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RE: A new view of service - 7/31/2007 6:36:47 AM

HCWT1

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Service?

I note that most talk first about the physical aspect first.For mine that part comes easy,once youv'e worked out what and how pleases that individual dom.Communication and a little time should see that all comes together.

But whats the point in putting this time in,if the head is in the cloudes.The core values must be in place,one must have directions sorted within ones self,or no matter how much one puts in,there will never be any satisfaction in what one does.

For mine the mental aspect is 90% of what makes pure service work.

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RE: A new view of service - 7/31/2007 7:07:51 AM

MrDiscipline44

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This isn't just a Femdom/malesub problem. I've talked to countless women that are really just hung up on what they will get sexually. And then they disappear faster then a cake in front of a fat girl when they realize they won't be spending the day in a cage or on a pillow waiting to be used for my sexual or sadistic pleasure.

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RE: A new view of service - 7/31/2007 11:24:57 AM

Celeste43

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The funny thing here is that he does car repairs. We both have skills and we utilize them all for the enrichment of the relationship. The important thing about the chores is that the fastest they get done, the more down time we have to just be with each other whether watching tv, mini golfing, or playing more intimately.

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RE: A new view of service - 7/31/2007 12:15:17 PM

BRNaughtyAngel

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I wish I were allowed to do more service oriented things for Him, but because we are two hours apart, it makes it very difficult to jump in the car and run errands and such for Him.

My heart sinks when He calls and we talk about His day and the million things He has to do to get ready to go on the road, etc. because I'd be thrilled to be able take care of those things for Him.

I am planning a little surprise for Him when He leaves in a day or so. He'll be passing through and we plan to spend a little time together.... I'm gonna fix Him a small cooler with sandwiches and good snacks for traveling.