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The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 1:19:35 PM   
SusanofO


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Have a worthy example of BDSM stupidity? Does some of what you read or see (or even have done yourself) make your head hurt, it was or is - so idiotic? Send it in!

My personal favorite was the guy I read about on the CM boards, who got his brand new shiny Bullwhip in the mail, and was going to give it a full-blown (sans practice) "test run" on his GF that very week-end. Let's hope she is still breathing.

Have I ever, personally made a mistake? It's been awhile, let me think...(seriously, don't get me started. The answer is YES. And I do realize "we all start somewhere" etc.) Do I "just think I know  "everything?" No -I am kinda like Yogi-Berra - I have learned that I know so little at times, that I don't even suspect anything (however, I do reasearch BDSM types of things.)

Am I arrogant? Or just a whiny, victimized Bitch, perhaps - simply for starting this thread?(well personally, I think that's taking things a bit far).

Nor am I trying to induce "competitiveness" (does anyone really have to do that, with some of the Doms - and heck, just plain other people, around? What with the OneTrueWayism we see out there, at times? Maybe this would be a good "outlet" ,even, for some of that - although that isn't the true purpose here (and if someone interprets it that way, it's their choice.) The purpose is humor.

Not everyone who has one is an arrogant jerk, or jerkess.
***I just plain think some stuff is funny (and so do you - admit it).

I definitely realize that "Newbies" (of which I still am one, in many ways) have a right to make mistakes, and are on a steep "learning curve". *Hey - "Newbies" aren't the ones who are doing this kind of stuff - are they now? No. Some of these people are "experienced" Manly, Domly men, and soft-spoken, "obedient" "submissive enough" submissives and slaves, sometimes.   

Anyway - I still think some of what I hear and read is really really, just  - Funny.
*I am actually thinking physical examples, more than emotional ones ("My GD BF beat me up for the 50th time, and I went back to him, and gee whiz,  He just won't learn", etc - those just make me Sad. But those are okay, too).

I just think contemplating stuff like this can be helpful, and pretty instructive, sometimes.

Whew!! There. Now that I have (hopefully) avoided a "Flame-fest" - please feel free to send in your own entry (it can be personal, or just something you read or heard about.)   

**First Prize is a week-end in Malibu, with the partner(s) of your choice - with a new piece of your favorite BDSM equipment included (!!!). Federal, state and local taxes excluded. No mention of first or last names (it's against the TOS).Void where non-consensually prohibited

Entries should be about yourself, or about un-named "others" - "un-named" being the key word here. And also possibly, not a recent experience maybe related to a scene you had with your "best friend"(who may still be on the CM boards.) You understand what I mean...I know you do. 

* Well, I am leaving town, so I gotta go pack (I just thought this might be a fun thread to start).

Have a good week-end, ya'll.

- Susan

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 1:53:39 PM   
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oh geez...I do stupid (and hilarious) stuff all the time.  Tripping over my rope is my most famous trick...All dressed up in my corset, thigh high boots, blah blah blah....beautiful sensual rope scene....oopsie...down I go.  Though I've mentioned that here before.

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 1:59:22 PM   
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There was a thread once on electric play and someone said they like to take an extension cord, cut the plug-in part off then split the cord, plug it in (you know, to a wall socket?) and have one person grab one half and they grab the other half (I'm not sure they would even live through this part) then grab someone else to complete the circuit... they said it was great fun.... I wonder if they're still alive?
 
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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 2:02:20 PM   
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Thanks for entering! I can relate. I can still trip in heels higher than 3 inches (even with "walking practice".) "Grace" is not my middle name.

Yikes!! on that electrical example (we may have a "contender" for First Prize)...I'd much rather try a Tens Unit (aren't they subject to some kind of Safety Standards, being manufactured, and all?) I realize that "Guns don't kill people, people kill people"... but still - you all know what I mean. That's kind of my point.

How far do you go for a thrill? How much "experience" is enough? Does it matter?

I realize some of us are "afflicted" with that infamous, as-yet-elusive-as-far-as-proof-of-its-real existence "T" (as in "Thrill-seeking") gene - perhaps.

