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LordKen -> Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:35:29 PM)

OK, Imthatacheyouhav has  accepted my collar (thank-you baby).  As of the 9th of August, I have accepted her collar - which I have accepted as a declaration of our unity and love to each other (matching necklaces).  I'm curious how many Doms / Masters have accepted or implemented such an arrangement with their collared sub / slave?



Grlwithboy -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:36:17 PM)

I have a ring on my left fourth finger which means the world to me.



MistressDoMe -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:39:51 PM)

 matching rings



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:40:28 PM)

I have a necklace that matches Angel's collar. I have one that matches the collar Kitten has as well, he isnt collared but it is a symbol for him.  Any of my boys that have a consideration collar, I have one to match.



MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:41:41 PM)

You're the first I've heard of to be collared by his sub/slave. Trying to set a new trend?

And before it comes back to me, no, I don't consider a collar to be the same as a wedding ring.



Grlwithboy -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:48:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MrDiscipline44

You're the first I've heard of to be collared by his sub/slave. Trying to set a new trend?

And before it comes back to me, no, I don't consider a collar to be the same as a wedding ring.


I don't either. Hence my aversion to wearing a collar that pertains in some ways to M's or H's, though I have no issues at all wearing a neck corset or something like that as accessory.

I've been known  use a little lock on collars, chastity belts, and bondage mitts which has a symbol matching a tattoo on my back on it.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:50:03 PM)

I dont consider the stuff I have as collars... They are simply necklaces that match what the boys have. And noe of them were "accepted" by me from them. 
Different concept same look, I guess



TigerNINTails -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 4:52:47 PM)

I'm afraid something like that just wouldn't work for me, really. After all, my slave is my slave, and I'm not her slave, so there's really only room for one symbol of ownership.

Well, in regards to how many people are marked or must wear such symbol, at least in my relationships. I'm not one for marriage, having learned that the hard way, which is how I do most things.

I also know my slave wouldn't feel right about her Master wearing a collar. Even hers. And we're poly. So perhaps something like that might work out better for the monogamous, it's not something I can see working for me.

Congratulations on your collaring your slave though Ken. Peace & Prosperity to your household. In abundance.

I can see perhaps wearing a trinket of some sort, as a dedication to my commitment to my slave(s) though, perhaps a ring or something. Considering I only have so much room on my hands, it would keep the pride small... Which is a good thing, in my mind.[:D]

Not like I'm after ten women anyway, but the point is, no, I couldn't do a collar thing. I could wear something which symbolizes my commitment and responsibility though... It's something I've not really thought of.

In any case, I'm out.

Peace & Prosperity,

Tora



KatyLied -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 5:06:54 PM)

I've never heard of a dominant being collared to a submissive.  Is this a real time relationship?  



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 5:33:13 PM)

first of all - congrats to the both of you

second, as Daddy and i celebrate our 1st anniversary tomorrow, we're shopping for matching silver rings.  i suppose that's as close as i'll get to collaring Him.



Tannie -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 5:33:43 PM)

I've seen it happen a couple times and I think it's a beautiful idea.



domiguy -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 5:40:10 PM)

I once wore a ring giving to me by my sub.....The ring she gave me came off in the shower and went down  the drain....the ring was around my dick, on my stomach....she was on the rag....It was blood.



OnlyHis -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 5:48:54 PM)

I begged Masters collar and He put it around my neck. A while later He gave me His formal collar( A wonderful necklace I will always cherish). Still more than a year later I gave Him a Master ring that signified what I thought of who and what He was to me.  (After I had found the right design and person to make it for Him)



violetaelf -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 7:38:32 PM)

To me.. Master wearing a collar would be a bit weird... but my Sir has said that he would wear a ring presented by me... not as a claim or 'collaring' but as a gift from his girl. I think that's sweet and lovely. He says "because I'm just as tied to you as you are to me." ;)


'violet'



LATEXBABY64 -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 8:01:45 PM)

i think that is pretty cool symbolic bond of truely commited souls if you fallow through and keep it on that level life will smile for you



rick4you -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 9:28:44 PM)

Are you sure you werent just accepting a token of appreciation?I think it is wonderful that you have both found happiness but accepting collar from your slave is rather off beat but hey to each thier own.Be safe and sane and always loving well most times lol.



imtempting -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/11/2007 11:02:28 PM)

I think its a good idea but to each their own. Also it seems people are thinking collars etc but like others have said maybe a ring or  necklace.

Also it was mentioned in the past going back in the movie Story of O where at the end   O marks her Master (his name slips my mind) with the cigar.  So the idea of the Dominant wearing a symbol of the sub is not new.






earthycouple -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/12/2007 12:03:32 AM)

Do what works for you.  Why not?   I don't see why you have to conform to anything other than what makes the two of you happy and isn't harmful to anyone. 

I am sure I've told this in some aspect before here, but I'll tell it again.  At one time....I was collared.  I considered, at the time, myself a switch fairly evenly and of course dominated others too.  At one point in the relationship with my owner he came to me on his knees, put his head in my lap, looked up at me and trembling like a leaf simply said "take great care".  I knew then I was to become his dominant.  In time we were collared to each other and we flipped back and forth as it pleased us.  We were both quite happy in that, as we both had needs being met.  Today I consider him a great love of my life and he is my youngest's "God Father" for lack of a better word.

This man, as a matter of fact, was the last man I ever considered or would consider my dominant or be collared to.  I enjoy bottoming a TON but I'm not a slave, I'm not a sub.  I'm a bottom (as I define these three). 

So...if we could do that, make it work for us then why can't you wear a token, symbol or gift like this from your submissive?  (I didn't wear a collar but I did wear an anklet that matched Robert's "discreet collar" when we were together.

Again, I think this boils down to is: do what's right for you, ignore naysayers and have fun...after all it is YOUR neck, Ken *S*



EvilGeoff -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/12/2007 12:34:11 AM)

In my sense of traditions, the collar symbolizes Ownership.  And ownership is a one-way street.  The Owner owns the car, not the other way around.  The leash is what the owned gives to the Owner to symbolize the link between them.

But hey, if you get off on wearing your submissive's collar, please carry on.  I'm not going to complain if it works for you two.

YIK,
- Geoff 



ShiftedJewel -> RE: Collaring the Collarers (8/12/2007 4:45:04 AM)

Everyone in our little group wears a symbolic "collar" as a sign of commitment to each other and the closed poly home we share. The sign of ownership is the tattoo that our girl has on her arm.
 
Jewel



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