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ProlificNeeds -> RE: Draw the Line? (8/13/2007 7:01:16 AM)
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Abuse for me, is when it crosses the line of being able to derive any kind of benificial or satisfying value from an act (from an s-type view). So even if I do not like something, unless I feel it is personally damaging to our interaction or my mental health, I will continue an act simply because it pleases my Dominant.
I would never let someone beat me bloody just because they got satisfaction from it, mostly because I know I would not react favorably, and it could very well make me fearful of ever bottoming to pain play. If I could endure being beaten bloody without any negative effects psychologically, (physical scars ect aside.) I'd probably let it happen to please my dominant. It wouldn't really be abuse if it didn't do any damage, would it? (Again, physical impacts aside.)
As far as physical impacts in that mentality go, if it heals up in a reasonable amount of time, then hey, great, no lasting damage. If it left scarring, that too would impact self image, and again, the mentality, so that plays right in there with psychologically damaging.
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