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Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 8:30:50 AM

BIllCT

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I must admit my posts have been silly many of them and it seems like a game for many here. But the truth is I am asking the questions so newbies and others who have no knowledge or experience in D/s or BDSM can find the answers thats number one. Number two to get people to interact with each other in all ways possible is why I posted them.
If My doing so upset people or caused concern or anger in the forums and among anyone in CM I apologize here and Now!

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 8:36:55 AM

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I've not posted in your threads because unfortunately you do come across as seeking titallating (sp) bits instead of real discussion.
You seemed to be directing everything towards fem subs in a way that asked for very personal responses.

Thanks tho for the apology, that can be rare on the forums!

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 8:58:49 AM

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I don't know that you've actually upset anyone. It was more that, like camille said, they didn't seem like you wanted to actually discuss anything, especially since I never saw you offer your opinion.

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 9:07:53 AM

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Exactly how will newbies find your questions a week from now when they are buried under all the new threads? There is no clear label on their topics to do a search for them, and because of your plethora and tone of them, the responses you ended up getting are all fairly worthless anyway.

I don't think any of your posts caused anything other than bemused interest for a weekend.

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 9:09:57 AM

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I agree with LA, they sounded more like sneaky ads to Me---

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 9:20:01 AM

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Yep totally agree, with this effort being another one

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 9:22:52 AM

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It's good advice, to newbies, to jump in with both feet...... in response to existing threads.

With the exception of Polls and Random Stupidity, new threads really should only be started when you actually have something to say, or a genuine sincere question. Honestly, I haven't seen either out of you.

Stephan

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 9:27:03 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Stephann

It's good advice, to newbies, to jump in with both feet...... in response to existing threads.

With the exception of Polls and Random Stupidity, new threads really should only be started when you actually have something to say, or a genuine sincere question. Honestly, I haven't seen either out of you.

Stephan

*cough cough cough...... that was in reply to me?

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 9:31:19 AM

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I was honestly replying and apoligizing for saying things that really made no sense to some and seemed silly.
And it wa sno effort to find a submissive or anyone else, just an apology ok!

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 9:42:29 AM

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People here, both new and experience, mostly learn and share when genuine questions are asked by individuals. I don't ask questions so others can learn. I am asking because ~I~ am curious or confused or ignorant or need advice. If others gain insight or knowledge or laughs from my questions, then all the better!

I think many of us have a healthy curiosity as to how others think or feel on certain topics, but if your questions are meant as anything other than attempts to draw attention to yourself, then most of them would be better answered by the submissive(s) you interact with on a personal basis. If you are having difficult finding one, then do some self examination as to why.

Quite frankly, and I don't say this to be rude, but you come across as irritating and desperate with all of these threads.

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 10:09:11 AM

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After a week or two, your posts will have disappeared from the Radar unless you bump them, which is against TOS and will get you on moderation from the Mods.

Your questions don't really 'help' new people, because they are slightly pointless and badly phrased. They are confusing. And they are myth builders.

Your not upsetting anyone, just taking up bandwidth with annoying and slightly, seemingly desperate, questions and moving the more thoughtful and personal questions to the bottom of the pile. It is causing more harm to the genuine questions and is thoughtless to others.

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 10:21:31 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Exactly how will newbies find your questions a week from now when they are buried under all the new threads? There is no clear label on their topics to do a search for them, and because of your plethora and tone of them, the responses you ended up getting are all fairly worthless anyway.

I don't think any of your posts caused anything other than bemused interest for a weekend.

<<<---what L.A. said
I also found them a tad demanding, I was more amused by those that actually answered all of them.
How many posts did you create over the weekend? 50?
What were you trying to accomplish here?

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 10:23:19 AM

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Darcy? people bump up posts every day around here, how is that against TOS?

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 10:27:18 AM

RCdc

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Hi MzMia
*its dark not Darcy*

Answering and responding on your own thread is different from bumping and the Mods are pretty strict on a obvious 'bump'.
Ask Mistress Dread...

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the.dark.

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 10:29:22 AM

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Ahhh, thank you dark, for the clarification.
I am guility of often answering and responding on my own threads.

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What's your favorite fetish?
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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 10:31:11 AM

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You are most welcome!

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 11:27:34 AM

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Newbies are preyed upon by people who are "concerned" about newbies. As for discussion, that again isn't anything we need help with here. Why not speak deeply about your own growth and the struggles you have had, THAT is something we never get enough of.

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 11:36:36 AM

BIllCT

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Growth over the years has taken a slow and painful process actually now that you mention that. Because growth can only happen if you directly involved in the lifestyle with a full time partner. Each step is touchy learning first that as the Dom you must remain in control of yourself and the situation your in and the submissive your with. Then learning the use of each toy, impliment, device can be pretty touchy too, unless you don't care about what your doing and rush in.
For instance, a tens unit and a violet wand for electric play, these devices can severly damage a person if used wrong or in the wrong place on the body, causing heart problems is not a way to a good time.
Also, impliments for spanking or whipping or cropping, takes a while to learn how to use each one, so your not inflcting damage on anyone and to pop em properly and control em. Same with cuffs which everyone wants to use and thinks are so hot to play with but if you don't double lock them they can hard someone also.

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RE: Apology to ALL! - 8/6/2007 11:43:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BIllCT

Growth over the years has taken a slow and painful process actually now that you mention that. Because growth can only happen if you directly involved in the lifestyle with a full time partner.

Bill -- I have to disagree with you. A dominant doesn't just start learning the moment they take on a submissive. He or she had best get in the game and start learning and growing before they try to take on a submissive, for both of their sakes. The only thing stopping you from getting involved locally and learning and growing is YOU and preconceived notions that you might possess within. Perhaps you're not meant to take someone on until you learn this?

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RE: Apology to ALL!/ MIssPandora - 8/6/2007 11:49:48 AM

BIllCT

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All respect to you Mame, but, I was saying that it is a process we all have to go thru to 1) learn about all the lifestyle involves. 2) Learn about what the submissive's want and need or desire. 3) Learn how to use each toy, tool or impliment even the oils or waxes that so many take for granted as we grow. I grew many years ago actually, sometimes I express or state what I meanin the wrong way and it is misconveyed or misunderstood. I did not mean what you thought I did.

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