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Toilet Slaves - 8/11/2007 8:36:10 PM   
SlaveSammy1842


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Would just like to no what A/all you Mistress and Goddess out there think makes a good toilet slave and if you would consider having a toilet slave either in your house or just for parties. After a few years of tying I havce made a toilet that I can fit into and it also flushes, it takes about 2 hours to set up and can be removed with in a few hours as well.
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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/11/2007 8:52:58 PM   
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Any slave that knows how to clean toilets is a good toilet slave.


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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/11/2007 8:53:53 PM   
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My submissive wants to do watersports, and there is a "Squick factor" for me, that I need to overcome before engaging in this with him. I will do it, but the first few times, it might bother me a little.

I am curious about what it's all about, however, so I'll give it a try, I guess.

I am not judging those who like this, just saying this is my own opinion - which could very well change once I've tried this.

Maybe someone has some tips on how to become more enthusiastic about it? I normally really enjoy Humiliation scenes, too. So I can't figure out why I am shy about this particular activity.

But I do want to learn more about it.

- Susan

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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/11/2007 10:58:22 PM   
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Any slave that knows how to clean toilets is a good toilet slave.


Diane


I've cleaned MANY toilets for dominants in my time, but I have zero desire to do "toilet play". It seems like one of those fetishes that kind of emerged recently and is getting far more notoriety than it really deserves.


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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/12/2007 12:26:14 AM   
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Any slave that knows how to clean toilets is a good toilet slave.
Diane
I agree, and that is exactly the kind of toilet slave I would be interested in.   M

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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/12/2007 6:32:55 AM   
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could you send Me a pic of  this?

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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/12/2007 6:53:31 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I am curious about what it's all about, however, so I'll give it a try, I guess.


Very open-minded and commendable.

quote:


Maybe someone has some tips on how to become more enthusiastic about it? I normally really enjoy Humiliation scenes, too. So I can't figure out why I am shy about this particular activity.


For some, it is related to social taboos. The taboos for women in this area are generally stronger than for men, or so I have been told. Unless breaking those is a turn-on in itself for you, I have very few tips, except to take it slowly and staying just outside your own comfort zone (i.e. never take it to the point where it really squicks you, just stay at a level that is uncomfortable, so that the comfort zone expands). That way, you will end up deconditioning your reluctance, which will allow you to enjoy the humiliation aspect of it, if you find one.

Some tips about how to go about it...

First, since you like humiliation, try watching some scenes where that is an element. In the movie Shogun, there is a scene where the samurai does this to Anjin in the interest of humiliating him. One assumes there are other movies where similar things feature without being so explicit as to push the wrong buttons. If you want, there are of course lots of explicit movies about it, but those tend to go all-out, leaving little room for any "testing the waters", if you'll pardon the pun.

Second, start off in a bathtub or shower, with the water running. Perhaps by yourself at first, since some find it unpleasant to have others around while answering nature's call, then with the sub watching from a distance. At first, don't watch him as you're doing it, so as to take one step at a time. Then, once you're comfortable with that, watch his responses; he should be pretty aroused by it, seeing as though he would at this point have essentially been in a tease/denial cycle for a while. That may serve to arouse you yourself. Later, allow him to touch the stream, or somesuch. Progress to having him in the bathtub with you, then under you, and eventually leaving the water off. Then, when you are ready, let him taste a little bit. Slowly move on to having him drink it all. After he has learned to swallow a bladderful (which means constant swallowing, without the mouth being allowed to fill up, at least at first), you will be more confident that he can drink it without making a mess. When this is no longer a concern for you, it should be simple enough to transition to letting him "drink from the source", so to speak. That is pretty much the last step before you can start making the adjustment to occasionally using him for this purpose. Don't make it a constant thing, unless you know he has no kidney issues and do an occasional bloodwork to check that his kidney is fine, along with giving him plenty of other fluids.

The final stage, if one is so inclined, is to make the mental adjustment back to toilet in this case, i.e. viewing it as "going to the toilet" rather than as an intrinsically sexual or otherwise arousing act. At this point, one has come full circle, and there is a definite element of humiliation and objectification beyond "mere" play. It can certainly be an entirely natural thing, if one chooses to make the effort to align one's perceptions thus.

I know prop mentioned she was used in such a capacity for a few years.

On the receiving end, there's lots of tips, though I think they've been covered well elsewhere. Having the one with the bladder keep well hydrated, and preferrably drinking lots of pineapple juice to sweeten the flavour, eases the process of getting used to it. Since it has some squick potential for you, it is imperative not to elicit a negative reaction from him until you are used to it. Gagging and/or vomiting at an unexpected moment is a turn-off for most people, and one that can create a strong aversion.

That's what I can think off right now.


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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/12/2007 7:04:01 PM   
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A good toilet slave is one who enjoys his job. I have a slave who I use as my personal urinal.  He is the first one I have done watersports with.  The first few times I tried it, I couldn't do it.  I kept tensing up and could not release those muscles.  It took some time and patience (and several attempts), but I was finally able to do it.  Now I really enjoy it.  It is one of the biggest turnons I have ever experienced.  I'm glad I chose to try it and I am glad this is something my slave and I can enjoy together. 

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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/12/2007 9:34:17 PM   
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Aswad: Thanks very much for the practical tips - I will use them.

- Susan

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RE: Toilet Slaves - 8/13/2007 8:02:24 AM   
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You are most welcome, Susan.

It can be a rewarding experience, but it is not for everyone.

I hope what I said will be helpful in discovering which is the case for you.


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RE: Toilet Slaves - 9/2/2007 9:53:11 AM   
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Hi Sue,
As a toilet slave, I just wanted to commend Aswad for a very personal and honest response. Hopefully you will overcome the squick factor and be able to enjoy the relief and pleasure that Queencaliph cherishes. I was lucky and introduced to consuming as a blindfolded joke with my local neighborhood girlfriends at a very young age and have enjoyed my position ever since.

Hopefully, your sub will show you the proper enthusiasim while receiving your nectar... and clean you properly. Personally, I believe it's my responsibility to leave my girls grinning, another something I enjoy doing.

Good luck Sue, let us know your progress, or come back for support anytime.
Cheers, john

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RE: Toilet Slaves - 9/2/2007 10:56:16 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

My submissive wants to do watersports, and there is a "Squick factor" for me, that I need to overcome before engaging in this with him. I will do it, but the first few times, it might bother me a little.

I am curious about what it's all about, however, so I'll give it a try, I guess.

I am not judging those who like this, just saying this is my own opinion - which could very well change once I've tried this.

Maybe someone has some tips on how to become more enthusiastic about it? I normally really enjoy Humiliation scenes, too. So I can't figure out why I am shy about this particular activity.

But I do want to learn more about it.

- Susan


Of course start with golden showers. I find this an honor actually, although I do use it for other forms of play. For instance make him lie on the floor, stroke himself to get really hard, stand over him and pee on his cock and balls as if you were marking your property. This is much easier to start with. You can even blindfold him if you’re shy about this at first.
  One couple I had her make a recording of her pee in an mp3 alone. She played it for him and when she saw his reaction and fascination to it slowly she too became fascinated.      



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