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Owned - 8/9/2007 1:08:54 AM   
womanowner


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Status: offline 		I'm new to this site, and while looking for female slaves, I have noticed that there are many that are collared, but still with a profile.  When I have a slavegirl, there is no need for her to communicate as uncollared.  She doesn't need to make friends or branch out.  She has a master, that's it.
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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 1:53:00 AM   
KiandPhoenix


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Joined: 8/1/2007
Status: offline 		First off I feel sorry for any woman who would submit to you, because not only do you seem to be an asshole but also ignorant. People need human interaction other wise they go insane, no matter what their status in life is. Nor does it seem that you have any respect for the gift of submission (gift, loan, trade, ect.). Even a woman with the lowest of self -esteem would have trouble serving you for any period of time. Not to mention the way to start a thread is with a question not a remark.
~Phoenix

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 1:56:59 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		Well kudos for you, I encourage my boys to interact with otehrs, sub and dom alike. I have no fear of them interacting, and branching out.  They do so with complete discosure that they are in fact collared, and they ahve rules for interactions. Aside from that, the only reason I could imagine you wanting to keep your girls from branching out is your afraid they might find smoeone better, or see soething they like more.  Hiding them from the real world shouldnt be the way you keep your control.
But in reference to your actual statement.... there are many of us that own who allow or even encourage our pets to interact. So, if you notie they are owned, just more on.

DV


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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 2:08:14 AM   
womanowner


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Status: offline 		I think what I meant to say was that I looked at a lot profiles, and they all say that they are not looking.  Maybe there could be a separate section for those who are collared and want to branch off and talk.  I am new to this site.  No offense intended.

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 2:24:44 AM   
sireninchains


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Alot of us just chat on the message boards. When browsing profiles, there is a handy "next" button, should you dislike what is written in the profile, whatever the nature of the profile be. I often get rude and borderline offensive messages from people saying something close to what your original remark was. I think the last one told me I was in a relationship with someone fake because I was allowed to use collarme. -.-

I think that the best thing to say to you in this situation is that everyone does everything differently, you don't have to strike up a conversation with someone if you don't like what they have to say, and vice versa. However KiandPhoenix made an exellent point by saying people are usually much better off with consistent human contact, friends, and fun stuff like that. Us people need intellectual stimulation. ^^;

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 2:34:36 AM   
lovingdomwanted


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Status: offline 		Well said KiandPhoenix,

Us subs be we collared or otherwise need to communicate with others and sometimes can get good ideas from other subs/Masters.

xxxx

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 2:56:18 AM   
adoracat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: womanowner

I think what I meant to say was that I looked at a lot profiles, and they all say that they are not looking.  Maybe there could be a separate section for those who are collared and want to branch off and talk.  I am new to this site.  No offense intended.



when you look at profiles.... you might try narrowing your search parameters.  for example, look only at profiles that list themselves as seeking.  i have a profile...it states that i am only looking for friendship.  it also states very clearly that i am owned, and i have a picture of Sir and myself as my main picture.

kudos for you for actually READING the profile...i still keep getting messages "loved your profile, what are you looking for?" when it says clearly that i'm not looking at all any longer.

kitten

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 3:08:59 AM   
vagabonddom


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Status: offline 		Sorry, wrong post in the wrong place. 

< Message edited by vagabonddom -- 8/9/2007 3:11:12 AM >

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 3:23:37 AM   
sleazybutterfly


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quote:

ORIGINAL: womanowner

I'm new to this site, and while looking for female slaves, I have noticed that there are many that are collared, but still with a profile.  When I have a slavegirl, there is no need for her to communicate as uncollared.  She doesn't need to make friends or branch out.  She has a master, that's it.


I have mine set on "friends only", but it can be a pain when you are looking for slaves or subs and can only look for one at a time. 

Mine has no problem with who I talk to, or get to know.  He knows me well enough to know I would not have taken his collar, or married him had I not meant to stay right here with him.

I think you did word it wrong, might want to watch that around here.

Welcome to the boards

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 3:37:51 AM   
Twicehappy2x


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KiandPhoenix

People need human interaction other wise they go insane, no matter what their status in life is.


Ditto! And Bravo! 

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 3:47:01 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		But it is already set up that way?
If you are collared and you put it in the profile - then isn't that part of the branching off?
 
