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AAkasha -> RE: Cock shots in your email - from women! (7/30/2007 4:05:59 PM)
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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued
Akasha,
I honestly don't know what I'd do. It would depend entirely on the domme and what she said along with the strap-on picture. For the most part, as an introduction letter, I would say this is a turn off and it would make me wonder if the sender knew anything about me. In the right context, as a follow-up, this could be quite arousing, but even then I'm not sure I'd want to see the monkey out of the cage before meeting the person and establishing some rapport. I guess I don't eroticize the strap-on itself. This is true of most private body parts - cocks, pussies, clits, assholes, etc. It is the person attached to the appendage that pushes my buttons and this only works once I know that person.
I've seen incredibly sexy photos of dommes with strap-on cocks. When the woman knows how to command the beast, these are really hot. However, when I'm staring at pictures for pornography's sake, my mindset is totally different than when I'm reading an introduction letter. Thus, while it's a nice juxtaposition on the boys, I'd have to give a thumbs down to strap-on pictures in an introduction letter. Still, I won't say this would never work for me. If the domme provided appropriate context and caught my attention with her intelligence and sense of humor, sure, I'd go with it, if only out of curiosity to see the personality behind such an unconventional approach.
You were hoping I'd just start salivating without cognizance right? Oops. Sometimes I think too much. [;)]
Elan.
No, I think the answers have been intersesting and honest, and I appreciate that. The subs that say it would tweak their interest have admitted to that.
In all seriousness, I guess if I knew I had one chance to grasp the attention of a man who I knew did not have much time, or too many emails, I don't deny that the "pic of me in a Strap On" approach would not be one I'd consider trying. If I wanted to snare him as soon as possible. I don't think men should discount that it IS a fairly reliable way to get the attention of a male sub - pure and simple. Sure, there is a chance of having him laugh and delete it and think "oh, she's too trampy for me" - but, c'mon...really? It does depend on the approach of the email.
There are subs out there, yes, that would resist a strong approach by a (stranger) femdom out of the gate, mostly because I think they would write it off as suspicious and not believe it. But I think most submissives would fall hook, line and sinker into a snare where a femdom came off as ambitious, aggressive, in-your-face about her sexuality and quite demanding, right up front. Hell, it's the basis of a HUGE percentage of male fantasies, including vanilla guys! Do I fault them for falling for it? Hell no. It's their wiring.
I will admit that I have used this approach. I have used it in vanilla walks of life, I have used it to "snare" submissives. I have used it when I want to get right to it and get what I want and it's cheap and for thrills. Tell them what they want to hear, paint the picture they need to see, THEN reel them in and work on getting them to submit to *my* desires. Predictable? Completely. Effective? Almost 100! Deep down, many men are excited about the idea that a woman is predatory and has her sights on him. I like being the predator.
Have any submissives been effectively seduced by a woman with a strong, forward approach? I doubt they are complaining if it all came together and she was not just looking for money or gifts.
Imagine if submissives all played hard to get and the numbers were so shifted that femdoms *had* to resort to sending strap on pics to get them to respond? There's a thought!
Akasha
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