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Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:01:19 AM   
Bobkgin


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From: Kawarthas, Ontario, Canada
Status: offline 		Not for the first time do I find my line of thinking out of step with the mainstream bdsm community.

It is always interesting, after avoiding the community for a while, to test the waters and see how people respond.

Sadly, there is very little change in the past 15-20 years.

Some of us are born to walk alone, with as little to do with community as possible.

I'm one of them.

Best wishes to all in their search. Thanks for the input.
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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:03:05 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Oh I get it now.  You are so much more enlightened than the rest of us. 
Good luck.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:07:49 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		what the fuck is with the (o.O) shit alla time?

does it mean out of order or what?

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:09:39 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Is it supposed to be his enlightened eyeballs staring beadily at us?

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:11:24 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Well, Elvis is certainly taking his own sweet time to leave the building, I know that.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:13:43 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Maybe he requires a singing fat lady.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:16:55 AM   
Rumtiger


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Maybe he requires a singing fat lady.



To many fucking easy bits of prey in that joke opening.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:18:09 AM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Ya'll better be nice!

He's makin a list and checkin it twice!

Bobkgin, i'm sure we've all felt seperate and alone from the "mainstream"
BDSM community, whatever that is, from time to time. Be unique, that
is a good thing, but don't hold expectations that others are somehow out
of step because they don't walk "your" walk. Smiles everyone Smiles!

chia* (the pet)

< Message edited by chiaThePet -- 8/4/2007 6:29:06 AM >

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:18:30 AM   
MHOO314


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Status: offline 		How odd, I am very familiar with the community in the Ontario region,  and though there are some extremists, they are pretty much from the old days as they say---I would have thought he would have no trouble finding someone up there.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:20:24 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Aw Chia...you're so sweet.  I'm just bitchy this morning because I fucked up my shoulder five days ago and I still have shooting pains down my arms.  I'll be nicer this morning.  Maybe.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:24:06 AM   
Rumtiger


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Status: offline 		nah, your better bitchy. if you get too nice then it gets hard for me to be good n honost.

and then I have to be a total bastard just to get you right again.

it's fucking hard work damnit, stop making me fucking work!

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:24:47 AM   
ThinkingKitten


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Status: offline 		That's going to depend entirely on your own personal definition of "mainstream" and "BDSM community".  I could easily define the latter, for instance, as ranging from the het vanilla couple who like some kinky sex to keep things going, to the totally out-there edge players doing things that would make my toes curl if I even heard of it. Maybe you define it as only those card-carrying members of private play dungeons.
 
If you're not finding what you want in the "mainstream", then stop looking there. Your post comes across though as a self-pity party condemning all the folks here as black and white (figuratively, not literally), when really the entire rainbow is represented.
 
Self-righteous isolationism ain't attractive. I hope you are able to sort it all out somehow.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:28:30 AM   
SeeksOnlyOne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Maybe he requires a singing fat lady.


::::clears throat and breaks into song::::::

lawd its hard to be humble.....when yer perfect in every wayyyyyyyyyyy

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:32:00 AM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Aw Chia...you're so sweet.  I'm just bitchy this morning because I fucked up my shoulder five days ago and I still have shooting pains down my arms.  I'll be nicer this morning.  Maybe.


Nice with a sting of sarcasm always works for me!

About those shooting pains, have you tried standing erect?

chia* (the pet) 

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:34:14 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		I've tried it all.  Got an appointment with a friend whose a massage therapist this afternoon to see what's what.

edited to add...hahahaha I'm so fucking slow this morning.  stand erect.  good joke.  my pic.  yeah.  I get it now.  Bad chia.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:37:18 AM   
chiaThePet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

I've tried it all.  Got an appointment with a friend whose a massage therapist this afternoon to see what's what.

edited to add...hahahaha I'm so fucking slow this morning.  stand erect.  good joke.  my pic.  yeah.  I get it now.  Bad chia.


MMMMMMMMMMMM Hands all over the body, LOVE that!

Good luck luv, hope you can overcome quickly.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:37:27 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		i would think with the dawn of the internet, the BDSM community would have experienced quite a bit of change, certainly in size. What is was the community like 20-25 years ago?

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:40:45 AM   
HCWT1


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Status: offline 		Thinks,is it not better to keep ones mouth shut,and let people think your an idiot,than to open it and comfirm the matter!.Not for the (OP) only.

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:40:55 AM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		Good point dawntreader!  I'm still trying to figure out what his definition of is mainstream BDSM is?

< Message edited by beargonewild -- 8/4/2007 6:41:39 AM >

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RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) - 8/4/2007 6:49:14 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		Thanks bear! Yours is a good question as well! Perhaps when those questions are answered, we can figure out what  point the OP is trying to get across. From his journals, he seems pretty satisfied with CM, so i don't get this thread. Also, like Ron, i want to know what o.O is.

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