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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 6:34:22 AM

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That was mean, petdave.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 6:50:09 AM

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well, we all got an opinion. i always believed that the reason many are overweight is because when they don't have a Dominant, they feed themselves....because they are not getting their spirit nourished through what they really crave, a loving Dom.....it is hard to be a submissive all by one's self, but it is done every day...we do the best we can while longing for our ONLY ONE ...hoping He will soon be with us, helping us along with loving guidance, praising us as we serve and feeding our hearts in the way that won't leave us hungry except for Him. we try and we fail and we get up and try again. it is the heart of the submissive. we may not all get there in the place of perfection that you want overnight, but we are determined to get there, if that is Your desire. However, many men now want the submissive with a little padding, and there are lots who are loving BBW, because of the glory of their devotion as well as the soft feel of the skin. The beauty of Dominance and submission lies in the parts that are unseen, and all of the rest is simply icing on the cake.
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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 7:30:11 AM

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Because we are chubalicious?.....Tempting..

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 7:49:59 AM

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because God made me this way and I'm in His image so I'm fine with that.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 8:03:12 AM

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies?

because my milkshake brings all the boys to my yard,
and their like
it's better than yours
damn right it's better than yours
i could teach you, but i (would) have to charge

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 8:16:27 AM

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the person above me always manages to make me smile...i have to say "you go girl"

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 8:20:57 AM

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Hmmm. I woke up this morning and this thread is still going on...How about this for an idea? You know how we have all these categories for forums, like Ask a Master, Ask a Sub, etc.?

How about we designate just ONE category called Let's Ask Stupid Questions about Fat Subs. That way, anyone who wants to rant and rave can just laser focus their questions and the rest of us don't have to continually read this crap.

Sound like a plan?

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 8:21:11 AM

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*hugs* for Jersey ...i do have my special moments *smiles*

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 8:22:07 AM

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what about how come there are so many overweight Doms? lol...my late Master was a very big man- over 300 pounds and I loved every inch of him

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 8:24:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasterSteve57

Why is it that so many subbie ladies are chubby? Don't get me wrong I actually prefer a fuller-figured submissive woman. (within reason).

But why are there so many? Does it have to do with low self-esteem? Or are heavy women more sexually liberated in their thinking? Or are they more sexually desperate?

Your thoughts?

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I mean thats like asking why are there so many old people? Or why are there so many unattractive people? Is it because old people and unattractive people have low self esteem? Or why are there so many subs from the south here? Is it because they have low self esteem? Why are there so many right handed subs? Is it because right handed sub have low self esteem?

Get it? We can go on for days.

I probably have the highest self esteem you will ever meet in a person, big or small. I got great big breasts and a matching ass that I love to show off.

So to answer your question..."no".

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 8:32:22 AM

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I have noticed this in both the bdsm community and the pagan community, and I think part of it is because both communities are more openminded to bigger people then mainstream society. On this site, I haven't really noticed an overabundance of big people. Generalities are really annoying.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 9:06:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: angylec

oh, please don't apologize!i've quite enjoyed reading the responses on this thread because you've all been saying stuff i think but don't usually express. my only question is, why do Some (please note the emphasis on Some) Dominants think that the fact of the Dominance excuses them from using common courtesy and manners? just curious...
angy

I've been wondering that too. I have NO problem telling a dom when he is out of line (even if it gets me in trouble). What's almost as bad as those kind of doms are the subs that AGREE with these fuckers! Don't encourage such bastardy!!

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 9:15:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

::repost::

BDSM is populated by a 'fair share' of hedonists ... pleasure seekers who like to indulge. Eating is a pleasurable experience. Exercise usually isn't. Last time I checked, 60% of American's were overweight. Combine that with being a hedonist and finding out that it's OK to be into pleasure and there you have it, overweight women and men into BDSM.

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This is the most logical and reasonable answer I've ever seen in the multitude of times this question is asked. Thanks, Cleste :) Hedonism.. who'da thought? People want to be free to indulge in their desires.. food is one of those. Some can't help how their body goes, it's genetic. And most of all- everybody has to be someplace :)

(I've seen more than one dom male pushing his tummy across the dungeon floor. It's not just the "subbies")

And while we are at it.. why are fat men considered "big" and fat women considered "fat"?

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 9:31:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: JerseyKrissi72

because God made me this way and I'm in His image so I'm fine with that.

I wish you had not said that. Now im going to hell for all the twisted things i want to do to the image of God.

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i figured all the other things i had done would be over looked .

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 9:44:37 AM

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There are so many of us so that when the floods come we'll all float and all the skinny asses will sink, making us the supreme beings in control.

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Why is it that so many subbie ladies are chubby? Your thoughts?

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 9:50:27 AM

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I think the type of mentality that even asks those kinds of questions comes from learning about BDSM in chat rooms, where all the subs there are teeny tiny little beings who wear tiny whispering silks and have tiny little tinkling bells around their tiny little ankles and weigh less than feathers when their strong, powerful, domly masters pick them up and hold them, keeping them safe and protected from the big bad world.

Then when they get out into the real world and the people are normal-sized, it's a huge shock. Literally.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 10:10:11 AM

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I'm built for comfort, not for speed.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 10:12:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Hmmm. I woke up this morning and this thread is still going on...How about this for an idea? You know how we have all these categories for forums, like Ask a Master, Ask a Sub, etc.?

How about we designate just ONE category called Let's Ask Stupid Questions about Fat Subs. That way, anyone who wants to rant and rave can just laser focus their questions and the rest of us don't have to continually read this crap.

Sound like a plan?

I'll need some ice cream to fully contemplate your idea.

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 10:20:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: Griswold

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Hmmm. I woke up this morning and this thread is still going on...How about this for an idea? You know how we have all these categories for forums, like Ask a Master, Ask a Sub, etc.?

How about we designate just ONE category called Let's Ask Stupid Questions about Fat Subs. That way, anyone who wants to rant and rave can just laser focus their questions and the rest of us don't have to continually read this crap.

Sound like a plan?

I'll need some ice cream to fully contemplate your idea.

That was funny!

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RE: Why So Many Chubby Subbies? - 8/12/2007 10:23:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: BlueEyedSubinDE

I'm built for comfort, not for speed.

I've always heard it as : "Comfort, not style.. Endurance, not speed" (works for me!)

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