That aside - Is there a "bottom-line" as far as exhibiting common sense? Can you buy it somewhere? Where does it come from? How far is "far enough?" - especially if one wants to "Boldly go where no (wo)man has gone before"...

I dunno, you decide.

In the mean-time, (no pun intended) - send in your entries (with your opinions and commentary, if you want).

- Susan

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 3:57:19 PM   
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Hi, I have a 'darwin award' type of scene I heard of or read about a couple of years ago.  It was a bedroom (damsel in destress type) scene with the wife tied up and the husband dressed up as batman.   He jumps off the bed and hits his head on the ceiling fan and gets knocked out.  The wife is still tied up (and probably calling out for help.)  The neighbors hear her and break in their place and untie her. They had a lot of explaining to do.  I wonder if they moved after all this.
later,G.

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 4:17:58 PM   
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wow...where to start...well I remember when I first started, I was all "dressed" up...had him tied to a chair telling him in very strict terms how bad he's been and how he was going to be punished, then I walked from carpet to floor......then...well...I saw what my ceiling looked like...lol

the first time I EVER did anything, when I was about 20, I had my b/f all tied, bent over his weight bench....I didn't know what bdsm was (we thought we invented this stuff...lol)   sooooooo....of course didn't have a strap on, didn't even know there were such things....but I "did" have my handy dandy pocket, lipstick sized vibrator....well...maaaaybeeeee I pushed a little too far????  and it kind of ...er...disappeared, shall we say?    fortunately, he finally, er pushed it out, after he stopped panicking.....hmmmmm....wonders why we broke up soon after that?  hmmmm

LOL

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 5:28:34 PM   
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About a month or two ago LadyEllen wrote a similar thread. I'm just going to post a link to it and reference my story (post 10) hereafter called 'Blood on the Lanai"

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1077802/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm 

Shoes are my downfall in more than one perspective. Sigh. Wish me luck in wearing the new 5inch stilettoes I'm wearing out tonight.

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 6:32:22 PM   
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Apparently agreeing to the cloning experiment was a BIG mistake!

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 6:39:17 PM   
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Darwin awards are supposed to be things that get the people killed, or nearly so.

My lady and I were dating one of her coworkers back in January. It only lasted a couple months, but during that time my grandmother died. At the funeral I began to introduce Phoenix to all my aunts and uncles for the first time. . .useing our girlfriends name. Shall we say that she was less than amused, and I wonder how I am still alive today.

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 6:56:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KiandPhoenix

Darwin awards are supposed to be things that get the people killed, or nearly so.

My lady and I were dating one of her coworkers back in January. It only lasted a couple months, but during that time my grandmother died. At the funeral I began to introduce Phoenix to all my aunts and uncles for the first time. . .useing our girlfriends name. Shall we say that she was less than amused, and I wonder how I am still alive today.


Don't know about everyone else, but this just killed me.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 7:02:28 PM   
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To win the Darwin Award, one merely has to themselves OUT of the gene pool. This can be done "either" by death, or simply eliminating the means to procreate, (either way preventing you from passing the idiot gene into the next generation). However, if you are REALLY REALLY publicly stupid, and EVERYONE knows it, they would realize you were too dangerous to play with, (let alone have sex with). I suppose that could also take you out of the gene pool too, since no one else will have sex with you. So "yes" being really really stupid "could" have a Darwinian Effect  ...unless

...It could make things worse since it COULD be that ONLY a more stupid person would be willing to have sex with you. In which case you could actually generate SUPER IDIOT kids, and since they too would be  too stupid to know how many kids they could support, then it would be a snowball effect on a worldwide scale and be an even greater threat than global warming!

THE MORONS ARE FALLING, THE MORONS ARE FALLING!

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 7:19:56 PM   
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Ms Jo, you win the award as far as I am concerned.
I am glad you were not seriously hurt, wonderful story.

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 8:37:39 PM   
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I heard this one years ago: Pro Domme shows up at a party on a yacht, slave for the night in tow. He has on 6" heels, and his Prince Albert piercing is tied to his collar. Of course, the inevitable does happen.
Joseff

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 8:42:18 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Joseff

I heard this one years ago: Pro Domme shows up at a party on a yacht, slave for the night in tow. He has on 6" heels, and his Prince Albert piercing is tied to his collar. Of course, the inevitable does happen.
Joseff


Now this one made me cringe and cross my legs...and I'm female.

