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LaTigresse -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/27/2007 6:47:43 PM)

Oh, and don't be surprised if the two women begin talking to one another and gang up on you. I've seen that happen more than once also.




Lordandmaster -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/27/2007 6:50:35 PM)

What's wrong with fucking a widow?

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ORIGINAL: bschwimmer

Even if you are married and she is a widow




DrkJourney -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/27/2007 7:13:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh, and don't be surprised if the two women begin talking to one another and gang up on you. I've seen that happen more than once also.


so true, and that's when it will get uuuuuuuuuugleeeeeeee




LaTigresse -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/28/2007 7:11:51 AM)

Yes, and the evil bitch in me almost wants to encourage him to continue on as he is, with the stipulation of journaling the whole thing for all of us to read...........




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/28/2007 12:18:50 PM)

why so evil?




Tarisa -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/28/2007 1:27:13 PM)

okay thats it !  I'm going to be in LB tonite.. want me to come over and spill the beans to the Mrs????? I can bring a bottle of wine...We can all sit down like adults.  This charade needs to end hehe




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/28/2007 2:14:38 PM)

ok as long as u take me in after




Tarisa -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/28/2007 2:24:35 PM)

No can do.  Guess you aren't telling her. 




Celeste43 -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/28/2007 3:33:44 PM)

If after a year, nothing has changed between you then my suggestion is to quit joint therapy and go to a therapist for yourself.

As far as offspring go, divorce is hard on them. However do you want your son raised to believe that marriage is something without love, where all you do is hurt each other? Better to separate and end the arguments. I suggest single therapy, and speaking to a lawyer and accountant to get things in order.

Honestly, you don't need her to make changes. You can make changes yourself. If when she starts arguing you do not respond, merely say in a calm tone that you will not tolerate being spoken to like that, and then hang up if a phone call, walk out of the room/house if at home, she will have to change simply because you won't be there to fight with.

Make plans for the weekend of things to do with your son, and just do them. You don't need her permission to go to the park/play frisbee/play minigolf/go on a picnic/visit grandma. And start doing things for yourself with friends and family. You need to strengthen your support system.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/28/2007 5:25:44 PM)

Is it just me, or is anyone else here seeing a very strong resemblence to bschwimmer and his avatar/icon pic?  It is seriously freaking me out.(teasing)




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/29/2007 7:01:35 AM)

omg my avatar is looking and feeling better these days




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/29/2007 7:02:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

If after a year, nothing has changed between you then my suggestion is to quit joint therapy and go to a therapist for yourself.

As far as offspring go, divorce is hard on them. However do you want your son raised to believe that marriage is something without love, where all you do is hurt each other? Better to separate and end the arguments. I suggest single therapy, and speaking to a lawyer and accountant to get things in order.

Honestly, you don't need her to make changes. You can make changes yourself. If when she starts arguing you do not respond, merely say in a calm tone that you will not tolerate being spoken to like that, and then hang up if a phone call, walk out of the room/house if at home, she will have to change simply because you won't be there to fight with.

Make plans for the weekend of things to do with your son, and just do them. You don't need her permission to go to the park/play frisbee/play minigolf/go on a picnic/visit grandma. And start doing things for yourself with friends and family. You need to strengthen your support system.

Thank you
This is the best advise someone has given me
Bless you




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/29/2007 7:04:07 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Tarisa

No can do.  Guess you aren't telling her. 


Why not I am domesticated




Tarisa -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/29/2007 7:06:14 AM)

You wont tell her..I think if you do she is gonna kick your ass




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/29/2007 11:36:23 AM)

your right she has done it before esp when she's drunk




Tarisa -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (8/29/2007 11:56:03 AM)

Then I suggest you do tell her when she is nice and sober and in a crowded place




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (9/3/2007 10:22:19 AM)

Met her in church on sunday. OMG have i sined




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (9/18/2007 2:30:00 PM)

Wife is noticing changes in my behavior




bschwimmer -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (10/1/2007 2:40:23 PM)

she has not contacted me in 4 days why?




domiguy -> RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was a good friend (10/1/2007 2:43:31 PM)

She might be fucking her dead husband's corpse....Some people are fucked up like that.




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