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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 1:22:01 PM

MistressJadeMTL

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I enjoy shopping in general, but there are days I'm not up to it as much depending on things like hot muggy weather, where the stores are located (A/C mall, or on the street). I have bad knees due to an old hiking injury and they don't always cooperate well on days like that...

However, depending on what I am shopping for, I rather enjoy spending money, if I have extra to spare. In fact, a few months ago I got to take my submissive houseboy toriko shopping for new dress clothes for some upcoming interviews. Poor boy, I made him wear his pants commando-style and then we went shopping at a nearby men's store where I picked out several shirts and ties for him to try on. He was acutely conscious of his condition and it was fun to tease and tantalize him throughout the day while he tried to keep "things in check"...

My pet also gladly goes shopping with me when I need to run errands -- whether it is grocery shopping, mundane stuff or just window shopping. Of course, I am a bit of a geekette - so we both enjoy walking through computer and electronics stores, eying and pawing at all the cool geeky stuff.

He is a true gentleman and always gives me his arm when we are walking and opens all the doors for me. He also carries any packages or bags as well my mini-backpack purse for me and hands me my wallet and other stuff when I need it. He also often serves as my chauffeur when I am not in the mood for driving myself -- particularly if I am dressed up in a leather corset and going to a fetish event. ;-)

(BTW, my boy is hetero and not a cross-dresser.)

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RE: Will submissive men go shopping for clothes w/their... - 8/11/2007 1:59:25 PM

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Thanks for the replies, folks.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 4:34:54 PM

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I've spent hours shopping with my aunt, and female cousins enough to come to really like shopping. I'll spend hours at a mall, or store (Non "guy store") simply curious about what they have or what they sell. Granted most malls have like 75 stores for female shoppers and 3 for males, talking clothes especially, so i do by pass most. However, while not a CD i do like peeking into those because i am after all, interested in what Female's wear. But i'd easily and very quietly spend hours shopping with someone, uncomplaining, with perhapes only a quick visit to an electronics store, and perhapes a bite to eat. I'm pretty good at carrying bags too, and i'll look for bargains with You once i know what You might be interested in. I'm also a big flyer/coupon guy for Girls, i'll keep something i find if i know They would like it. So i guess yes, i do love shopping.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 8:11:13 PM

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I have a funny story, I had a new submissive meet Me for brunch, after which I wanted to go to the flea market----he followed nicely, held packages and was the perfect boy---so as we were at the last of the stalls, I asked him what some of the things were he hated to do with his ex-wife, and he said "shopping"---I about died---he had a blast, guess it just takes a Mistress to make the experience different!

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 8:17:07 PM

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Interesting, enlightening and encouraging responses. Thnaks!

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 10:56:51 PM

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My former mistress used to drag me to toy stores to go shopping. I don't mean bdsm toy stores; I mean toy stores like Toys R Us. I'm not an age play sort of submissive, but she'd love to bring me to a toy store because for some reason I become a little kid in a toy store. It's really the only place though.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/11/2007 11:02:09 PM

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Thanks for answering, littlesarbonn.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/12/2007 2:45:18 AM

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I am a straight male who generally doesn't like to shop, at least not for long periods of time. However, I love being taken shopping by my Mistress! Following her from shop to shop, watching as she searches for just the right item and carrying all her purchases is a thrill that never fails to excite me. Maybe it's because I enjoy humiliation, because sometimes I'm put into slightly embarassing positions, when suddenly she turns and holds something up to me and says it might look better on you than me. I'm not a crossdresser, but Mistress enjoys my discomfort when she forces me to dress Fem, or as a sissy baby. I'm usually required to wear something when she takes me on one of her shopping trips and even though it's under my male cloths, I'm alway in fear of it being noticed. It might be something like a butt plug, chastity device, panties, or something more difficult to conseal, like diapers and plastic pants and it serves to remind me of my submission to her. Shopping trips with her are very special, so count me as aone who likes shopping.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/12/2007 9:58:53 AM

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I don't hate going shopping, i'm somewhat an expert on shopping. You see, when i go shopping with my friend Debbie, shopping with her is always an adventure. You more than likely won't believe this, but we once spent a whole 8 hours shopping in a mall and in surrounding areas. Would you believe in the whole 8 hour period, we didn't find one blasted thing that she liked. i followed her around like a puppy for the whole time. i loved it.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/12/2007 11:32:28 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn
My former mistress used to drag me to toy stores to go shopping. I don't mean bdsm toy stores; I mean toy stores like Toys R Us. I'm not an age play sort of submissive, but she'd love to bring me to a toy store because for some reason I become a little kid in a toy store. It's really the only place though.