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 8:42:49 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: KiandPhoenix

Darwin awards are supposed to be things that get the people killed, or nearly so.

My lady and I were dating one of her coworkers back in January. It only lasted a couple months, but during that time my grandmother died. At the funeral I began to introduce Phoenix to all my aunts and uncles for the first time. . .useing our girlfriends name. Shall we say that she was less than amused, and I wonder how I am still alive today.


Don't know about everyone else, but this just killed me.

chia* (the pet)


Sometimes you really crack me up

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 8:47:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ShiftedJewel

There was a thread once on electric play and someone said they like to take an extension cord, cut the plug-in part off then split the cord, plug it in (you know, to a wall socket?) and have one person grab one half and they grab the other half (I'm not sure they would even live through this part) then grab someone else to complete the circuit... they said it was great fun.... I wonder if they're still alive?
 
Jewel


that's more of a "Here's Your Sign" type of situation...LOL


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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 9:38:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

About a month or two ago LadyEllen wrote a similar thread. I'm just going to post a link to it and reference my story (post 10) hereafter called 'Blood on the Lanai"

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1077802/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm 

Shoes are my downfall in more than one perspective. Sigh. Wish me luck in wearing the new 5inch stilettoes I'm wearing out tonight.


Jo, you win---hands down.
I have read this story at least 5 times, I think I was too stunned to even comment.
Why didn't you take the damn howdy doody shoes off????
This is THE funniest story I have ever read on here.
You are way too cute.

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/3/2007 11:43:11 PM   
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The guy who settled a domestic row at a vanilla party, that had allegedly touched rather critically on the taste of his semen. To prove the point, he stomped off to the bathroom, grabbed a tube of toothpaste and returned to the lounge, where he slammed the end against his erection and squeezed half the tube down his uretha, announcing any future ejaculation would taste minty fresOMFGARARRRGHGHGH..... #999 "Ambulance please"

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/4/2007 1:00:20 AM   
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Clarification: I don't think entering this contest makes someone a "One-True-Way(er)". Arguments about the "One True Way" to do a given BDSM activity are related to "correct methodology" (that, and sometimes, big egos).

As opposed to: Scenes between people who seem devoid of common sense, and-or have experience and-or educational training about how to do a BDSM activity,  "One True Way" arguments can be between people who do in fact, possess good judgment - and these people can sometimes also argue about the "safest way" to do some BDSM activity (*and those arguments, IMO, may actually be worth listening to, at times.) 

I doubt there have been any "One True Way" arguments, ever, though, about how to do, for instance: "Correct breathplay" with an Asthmatic who also has a head-cold. Without having much prior experience, and-or without some kind of medical "resuscitation equipment" on hand.

I mean about "How to learn to do: Quickie insta-breathplay-without-knowing-how-to-revive-your-partner" (should anything go wrong.)

Hey, what could go wrong? Besides, it's just not that difficult. Really. If you just want it enough. 

Wait. I take that back. I think possibly, somewhere along the line, there have been arguments between people about the "correct" way to accomplish that.

Anyway, it doesn't matter. 

People devoid of common sense, and-or brains they seem able to employ within BDSM scenes do exist, whether they are "One True Wayers", or not (let's pray for them.)

I hope ya'll continue to enter. It's meant in fun.

Thanks for entering!

- Susan 

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RE: The BDSM Darwin Awards - got a favorite? - 8/4/2007 1:48:36 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: bluewagon122

Hi, I have a 'darwin award' type of scene I heard of or read about a couple of years ago.  It was a bedroom (damsel in destress type) scene with the wife tied up and the husband dressed up as batman.   He jumps off the bed and hits his head on the ceiling fan and gets knocked out.  The wife is still tied up (and probably calling out for help.)  The neighbors hear her and break in their place and untie her. They had a lot of explaining to do.  I wonder if they moved after all this.
later,G.


I've heard this one a few times over the years also. It even made Snopes.
http://www.snopes.com/risque/kinky/hero.asp

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