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RE: Does it annoy people? - 7/3/2005 12:27:04 PM   
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Sexist:
adj : discriminatory on the basis of sex (usually said of men's attitude toward women) n : a man with a chauvinistic belief in the inferiority of women


Even if a man opens a door for a woman because she is a woman, it still doesn't look like he is being sexist to me. Do you really think that men do it because they believe the woman can't open the door for themselves?

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RE: Does it annoy people? - 7/3/2005 12:44:22 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Estring


Sexist:
adj : discriminatory on the basis of sex (usually said of men's attitude toward women) n : a man with a chauvinistic belief in the inferiority of women


Even if a man opens a door for a woman because she is a woman, it still doesn't look like he is being sexist to me. Do you really think that men do it because they believe the woman can't open the door for themselves?

Look at the first part, the adjective. They are doing it on the basis of sex- because they are the men and that's what men do.

Now, one can do those things for that reason AND non-sexist reasons, and whether something is sexist or not doesn't mean it's automatically good or bad as well.


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RE: Does it annoy people? - 7/3/2005 1:12:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: EmeraldSlave2


quote:

ORIGINAL: Estring


Sexist:
adj : discriminatory on the basis of sex (usually said of men's attitude toward women) n : a man with a chauvinistic belief in the inferiority of women


Even if a man opens a door for a woman because she is a woman, it still doesn't look like he is being sexist to me. Do you really think that men do it because they believe the woman can't open the door for themselves?

Look at the first part, the adjective. They are doing it on the basis of sex- because they are the men and that's what men do.

Now, one can do those things for that reason AND non-sexist reasons, and whether something is sexist or not doesn't mean it's automatically good or bad as well.




Master ALWAYS opens doors for me and she is a woman. i open doors for people too, men and women. i don't think it's a sexist thing at all. i think people (men and women) do this without thinking just to be polite or just out of habit.

-carolyn

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RE: Does it annoy people? - 7/3/2005 1:59:22 PM   
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Fangs opens doors for me. I think it's just courteous. He doesn't have to, but I would think something was wrong if he didn't.

I stay away from answering in the Ask a Master forum, but I have posted there on a few occasions.

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RE: Does it annoy people? - 7/3/2005 10:47:46 PM   
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I open doors for women- i find they appreciate it so that is why i do it. Gee, and to think I'm being a chauvnist by opening the door for a woman- man i think i'll go jump off a bridge now.lmao

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RE: Does it annoy people? - 7/3/2005 11:06:53 PM   
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imtempting does have some very good questions. I'm impressed with his demeanor and persistence.

The answer to your question is yes, any slave of mine does hold open and hold doors for me. I'm usually carrying a serious implement whenever we enter such a situation, so she'll be particularly mindful.

However, I treat other people's subs and slaves as I would anyone else. (I hold doors for everyone else on the planet.)


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RE: Does it annoy people? - 7/4/2005 12:27:53 AM   
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Thank you kind sir for the noble comments.

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