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Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes go ... - 8/9/2007 7:11:33 AM

wankerforuse

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As i've always been trying to find myself a nice dominant lady but when i go out somewhere,lets say on a night out on the town.I just can't seem to find myself a suitable companion.So any input here from anyone would be of a great help to me thanks very much indeed.

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/9/2007 8:50:58 PM

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I go to the bat cave, flip upside down and hope the other domish bats join me for a rousing game of D&D upside down.

Roll for initiative...I see a Dire Rat down there and he sees us!

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 2:17:52 AM

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You might want to find your local munches and become a regular member. http://www.drkdesyre.com/meetppl/orgs/orgs.html They are one activity that I do at least twice monthly.

Besides that, I'm to be found at bookstores, theaters- both movie and live, with my friends- either dinner out or at their homes, Dungeons or the beach. Look for signs that a woman is Dominant. It could be her body language or something as obvious as a tiny flogger on her key chain. (I have both a small flogger and a small whip on mine. My friends range from having floggers to bondage bears on theirs.) Observe how she behaves when not at work. (Many, but not all, who are submissive in daily life are quite Dominant at work so don't judge by work behaviour.)

Really though, the only place I recommend trying to find a Domme real time is a kink location. There you only have to figure out if a woman is a Domme, sub or switch. You already know she has at least a passing interest in BDSM since she bothered to go to the event.

Also, you might want to select a different screen name. I personally wouldn't take mail seriously from someone with wanker in their ID. Good luck!

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 2:28:03 AM

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I like going to Borders bookstore to brouse, out to dinner, or shopping... Probably a lot like the immature dommes, lol. M

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 2:39:26 AM

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I like going to ball games, dinner, movies, shopping at the local hardware store, or a craft shop, & hopefully, more outings to the local munch.

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 2:44:26 AM

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To the Femdom Temple of course, where scantily clad in leather we take an unsuspecting male, seduced for the purpose, and castrate him as a sacrifice to something or other.

Then its drinks and cigs, a little music and chat and off home again, with no one any the wiser.

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 2:52:51 AM

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Lady Ellen that was waaay funny!

P.S. I am not dissing the OP (even if it seems that way. The Q was worded kinda strangely, though).

Me? I like a nice dinner out, and then a play or a movie, and then, well, um, YOU know.... Ahem.

Oh, and Art Museums are always good.

- Susan

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 8/10/2007 2:59:26 AM >

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 3:17:50 AM

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Some hang out online, others hang out in the guise of normal people. I agree that you ought to go to munch. Its always best not to assume, just because people are nice and polite does not mean they are submissive.
Best of luck wanker
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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 7:54:36 AM

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BeachMystress hit the nail on the head. Though Dommes have vanilla interests, too, it is easier to find lifestyle people at lifestyle events. Sure, We go to bookstores and the like, but unless I'm holding a book that is BDSM oriented, it might be difficult to tell the difference between Me and Jane Doe Nilla.

I get to the local munch when I can. My personal work schedule doesn't permit Me to go as often as I'd like, but I make something at least once a month. The closest public dungeon is a couple of hours away, but I get there every chance I get. When you want something badly enough, it's worth the trip.

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RE: Just out of interest where do all the mature dommes... - 8/10/2007 8:08:21 AM

MySweetSubmssive

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I'm not sure what info the OP is looking for.

By mature, do you coyly mean older, or do you mean mature in BDSM (which is subjective)?
Do you want to know where dominant ladies congregate so that you can find them?
Or do you want to know what we enjoy doing so you can propose a suitable date when you do find a lady?

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