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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 2:59:18 AM   
Politesub53


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i love clothes shopping, especially for myself. i am picky in what i wear colour wise and try and get things that dont clash. When i have been stateside i tend to stock up as clothes are way cheaper than in the UK. Last year Mistress just left me to it and sat and had some iced tea as She was fed up with me looking.... Normally i end up going back to the first shirt i looked at !

Does my bum look big in this ?

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 3:41:54 AM   
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Well I am almost offended lol, as a straight male, I love to shop I mean hell if its for clothes I get to see a sexy woman I like getting dressed, undressed and looking good whats there not to like about that....
Sub or not it doesn't matter it's all in the apreciation of your partners form...

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 5:21:56 AM   
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I hate shopping. Really hate it.

Nothing ever fits and I have to have everything altered to death. Petite stores charge an arm and a leg.. for less LOL

I would almost pay someone to do it for me.

My former submissve just about drove me insane. He was one of those people that has to check 20 stores before buying one shirt. Groan

Perhaps this should be on my required list.

"Sub must be willing to shop for Domme"

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 5:44:59 AM   
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I love shopping for clothes-I can spend hours trying to find the perfect jeans, best fitting pencil skirt, perfect shade of blue sweater............  I am in true shoppingspace-anyone there with me will get in the way. 

Now fetishwear-thats a different story, I love bringing my subs shopping for latex, leather, pvc.  Trying it on, making them learn how to lace my corset, carry the items to the register and of course tell them what I will do to them later while wearing the item.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 5:49:35 AM   
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quote:

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Now fetishwear-thats a different story, I love bringing my subs shopping for latex, leather, pvc.  Trying it on, making them learn how to lace my corset, carry the items to the register and of course tell them what I will do to them later while wearing the item.


It's funny, We are so much alike....


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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 6:21:59 AM   
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Yes my submale loves to go shopping with me, in fact he loves to go anywhere with me. Just being in my company makes him feel happy and content. He is hetero and is also a crossdresser. So sometimes when we are shopping we are shopping for the both of us. Its all great fun

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 6:35:25 AM   
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I actually hate shopping for clothes, so if I go, I prefer to go alone so I can move the process along as quickly as possible.

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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 6:40:47 AM   
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when i went shopping with a Mistress ocne she stuck her butt plug up my tight ass and then ball gagged me and we went shopping like that. i love shopping with a Mistress becfuase i can see what they like wearing.

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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 7:33:41 AM   
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This submissive loves to shop for all things feminine- both in stores and on-line. It excites me and awakens my inner femininity.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 7:41:41 AM   
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Well if i have a purpose to go and buy something in particular then no probs but if im just going to the shops to see if their is anything I want then no.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 8:28:15 AM   
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Fox goes clothes shopping with me some times. He doesn't act like it's annoying or difficult but then neither does Tom who is not my slave nor my submissive.

Fox is very careful with his money however so he tends to not go shopping for clothes for himself often but when he does he always shows me what he bought and either comments about how it brings out his own eyes or he thinks it compliments me. He knows what I like and he'll wear things specifically for my tastes when he can -- when he's at work it's best to be dressed appropriate for that environment.


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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 11:28:16 AM   
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Wow, I really appreciate all of the replies, people. Thanks!

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 11:48:36 AM   
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i for one DETEST shoping.
Fact of life is that Mistress says i have a better sense of fashion then She She does. So guess what? i go clothes shopping with Mistress. *g* i do the groceries but i have to admit my incompetence with most other things and Mistress tends to do those with Her friends or on Her own. Shoe shopping i like to do with Her as i am the one kneeling to put the shoes on Her which tends to get a lot of looks but is one hell of a turn on and treat for me.

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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 11:55:43 AM   
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quote:

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I still think sounds like a lot of fun to dress men up so they look extra hot and get them in different kinds of suits - in really hot trendy, yet very tasteful clothes.


I think this type of thing is so common you can't even rightly call it a fantasy.

I think "biological imperative" is closer.



I will say this about clothes shopping though.  Somebody REALLY needs to come out with a line of stylish men's clothing that doesn't require a 6'2" frame to look good in.

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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 12:23:11 PM   
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My lifestyle Tv maid jane, escorts Me at fetish clubs/events and stalls/fairs. She carries My shopping, and I select thing that she detests for her to purchase and wear, like pink frilly knickers  She hates them, knowing they clash with her black & white frilly pvc maid uniform. She always greets Me dressed,. and is My favourite shopping companion.

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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 12:30:58 PM   
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I appreciate everyone's replies.

pollux: LOL. Yes, maybe it is a biological imperative for females to want to dress men up!

As for the height thing, women have to have clothes altered due to the height some are made for as well. Unless they are lucky enough to be buying clothing that offers "Petite" sizing.

I am 5'6", but have sometimes bought Petite sizes, even though those are usually made for women 5'4" and under, because the pants fit me better, and most of the time, they are just the right length for me (even though they should probably be too short). I agree, it's a pain.

- Susan

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 12:38:15 PM   
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I enjoy it if it's for shoes, purses, lingerie, toys, or a specific item for a function or date. So personally I would prefer to have someone accompany Me that enjoys it and would at least make clothes shopping fun. If it's for the above mentioned they better be wearing comfortable shoes because we're going to be there for hours! No eye rolling, whining, or pleading puppy dog eyes for escape from their misery are allowed. Besides, there's always those little opportunities for a little discreet public humiliation that might pop up when out shopping!

If he is a good boy I'll turn him loose in the electronics department for a reward for a few minutes.

edited because I can't type with these nails. Ugh.

< Message edited by SDFemDom4cuck -- 8/11/2007 12:54:31 PM >


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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 12:53:15 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: pollux

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I still think sounds like a lot of fun to dress men up so they look extra hot and get them in different kinds of suits - in really hot trendy, yet very tasteful clothes.


I think this type of thing is so common you can't even rightly call it a fantasy.

I think "biological imperative" is closer.



I will say this about clothes shopping though.  Somebody REALLY needs to come out with a line of stylish men's clothing that doesn't require a 6'2" frame to look good in.



Give me access to a sewing machine, and you're on, my friend. :)

Really, I think it's possible to work with any height or frame, it just takes a bit more effort.... and often times some altering.

Anyway, I am not submissive, or a male... and do unfortunately do not have a submissive friend that enjoys shopping with me, so it's difficult for me to comment much on the OP.

I do, however, have a friend that's a male top that absolutely adores shopping for/with his girl, and dressing her up. I think he might even be able to outdo my passion for fashion at times.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 1:05:02 PM   
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Shopping for somebody else, I enjoy. Getting little surprises and things is a good experience, and I'll go a-hunting for the perfect thing.

For myself, I'm pretty utilitarian. Unless I'm going some place like a fetish shop or a bookstore, we're going to be in and out pretty quick.

Shopping with somebody for them...Just give me an idea of what you want me to find, and I'll go...But there's only so much patience I can muster...After a while I just want to go.

Shopping with somebody for me...I'm just a mannequin, essentially. Just pick out what's cheapest and most comfortable, and let's go do something fun.


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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 1:06:06 PM   
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I don't mind shopping with a Lady and actually kinda enjoy it if it's something we planned and basically a "for her day"! And although awkward, I especially like the lingerie dept. portion of the trip, gives me a "legitimate reason" to be there and perv...lol

Totally different story though if it's a regular old grocery shopping day...I can't get in and out of a fuckin grocery store quick enough...!!!!

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