RE: Posting history

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Posting history

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Posting history

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Posting history - 8/5/2007 7:17:19 PM

thetammyjo

Posts: 6322
Joined: 9/8/2005
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Ladies,
Does how a fellow carries himself here in the forums (or on the boards of other sites) have any bearing on your consideration of him if he were to approach you with personal interest?

Absolutely.

Similar to his behavior at munches or workshops would impact me.

In fact, just posting in the forums, even if he's a total jerk, creates a more positive image in my mind than someone who never posts. It would be a very very very very slight positive but still someone who is willing and able to be a bit out is a huge plus in my world.

Similarly someone who won't meet me at a munch or a workshop is automatically out of the running in meatlife.

I'm out, I can't have people in my family who aren't comfortable being seen in public or talking in public.

_____________________________

Love, Peace, Hugs, Kisses, Whips & Chains,

TammyJo

Check out my website at http://www.thetammyjo.com Or www.tammyjoeckhart.com

And my LJ where I post fiction in progress if you "friend" me at http://thetammyjo.livejournal.com/

(in reply to MisPandora)

Post #: 41

RE: Posting history - 8/5/2007 9:24:46 PM

Lordandmaster

Posts: 10943
Joined: 6/22/2004
Status: offline

No wonder they all love me...

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Interesting -- 100% respond yes it's a factor.

(in reply to MisPandora)

Post #: 42

RE: Posting history - 8/5/2007 9:36:36 PM

MySweetSubmssive

Posts: 1139
Joined: 2/7/2006
From: Lehigh Valley, PA
Status: offline

I would be curious to know what percentage of people on CM post on the boards. Five percent? One? There are very few people local to me who post on the boards. Lordandmaster is one, but for obvious reasons (I'm allergic to elephants), I've never pursued him.

Now I make friends through the boards, but those people tend to be from such far-flung places that we will most likely remain friends and not more.

MSS

_____________________________

"Oh, James, you're such a cunning linguist."

--Miss Moneypenny

(in reply to Lordandmaster)

Post #: 43

RE: Posting history - 8/5/2007 9:41:43 PM

RWAble

Posts: 282
Joined: 1/5/2007
Status: offline

Well I post alot and I was born where you live. But heck, I don't do winters anymore. Stay away from 5th street...lol.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive

I would be curious to know what percentage of people on CM post on the boards. Five percent? One? There are very few people local to me who post on the boards. Lordandmaster is one, but for obvious reasons (I'm allergic to elephants), I've never pursued him.

Now I make friends through the boards, but those people tend to be from such far-flung places that we will most likely remain friends and not more.

MSS

_____________________________

When the Yankees leave Florida, then we can be free.

Life is a voyage, not a destination.

(in reply to MySweetSubmssive)

Post #: 44

RE: Posting history - 8/5/2007 9:43:50 PM

MisPandora

Posts: 2911
Joined: 4/7/2004
From: Philadelphia, PA
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

In fact, just posting in the forums, even if he's a total jerk, creates a more positive image in my mind than someone who never posts. It would be a very very very very slight positive but still someone who is willing and able to be a bit out is a huge plus in my world.

Similarly someone who won't meet me at a munch or a workshop is automatically out of the running in meatlife.

I'm out, I can't have people in my family who aren't comfortable being seen in public or talking in public.

I'm in a similar position. While I'd be ok with pulling back the reins on the wagon a wee bit, I've found enjoyment in going to scene events and would want to continue doing that with a new prospect. I don't expect him to go sharing with his boss that he's his GF/wife's slave et al (like my ex did....the doofus) but.....I have similar expectations as far as the willingness to meet me in certain realms goes.

_____________________________

Pandora
Ms World Leather 2004
Ms Philadelphia Leather 2004

"Simply put, if you want a real femdom to love you, give her reasons to love you." Gloria Brame

(in reply to thetammyjo)

Post #: 45

RE: Posting history - 8/5/2007 9:53:57 PM

FullfigRIMaam

Posts: 718
Joined: 6/21/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet
i would like to take this opportunity to inform the wonderful, glorious and
most beautiful Dommes here at the blessed "Ask A Mistress" forum, that
my evil twin "pet rock" has been logging onto my account here and going
haywire in my name. i do humbly apologize profusely for such.
chia* (the pet)

LOLOL This just made me laugh... Sounds a lot like the dominant profile saying he's always been submissive. M

_____________________________

"touching was and still is and will always be the true revolution" Nikki Giovanni
"Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence." Erich Fromm

(in reply to chiaThePet)

Post #: 46

RE: Posting history - 8/6/2007 4:13:46 AM

came4U

Posts: 3572
Joined: 1/23/2007
From: London, Ontario
Status: offline

ok, there is my answer..yep, I see the rabbit, me paranoid LOL.