Aww, i hadn't thought of that. My wife is a little girl at heart, and it's a lot of fun to go out to toy stores and play with stuff.

The best is when they have displays of motion-activated animatronics around the holidays (for example, 12" tall Santas that bounce up and down and sing "Santa Claus is Coming to Town" when somebody walks by)... i'll switch on whole shelves full of them, so that they just keep setting each other off... sometimes you can hear them halfway across the store

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/12/2007 12:01:41 PM

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Thanks for the replies, people.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 8/12/2007 12:27:59 PM

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I go Shoping with friends who are Dommes all the time and they come shoping with me also when i go for cloathes
and toys and i go with them alot also
i know if i where collared i would love to go shoping with my Mistress

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 3:24:21 AM

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I just had to dig this old thread up when I saw the word "shopping"...my sub hates it but goes along because he's required to carry my bags, fetch the car, etc. The one exception is shoe shopping...he loves shoes and gets all excited helping me try them on :)

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 3:53:25 AM

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I can't get my hubby out of the frelling mall! You know all those jokes about the bored woman who goes shopping? We have a total role reversal on this one. I hate shopping. He loves it. The only time we enjoy it together is when I'm shopping for lingerie. When I need to pick up hair products or make-up, the really 'girly' stuff, he tends to wander away. But when I'm looking for clothes, he's Johnny on the Spot for approval or veto.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 5:19:49 AM

LaMistressa

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Fetish wear - yes, and he's better at finding amazing bargains than me (it pains me to say that.) Vanilla wear - haven't done that together, so I can't really say. Grocery shopping - yes, and he's better at finding stuff and putting together dinners and menu ideas than me (that doesn't pain me to say at all.)

ETA (and I just saw the part about 'non-CD' answers, so whoops! My bad. I need coffee.)

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 5:40:23 AM

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Old thread, sure, but since I didn't answer it the first time around, I'll put in My thoughts.

My clip actually loves to shop. Doesn't matter whether it's clothes, toys, things for the kitchen or anything else. It's literally his second favorite activity with Me, probably only after play.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 6:55:59 AM

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I am not a "let's check out every store on the planet"type.I will assume most go to a mall for clothes and i will just go and find something..but it and leave.I am without question the world's fastest Christmas shopper..now if you wish to talk about food and groceries..you have me hooked.And of course regarding the clothes again..if it is Christmas...then sorry but the Domina can't come...then it wouldn't be a surprisen would it??

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 7:18:42 AM

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My Owner and I really haven't gone clothes shopping together too much. However, I do love shopping waaaaaaaaaaaay more than she does. If we have to fit into roles, then I'm totally the girl of the relationship. That being said... I'm not a massive shopper. I just enjoy it when I have the time.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 7:23:31 AM

DiurnalVampire

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I hate clothes shopping. I go only when it is absolutely necessary. Angel likes going with me, becasue I wil usually run across something I want to get him while we are out. Fox likes to shop, but since I go for clothes so nifrequently, he has never had to try it any farther than the bridesmaid gown and shoes for it and other accessories. That, however, he loved. So, no problem getting the boys out shopping with me.

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RE: Do many submissive men go shopping for clothes w/th... - 3/26/2008 9:29:08 AM

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I hate clothes shopping. I go only when it is absolutely necessary. Angel likes going with me, becasue I wil usually run across something I want to get him while we are out. Fox likes to shop, but since I go for clothes so nifrequently, he has never had to try it any farther than the bridesmaid gown and shoes for it and other accessories. That, however, he loved. So, no problem getting the boys out shopping with me.

DV

I have to be in a specific kind of mood to enjoy clothes shopping, and the only really style I ENJOY buying are fun-fetish clothes, boots and accessories. My boy is like yours, and I think if you cultiviate that side of him, you will be thrilled with the results. Let him shop for you and pick out outfits -- in a short matter of time, he will be able to clothes shop for you without you being there. I can't tell you how helpful this is. You know the stress of needing "the perfect outfit" for something but not having the time to go out? My boy goes out, buys three - four things, including shoes, and comes home so I can try them on. He returns the things I don't want. He can always find something that looks great. He also will randomly pick things up when he is out, because they catch his eye. The ability to pick out clothes for a body style and with the right fashion sense is a skill -- most men don't care/don't want to be bothered with it. The fact that he enjoys it is a blessing! Cultivate it!!

You can also teach him to buy make up and shoes.

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