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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:14:06 PM   
Padriag


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ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted

I am sorry, I thought you were directly getting at me for some reason, even though I have no knowledge of you as a Master.....However, I will direct my Master to your comments....

Wasn't trying to get at you for any reason, I don't know you.  I also don't care whether you direct your master to my comments or not, they weren't for him, they were for you.  I have no idea what he will do, neither do I give a damn.  You asked a question and I gave you some advice, minus any sugar coating.  I did that because I want you to remember it, for your own sake.  Try to understand this, because its very important to you personally... your life is what you make it.  The biggest problem with most brats is that they don't take responsibility for themselves, and that's certianly been a pattern with you in this thread.  Yet until you do take responsibility for your behavior, your actions, what you say and do, your attitude is going to continue to alienate those around you.  And worse, its not just you at stake here... there's your daughter.  You're right, she learned that bratty attitude from you.  But maybe, just maybe, if she see's mom make a change in her life it might inspire her to change too.  Forget about master/slave and all that right now, this is about you as a person and making a change that will help you as a person... not just in a relationship with a dominant, but in every relationship you have in your life.

Only you can fix you.

Course all this from an unforgiving bastard who knows nothing about respect.   And BTW, you owe Level an appology, he's a pretty decent guy who was being honest with you and in no way deserved the vitriol you directed at him. 

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A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:17:28 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		<watches Padriag and now aspires to become Domme.

derr, I better not.

O cruel fates, what havok that would be. LOL

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:21:09 PM   
Padriag


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Status: offline 		ROFLMAO... ya nut!

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A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:24:25 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		haha, I really want to, but I am straight, and seeing a man behaving is ummm well..not my thing.

so I am choosing to be either D or s (for now). lol


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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:25:58 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		It depends on how much I had invested in the submissive.

If it was in the getting to know you stage and they were bratty, I would not be interested at all.  Bless the people who like bratty or sammy submissives, as they annoy me. 

If the brattiness was an anomaly in otherwise pleasant behavior, I would look at that.  Did our interaction push his buttons?  Did I press on his vulnerabilities?  In that case, it's an area for exploration.  It might have to do with testing boundaries of our D/s relationship.  Perhaps he's had difficulty with what I want from him.

Did he have a bad day? Was he stressed?   In that case, we would look at appropriate ways for him to express himself.

It depends, for me, on the submissive's drive and motivation.  Someone who screws up but who is sincerely working at things is workable.  A person who blows their top and bails would get old fast.

MSS

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:27:38 PM   
Level


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ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted

Prehaps Level.....when you chose to show you profile, we can see who you are?????........Why are you just be here to talk on forums???? Are you afraid of something/someone......Or just a second profile to slag someone off on the forums without getting caught?????


Well, "sweetie"..... I had a profile on for quite some time. I took the information off, because I'm not looking.
 
As for "slagging".... if I feel the need to do so, I surely don't need to hide. I mean, this is the internet, what's someone going to do, type "ka-pow" at me?

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:29:41 PM   
MySweetSubmssive


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MSS

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:30:25 PM   
Level


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ORIGINAL: Padriag

And BTW, you owe Level an appology, he's a pretty decent guy who was being honest with you and in no way deserved the vitriol you directed at him. 


Thank you, Padriag, I appreciate that.

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:31:40 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Whoa!!! What happened to showing respect to everyone you meet? Before you start off on Level, take a look at how long he's been around and the number of posts to his credit. Level is well-known here, and respected by me at least. I thought his remark was very apt. When you are BEING a brat, you certainly are NOT being respectful. And it sure didn't take much for you to drop the trappings of pretending to be respectful and turn and snipe at him for what was really a very mild (and appropriate) question.

As far as brattiness goes... I would NOT punish a sub for brattiness. I would sit the sub down for a long talk. Such behavior is not cured by punishment (depending on the sub), but by behavior modification. When you say you are wanting punishment for the bad behavior, I'd venture to suggest that punishment is not the answer.

As far as the Dom losing his temper... with a bratty sub on his hands, she may have done her childish acting out just once too often. Personally I would not have put up with it long enough to have gotten fed up and lost my temper, but everyone is different. Maybe that one time was just the last straw....