(in reply to FullfigRIMaam)

Post #: 47

RE: Posting history - 8/7/2007 11:00:13 PM

Aimtoplease101

Posts: 319
Joined: 2/8/2006
From: San Diego, California
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: queencaliph

Yes, how people act when they feel they have anonymity is often more telling than how they act in person.

Here, here! Character is what you do when you think no one is watching.

ATP

_____________________________

Pleasing you pleases me.

(in reply to queencaliph)

Post #: 48

RE: Posting history - 8/7/2007 11:04:13 PM

Aimtoplease101

Posts: 319
Joined: 2/8/2006
From: San Diego, California
Status: offline

One of the very interesting phenomenon of these cyber forums is that the first impression you get of people is often from the form and content of their postings.

People like to say that love is blind, and that they are more attracted to a person's intelligence, character, humor, etc., than to the person's physical features. On the boards, that very well may hold true, because you get to "know" someone from their posts-- generally speaking-- long before you have an in-person interaction.

Regards, ATP

_____________________________

Pleasing you pleases me.

(in reply to thetammyjo)

Post #: 49

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 6:52:25 AM

SunNMoon

Posts: 1058
Joined: 3/18/2007
Status: offline

On the topic of the op, yes it does matter. I have at times gone to the other side and made a note in their profile. I normally only do that when they have done something negative.

Now on the subject of not posting, well it doesn’t seem to be a lot of people on the CM that post over here. I don’t look at as a negative, since they might not know about it. Or they could be shy or not have a lot to add. Which I find myself doing on occasion.

(in reply to Aimtoplease101)

Post #: 50

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 8:21:59 AM

BossyShoeBitch

Posts: 3931
Joined: 1/13/2007
From: South Florida
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

Ladies,
Does how a fellow carries himself here in the forums (or on the boards of other sites) have any bearing on your consideration of him if he were to approach you with personal interest?

Absolutely! I started flirting with Michael because of the way he carries himself here in the forums. 5 months later we could star in a sappy (albeit kinky!) chick flick!

_____________________________

A clever man can get out of situations a wise man never gets into...
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

(in reply to MisPandora)

Post #: 51

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 8:24:18 AM

instynctive

Posts: 2726
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
Absolutely! I started flirting with Michael because of the way he carries himself here in the forums. 5 months later we could star in a sappy (albeit kinky!) chick flick!

I'd go see that one in the theatre..

...and openly cry, of course.. :-)

_____________________________

We're Back

Lifestyle-friendly web hosting and design: http://kinkyqueer.net

(in reply to BossyShoeBitch)

Post #: 52

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 8:31:15 AM

BossyShoeBitch

Posts: 3931
Joined: 1/13/2007
From: South Florida
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: instynctive

quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
Absolutely! I started flirting with Michael because of the way he carries himself here in the forums. 5 months later we could star in a sappy (albeit kinky!) chick flick!

I'd go see that one in the theatre..

...and openly cry, of course.. :-)

You know, that's not a bad idea.. I wonder what the title of the movie would be? Hmmmm...

_____________________________

A clever man can get out of situations a wise man never gets into...
A pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.

(in reply to instynctive)

Post #: 53

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 9:03:46 AM

instynctive

Posts: 2726
Status: offline

Ummm...

"Season's Beatings"
"When Michael Beat Lisa"
"50 Flogging Dates"
"Whip It"
"Desperately Beating Lisa"
"The Truth About Whips and Chains"
"Pretty Tied Up Woman"

Just some ideas...

_____________________________

We're Back

Lifestyle-friendly web hosting and design: http://kinkyqueer.net

(in reply to BossyShoeBitch)

Post #: 54

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 10:07:17 AM

SimplyMichael

Posts: 7229
Joined: 1/7/2007
Status: offline

"When Michael Met Lisa"

(in reply to instynctive)

Post #: 55

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 5:50:05 PM

petdave

Posts: 2479
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aimtoplease101
Here, here! Character is what you do when you think no one is watching.

ATP

Character is picking your nose?

i can't help that i have big fingers

(in reply to Aimtoplease101)

Post #: 56

RE: Posting history - 8/8/2007 8:26:07 PM

feralcat

Posts: 116
Joined: 10/22/2005
Status: offline

Actually one of the first things I would do after getting an "interesting" email was to check and see if / what he posted on the forums. If he posted at all he got points in my book. It is great to be able to read about someone,other than the well thoughtout (ok,I know I am reaching here hahaha) email he sent me.

It also helps me to see what we might have in common.Ego strokes are nice,if they are sincere.

I also advise my friends to read up on forum posts to help "find" someone too.

I am lucky to have found rook. As most of the women here know it is not at all easy!

(in reply to MisPandora)

Post #: 57

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: Posting history

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.094