Celeste43 -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/27/2007 8:52:29 AM)
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It is not uncommon for people who feel worthless in their interpersonal relationships to not get the energy to change things until and unless they are getting support from someone else. However the better place to get support is not a woman who is ready to move on with her life. The best place is with a therapist. If you really care for this woman, then dumping all your unhappiness on her at a time when you don't know what you want is not the right thing to do. Go to marriage counselling. If your wife won't attend, then go by yourself. Find out what you need to stay in the marriage, hopefully your wife will find out what she needs also. If you can fulfill each other's needs you can try again. If you can't then you can leave without hatred. Wait until you're over your present issues before dating again. Because wherever you go, you will be dragging your baggage with you. Get the help you need to pack the baggage away from someone qualified to help, not from someone with her own issues.
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