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted

Prehaps Level.....when you chose to show you profile, we can see who you are?????........Why are you just be here to talk on forums???? Are you afraid of something/someone......Or just a second profile to slag someone off on the forums without getting caught?????


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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:31:42 PM   
SleepyBeast


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted

Prehaps Level.....when you chose to show you profile, we can see who you are?????........Why are you just be here to talk on forums???? Are you afraid of something/someone......Or just a second profile to slag someone off on the forums without getting caught?????


Well, "sweetie"..... I had a profile on for quite some time. I took the information off, because I'm not looking.
 
As for "slagging".... if I feel the need to do so, I surely don't need to hide. I mean, this is the internet, what's someone going to do, type "ka-pow" at me?



Ka-pow Ka-pow Ka-jam.

Darn, my keyboard jammed.

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:34:41 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		can Level get Alfred to get me a coffee??? me thirsty.

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:38:13 PM   
Padriag


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: Padriag

And BTW, you owe Level an appology, he's a pretty decent guy who was being honest with you and in no way deserved the vitriol you directed at him. 


Thank you, Padriag, I appreciate that.

No problem, just calling them as I see them.

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A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:44:52 PM   
Level


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ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive

Lovely Jackson Browne verse, Level.  That man is amazing!

MSS


He is indeed. His music is nothing short of brilliant.

_____________________________

Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:45:16 PM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		By the OP's limited profile, i get the impression she is a bottom only looking for a good spanking. A bratty bottom at that!LOL!

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:47:21 PM   
Level


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

Whoa!!! What happened to showing respect to everyone you meet? Before you start off on Level, take a look at how long he's been around and the number of posts to his credit. Level is well-known here, and respected by me at least. I thought his remark was very apt.


Hello Lady M, and thank you.

_____________________________

Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:47:30 PM   
feastie


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ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted

Prehaps Level.....when you chose to show you profile, we can see who you are?????........Why are you just be here to talk on forums???? Are you afraid of something/someone......Or just a second profile to slag someone off on the forums without getting caught?????


Level happens to be an extremely nice man and quite intelligent (if not a little stubborn ).  He's also quite charming and fun to talk with.  What he isn't, is any of the crap you hurled in his direction. 

Your behavior on this thread has been far beyond anything I'd term as "bratty".  It's been deserving of punishment and I am not a proponent of punishment.  However, I think punishment is just what you're looking for, so I'd be damned if I gave it to you in the way that you're apparently thinking. 

In the end, you are the only one that can truly control your mouth and your behavior.  I truly hope that you find it within yourself to change. 



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Disclaimer: Any views expressed in any post are my opinions only. They may or may not be yours.

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:49:15 PM   
Level


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ORIGINAL: SleepyBeast

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingdomwanted

Prehaps Level.....when you chose to show you profile, we can see who you are?????........Why are you just be here to talk on forums???? Are you afraid of something/someone......Or just a second profile to slag someone off on the forums without getting caught?????


Well, "sweetie"..... I had a profile on for quite some time. I took the information off, because I'm not looking.
 
As for "slagging".... if I feel the need to do so, I surely don't need to hide. I mean, this is the internet, what's someone going to do, type "ka-pow" at me?



Ka-pow Ka-pow Ka-jam.

Darn, my keyboard jammed.





_____________________________

Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:50:39 PM   
Level


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ORIGINAL: came4U

can Level get Alfred to get me a coffee??? me thirsty.


LOL........ how about a ride on my Bat Cycle?

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Fake the heat and scratch the itch
Skinned up knees and salty lips
Let go it's harder holding on
One more trip and I'll be gone

~~ Stone Temple Pilots

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:50:54 PM   
bandit25


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Status: offline 		Are you kidding me?  You need to take a reality check here sweetheart.  You don't know wtf you are talking about.  Level has to be one of the most respected posters here.  I happen to know him and he has his reasons for not putting much on his profile and he certainly does not have to explain them to anyone.

Grow up!

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RE: Hope To Cope With An Utter Brat? - 8/12/2007 1:53:32 PM   
came4U


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Status: offline 		pft (all bratty like)

I want the coffee gawdsnabbit.

fine, I'm going to find Robin and sub him. lmao.

<trolls away in a huff

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