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TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Swimming upstream, again (o.O) (8/4/2007 12:30:06 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Bobkgin
Not for the first time do I find my line of thinking out of step with the mainstream bdsm community.
It is always interesting, after avoiding the community for a while, to test the waters and see how people respond.
Sadly, there is very little change in the past 15-20 years.
Some of us are born to walk alone, with as little to do with community as possible.
I'm one of them.
Best wishes to all in their search. Thanks for the input.
Surprisingly enough, I find that most male Dominants have a tendency toward a more isolationist mind set.They have "lone wolf" syndrome.., so hence you are no different. Absolutely you have been flamed here on collarme ,on a few threads..You also need to know that we all have at one time or another had this happen. Usually there is very little touchy feely emotions running upon here, very little political correct responses..but you will get utter brutal honesty,a huge amount of teasing,with a lot of confrontational undertones.Look upon it as some testing the Bobkgin waters, we are looking at you and how you handle yourself, how consistent you are,how much you impart to these threads and maybe,,just maybe be able to impart a new thought process to you as well..But sadly enough there are times when many cannot or will not have the patience to stick it out.. We are not here to meet with your expectations. In essence I am saying all things take patience.If you have it, then welcome. If not,then run back to the safety of what you know and can fully control..Tempting
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