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wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/27/2007 2:56:06 PM

Davep4

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I would like to know why some people are realy rude and take advantage of others who would like to become a sub/slave. I know my age may have a bit to do with it but there has to be a mistress in this area who would take on a person like me. I'm willing to try everything once as long as it will not injure me badly.

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/27/2007 3:42:46 PM

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For myself, it's probably because some of Them think i'm an s.o.b. already.

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/27/2007 4:31:36 PM

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I think you have two issues:

1) People are being rude to you and taking advantage of you.

This is unfortunate. I'm sorry people are being rude to you. You might try to develop some strategies for ending conversations with impolite people. As for people taking advantage of you, perhaps you could learn to be more critical and shrewd--to look at situations and ask whether they're situations you want, and think about whether you'll get what you want.

2) You're not finding a compatible mistress.

That's unfortunate too. That happens, too, and this isn't something unjust, although it's certainly sensible to be sad about it. Desiring something is no guarantee that you will find someone to fulfill your desires. You could think about portraying yourself in a more flattering light, and you could think about relaxing some of your criteria--if, for example, you've been looking for women within a thirty minute drive, look within an hour-long drive. If you've been looking for women who are very canonically attractive, you might consider accepting a few "flaws". I don't know what your criteria are, but I'm sure you have them, and relaxing or sacrificing some would allow a larger "pool" for your search which would give you better odds.

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/27/2007 4:42:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: PairOfDimes

If you've been looking for women who are very canonically attractive, you might consider accepting a few "flaws".

Nice use of the word "canonically"--don't hear that one very often!

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/27/2007 10:39:34 PM

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RESPETED MISTRESS,
PLS ACCEPT MY ROYAL SALUTE,MY MISTRESS PLS MKE ME UR SLAVE,I PROMISE THT I WILL BE UR PET,AND WL BE SEATED AT UR FEET,MISTRESS I WL LICK N SHINE UR FEET N SHOES,IWL BARK AS U ORDER,BELTEDBY UR OWN , UR PET IS REQUESTING TO GIVE HIM ANAME OF PET OF UR CHOICE &n bsp; UR PET

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/28/2007 12:07:41 AM

SweetDommes

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And that's why petslave doesn't can't find someone .....

To the OP - I would suggest expanding your profile. If someone messaged me with a profile as sparse as yours, I'd probably pass them by unless they wrote a VERY good introductory e-mail. That alone will help your chances immensely. Explain what you have to offer (not what you want, but what you can do - for example, are you good at landscaping? cooking? massage? painting? anything that might be useful/desired). Also explain what you are looking for - do you want a committed relationship, or just a casual arrangement - full time or only a few days a week/month - that kind of thing. If you are looking for a long-term, committed relationship, you want to mention your every day interests and hobbies - compatability outside of BDSM is vital if you want a relationship to last.

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/28/2007 2:41:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

For myself, it's probably because some of Them think i'm an s.o.b. already.

chia* (the pet)

LOL I was thinking that I have enough sons of bitches chasing after me, why would I need to have one in regular service to me???!?!?!?!

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/28/2007 2:42:40 AM

MisPandora

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quote:

ORIGINAL: petslave10

RESPETED MISTRESS,
PLS ACCEPT MY ROYAL SALUTE,MY MISTRESS PLS MKE ME UR SLAVE,I PROMISE THT I WILL BE UR PET,AND WL BE SEATED AT UR FEET,MISTRESS I WL LICK N SHINE UR FEET N SHOES,IWL BARK AS U ORDER,BELTEDBY UR OWN , UR PET IS REQUESTING TO GIVE HIM ANAME OF PET OF UR CHOICE &n bsp; UR PET

*thinking to myself that every woman needs a pair of shiny FEET*

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RE: wanting to become a sob/slave for a Mistress - 7/28/2007 12:06:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
For myself, it's probably because some of Them think i'm an s.o.b. already.
chia* (the pet)

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