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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/27/2007 6:47:43 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Oh, and don't be surprised if the two women begin talking to one another and gang up on you. I've seen that happen more than once also.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/27/2007 6:50:35 PM   
Lordandmaster


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quote:

ORIGINAL: bschwimmer

Even if you are married and she is a widow

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/27/2007 7:13:57 PM   
DrkJourney


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Oh, and don't be surprised if the two women begin talking to one another and gang up on you. I've seen that happen more than once also.


so true, and that's when it will get uuuuuuuuuugleeeeeeee

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/28/2007 7:11:51 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Yes, and the evil bitch in me almost wants to encourage him to continue on as he is, with the stipulation of journaling the whole thing for all of us to read...........

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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/28/2007 12:18:50 PM   
bschwimmer


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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/28/2007 1:27:13 PM   
Tarisa


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Status: offline 		okay thats it !  I'm going to be in LB tonite.. want me to come over and spill the beans to the Mrs????? I can bring a bottle of wine...We can all sit down like adults.  This charade needs to end hehe

< Message edited by Tarisa -- 8/28/2007 1:28:54 PM >

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/28/2007 2:14:38 PM   
bschwimmer


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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/28/2007 2:24:35 PM   
Tarisa


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Status: offline 		No can do.  Guess you aren't telling her. 

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/28/2007 3:33:44 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		If after a year, nothing has changed between you then my suggestion is to quit joint therapy and go to a therapist for yourself.

As far as offspring go, divorce is hard on them. However do you want your son raised to believe that marriage is something without love, where all you do is hurt each other? Better to separate and end the arguments. I suggest single therapy, and speaking to a lawyer and accountant to get things in order.

Honestly, you don't need her to make changes. You can make changes yourself. If when she starts arguing you do not respond, merely say in a calm tone that you will not tolerate being spoken to like that, and then hang up if a phone call, walk out of the room/house if at home, she will have to change simply because you won't be there to fight with.

Make plans for the weekend of things to do with your son, and just do them. You don't need her permission to go to the park/play frisbee/play minigolf/go on a picnic/visit grandma. And start doing things for yourself with friends and family. You need to strengthen your support system.

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/28/2007 5:25:44 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		Is it just me, or is anyone else here seeing a very strong resemblence to bschwimmer and his avatar/icon pic?  It is seriously freaking me out.(teasing)

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/29/2007 7:01:35 AM   
bschwimmer


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Status: offline 		omg my avatar is looking and feeling better these days

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/29/2007 7:02:57 AM   
bschwimmer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Celeste43

If after a year, nothing has changed between you then my suggestion is to quit joint therapy and go to a therapist for yourself.

As far as offspring go, divorce is hard on them. However do you want your son raised to believe that marriage is something without love, where all you do is hurt each other? Better to separate and end the arguments. I suggest single therapy, and speaking to a lawyer and accountant to get things in order.

Honestly, you don't need her to make changes. You can make changes yourself. If when she starts arguing you do not respond, merely say in a calm tone that you will not tolerate being spoken to like that, and then hang up if a phone call, walk out of the room/house if at home, she will have to change simply because you won't be there to fight with.

Make plans for the weekend of things to do with your son, and just do them. You don't need her permission to go to the park/play frisbee/play minigolf/go on a picnic/visit grandma. And start doing things for yourself with friends and family. You need to strengthen your support system.

Thank you
This is the best advise someone has given me
Bless you

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/29/2007 7:04:07 AM   
bschwimmer


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tarisa

No can do.  Guess you aren't telling her. 


Why not I am domesticated

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/29/2007 7:06:14 AM   
Tarisa


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Status: offline 		You wont tell her..I think if you do she is gonna kick your ass

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/29/2007 11:36:23 AM   
bschwimmer


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Status: offline 		your right she has done it before esp when she's drunk

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 8/29/2007 11:56:03 AM   
Tarisa


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Status: offline 		Then I suggest you do tell her when she is nice and sober and in a crowded place

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 9/3/2007 10:22:19 AM   
bschwimmer


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Status: offline 		Met her in church on sunday. OMG have i sined

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 9/18/2007 2:30:00 PM   
bschwimmer


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Status: offline 		Wife is noticing changes in my behavior

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 10/1/2007 2:40:23 PM   
bschwimmer


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Status: offline 		she has not contacted me in 4 days why?

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RE: Would youcontact someone you had a crush on and was... - 10/1/2007 2:43:31 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		She might be fucking her dead husband's corpse....Some people are fucked up like that.

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