Do you not feel that a submissive or slave can have or needs friends?
Do you think that a submissive and slave can be taught everything by you?
 
Darcy and I have a joint profile and we aren't looking.  So where would you put us?
A BDSM club or munch doesn't become splintered into tiny little sections so that you can only interact with certain sections so why make somewhere like here any different?
 
Unless you are wanting all the work done for you so it makes your search easier - it makes no sense to isolate anyone.
 
Peace
the.dark.

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 3:57:22 AM   
candleTC


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Joined: 5/8/2006
From: Springfield, Il
Status: offline 		i'm calling bullshit on this one.  His profile is somewhat lacking as well.  He doesn't seem to even have the working knowledge of the lifestyle to really consider himself a Master, imo.  He seeks a girl that wants to stay barefoot, this being his only requirement.  Hell, that's most of us, isn't it?  For a man to claim that his girl is only allowed to communicate with only him, is a man headed for a long life of lonliness and heartache. 
i personally think that this is a man who is looking for an excuse to be domineering and not dominating.
Once again, only my opinion.  i call em like i see em.

However, womanowner, good luck with that.


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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 4:09:44 AM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		And I'm agreeing with you. Fark, if My slaves didn't speak to anyone and had nothing to say, I'd have to kill them and bury them under the floorboards!! Talk about BORING!!

Agreed too about the lack of mental stimulation. I once studied various animals and their reactions to stimulous and non stimulous environments. Those without any stimuli go mad. Rocking, pacing, swaying, its heartbreaking.

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 4:38:42 AM   
imthatacheyouhav


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KiandPhoenix

First off I feel sorry for any woman who would submit to you, because not only do you seem to be an asshole but also ignorant. People need human interaction other wise they go insane, no matter what their status in life is. Nor does it seem that you have any respect for the gift of submission (gift, loan, trade, ect.). Even a woman with the lowest of self -esteem would have trouble serving you for any period of time. Not to mention the way to start a thread is with a question not a remark.
~Phoenix

i agree....and further more....what are you so afraid of?...that she'll meet someone "better" and leave you?.....LOL 

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 5:37:41 AM   
Faramir


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quote:

ORIGINAL: womanowner
When I have a slavegirl, there is no need for her to communicate as uncollared.  She doesn't need to make friends or branch out.  She has a master, that's it.


Well aren't you special, sunshine? 

OMG, doesn't that sound like a special kind of hell?  The only human being you have contact with is....womanowner.  It's like that Star Trek episode "The Alternative Factor" where the good, rational guy gets locked in dimensional corridor with the crazy, evil one for all eternity.

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 5:40:41 AM   
Viridana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: womanowner

I think what I meant to say was that I looked at a lot profiles, and they all say that they are not looking.  Maybe there could be a separate section for those who are collared and want to branch off and talk.  I am new to this site.  No offense intended.



There already is a section. It's called friends only.

Why do they post in their profiles that they're not looking? Because most dominants don't even bother checking that they are register in the friends only column.

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 5:45:50 AM   
Cyntilating


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Status: offline 		not everyone on here is "looking or seeking" a master/mistress/etc..
they are here for interaction or perhaps information..
 
I'm curious>  Do you also restrict her from reading books, seeing friends for shopping/movies/lunch   ???
How DO you allow her to broaden her bank of knowledge, express her natural need for socialization with others and grow as a person ?

amended/deleted after reading your 2nd post...

 

< Message edited by Cyntilating -- 8/9/2007 5:48:24 AM >

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 5:48:56 AM   
Aine


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Wow....my stomach actually turned, reading the OP's two posts in this thread.

I can see the newspaper headlines now.....


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Honey, you obviously missed the "want to be used as a toilet fetish" thread or "where do I get instructions on setting my sub on fire" thread. LOL

Thank you, DelRay for that one.

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 5:50:05 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		I feel sorry for your slave then. I thankfully have someone who doesn't isolate me and supports me talking to others in the lifestyle and on the forums. Lots of us like to be social and branch out. I have fixed my profile so that it says I am not searching for anything. Everyone does things differently but in our relationship I am encouraged to communicate with others and make friends. These websites just aren't for those looking for a partner.

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RE: Owned - 8/9/2007 5:50:30 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		I can see the newspaper headlines now.....

Aine gives it all up for serving Ron

Is that what you saw?

Ron

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