and lace.

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