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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/4/2007 8:53:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: huendin

Are you meaner to less of good looking slaves than more of good looking ones? I understand that not everone is completely shallow so I'm just curious if this affects your decions at all as a mistress.


I am kinder to the less attractive because they dont get as many breakes in life as the good looking ones.

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/4/2007 9:53:16 PM   
interestingtimes


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Status: offline 		dam now I wont be able to sleep lol, you said all of that so eloquently I'm hoping my domme shows simlar interests...

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/4/2007 10:30:36 PM   
evilgoodsub23


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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 12:06:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: interestingtimes

dam now I wont be able to sleep lol, you said all of that so eloquently I'm hoping my domme shows simlar interests...


You and bossyladypam have the same .....mind! ....I agree with the sentiments of both of you..... she must really love how you agree with her often....and if I were that lovely 'woman' I would be honored to have you.....

[twinkle]

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 1:25:35 PM   
HCWT1


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Status: offline 		Many a good tune has been played on a rustic fiddle.Just because its got polish missing here and there,would you smash it.

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 1:27:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: huendin

Are you meaner to less of good looking slaves than more of good looking ones? I understand that not everone is completely shallow so I'm just curious if this affects your decions at all as a mistress.



Looks do not play a role...however not having a personality does.

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 1:33:41 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		I think over all in society, if one had 2 equally competent people apply for a certain position, then the  more attractive of the 2 would be chosen..of course with that being said, eye of the beholder and all that also comes into play..Tempting

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 1:49:09 PM   
BBBTBW


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Status: offline 		Since beauty is in the eye of the beholder, then yes attractiveness does matter.  I treat everyone with a measure of respect.  However that is not to say that because I treat one person one way and another person another way that I respect either one any more than the other.  I respect them differently.

If we took a few members of the Ocean's team and lined them up, who would I put in order of most attractive

1 Elliot Gould (be still my heart)
2 Don Cheadle
3 Casey Affleck
These would be my top 3.  The other heart throbs...ehh, everyone loves them.  Give me the UNDERDOGS anyday. 

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 2:47:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		IN REGARDS TO: do looks count in a slave?. . . .
WELL ; WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK !!!!!! SLAVO, !!AND /OR  MASSA  ? ! ! !
,but....thank god;''beauty is in the eyes-''

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 2:58:32 PM   
spankingman7


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Status: offline 		If the Submissive is very honest in his/her role then looks can be over looked, but what gets to me are the body odours from some of the Submissives. As an experience Dom of over 25 years, I cannot understand why people do not shower before seeing a Dom. All my Submissives for the past 20 years have been referrals . This is a safe  way to go. I had some real beauties in the first five years. All my Submissives ( Females ) are using my spanking/strapping sessions for stress release and it works . All these ladies are business ladies under a great deal of stress. The male submissives are truly submissives . Hope what I have share will help all of you. Good luck.

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 3:23:07 PM   
jamesthehumanrug


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Status: offline 		dear top transexual
in regards to youre doing favors for the less attractive bottoms ....I KNOW ,WHEN I'M GETTING FAVORS!
THANKS.....
but, i often see favors handed out the same way ,to desperate slaves ,or those who have no top mistress or dom.
sometimes tops handout cruelty like after dinner mints, when they are out in circles and everyone knows the one sub is alone and it has more to do ,w/ a sub having no top (no delivery ) ,than looks ,if they get top favors......
IE:
I WILL HAVE TO SPIT ON THIS GUY- the lone sub  , W/NO ONE ,NONE OWN HIM /HER ;EVERYONE KNOWS (it's ,almost a compassionate tops' obligation)
the obvious sub  IS AN UN-ESCORTED; FRUSTRATED KINKO &,HE,OR SHE  WILL NEVER GET  IT ,in 'VANILLA -LAND.'

< Message edited by jamesthehumanrug -- 8/5/2007 3:25:21 PM >

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 4:22:21 PM   
transsexual


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Status: offline 		some long intensive therapy in addition to cognitive behavior therapy would help you.

and, you're welcome, anytime rug (older) man.

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/5/2007 6:55:25 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		this is true i think it is about chemistry and looks everyones appeal is really deferent..

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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/6/2007 12:05:22 AM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		It's the eyebrows, isn't it?

A little too bushy?

Go ahead, you can be honest.

Or the tail, maybe it's the tail, huh?

chia* (the pet)



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RE: Do looks affect how you view a submissive? - 8/7/2007 12:10:57 AM   
MsSophie


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Status: offline 		Of course looks matter! At least when you're mentally preparing your "shopping list" for a new partner.
My own shopping list would be for a tall, muscular, masculine, handsome man with long (well kept) dark hair. Funny how life tends to throw short, fat, middle aged and bald men (who I fall madly in love with) my way!
:)


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