WinsomeDefiance
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I'm stepping in on this a little late. Not offering you any advise on the question you posed. You already have as good advise as you will ever get. The way I see it, you posted your little scenario expecting to be patted on the back for being such a good girl in recognizing you were naughty and asking for discipline. However, you didn't pose the post that way but instead asked how another dominant would handle the situation. An experienced individual took the time to respond, not just with a quip but a detailed answer in the hopes of helping you recognize a bad habit pattern. I don't think you recognize how very considerate this was. Because his response wasn't the pat on the back and attagirl you expected, you showed your true colors. In fact, your responses weren't even bratty. They were petty and snipish and not even up to the level of snarky that might have at least implied you were a witty brat. I've seen some Daddy/Dom types eat this sort of bratty behavior up and reinforce it with the spanking his baby girl wanted. Maybe that is the dynamic of the relationship you are in. I don't know. When you ask for advise, and what you hear isn't what you wanted to hear. When it stings, or even hurts, don't reply right way. Take a step back. Take time to ascimilate the information. Let it sink in. Or not. Charlotte
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