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Diving into an empty pool - 6/29/2005 5:36:19 AM

BenignPlague

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Dear curious reader:

I've tried the sending cordial emails route, and found for whatever reason that people often don't even give a courtesy reply. I've put all I need to tell anyone in my profile, if someone is interested, I'll let them contact me from now on. Guess the subject of this post is how I feel people around my age seem to be regarded in the bdsm community. Older community members seem to consider new people either as targets or prey, or insincere and not worth their time. The only Dominant female that made a meeting plan with me (coffee shop somewhere) stood me up without the decency of a phone call. I hear some horror stories of people whose first encounter or relationship was bad because their needs were neglected, and I take every careful step to avoid that as much as possible.

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RE: Diving into an empty pool - 6/29/2005 9:51:25 AM

zaynab

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Hi Plague,
I'm glad that you posted this message to remind me that things may not always go as we would hope. I have a tendency to take everything and everyone at face value, which has not been a very good thing in the past.

But that's just the way things are, so might as well have a sense of humor about it so it doesn't get you down right? Maybe that Dom had some trouble and could not make it or just could not contact you for some reason, never know! But I hope that you enjoyed the 10 cups of coffee you probably drank while you waited for her..... ? *smile

I hope your future meetings with the Dom of your dreams is more successful. Good luck and nice meeting you..... ~ zaynab

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RE: Diving into an empty pool - 6/29/2005 10:04:34 AM

Kinkypupper

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Be patient.. It will happen in the time and in the order that it is ment to..

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RE: Diving into an empty pool - 6/29/2005 10:10:37 AM

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