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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 5:33:40 AM

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I do prefer slightly younger, but we have found that we have almost nothing in common with anyone younger than 25 (that number goes up as we get older - but basicaly 4 years younger than me). So someone your age isn't going to interest us much other than maybe as friends, but even that is pushing it without things in common.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 5:46:10 AM

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I don't think that is necessarily true, people are people.^

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 5:55:08 AM

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In our experience, there is just too much separating us from anyone too much younger than us. We aren't interested in the Mommy dynamics, and with someone who is barely out of high school ... or who has just started college ... or even has just finished college ... well, that's what it ends up feeling like. We want someone close in age to us so that we have things in common, so that we are at similar stages in life and we know for a fact that we are headed towards similar goals.

We are well aware that every person is different, but narrowing our age range lowers the amount of time sorting through unsuitable candidates considerably. You asked a question, I answered it ... please don't act like I'm ignorant of human nature simply because you don't like the answer I gave. Our age range has been based on years of searching and talking to people - we just don't have enough in common with anyone too much younger than we are to sustain a long term relationship.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 6:08:47 AM

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I tend to like them best between 21 and 27 years old....

I just like the energy, curiousity and vitality of men that age. Because they often have less experience, they are less likely to have been very hurt and as a result, bitter. Really, I just find them more fun!!!!!!!!

The way I see it, men can be either men (meaning mature, something I see as positive) or boys (a term I use to mean immature, something I see as negative) whether they are 20, 30, 40, etc....

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 6:39:18 AM

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My age range is 21/22 to 28 since being almost 25, I like to have people that are able to go out to the bar. Also normally I like people have had the chance to have finished their college education, or have spent time buliding a stable life.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 6:46:02 AM

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For me my age range starts around 20 currently (as I get older this will probably move) but my top age limit is my age. I frankly just prefer younger people plus he/she would be closer to my current slave's age and probably more familiar with the same cultural and social background. Similar interests and references are a huge help to groups getting along.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 7:06:13 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

In our experience, there is just too much separating us from anyone too much younger than us. We aren't interested in the Mommy dynamics, and with someone who is barely out of high school ... or who has just started college ... or even has just finished college ... well, that's what it ends up feeling like. We want someone close in age to us so that we have things in common, so that we are at similar stages in life and we know for a fact that we are headed towards similar goals.

We are well aware that every person is different, but narrowing our age range lowers the amount of time sorting through unsuitable candidates considerably. You asked a question, I answered it ... please don't act like I'm ignorant of human nature simply because you don't like the answer I gave. Our age range has been based on years of searching and talking to people - we just don't have enough in common with anyone too much younger than we are to sustain a long term relationship.

Ohhhh, my mistake. By "we" you don't mean women in general, your profile is for two different people. lol.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 7:07:50 AM

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We're a couple, yes. Thus the plural of "SweetDommes"

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/13/2007 10:04:54 AM

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My longest relationship was with someone 11 years younger. I have dated up to 17 years younger. I've never had children to compare their ages with. I wouldn't want anymore gap than that though.

So far, I only date men younger than I am, however, I'm not into age play. Someone that much younger would have to be very, very mature. That much age difference would also be the exception, not the norm.

~Big

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/14/2007 12:47:24 AM

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I prefer a boy 30-45. To be perfectly honest, I'd rather not deal with the erection problems of someone over 50.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/14/2007 8:28:08 AM

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If you were not born when Adam Ant was great and new, you are too young.

If you have no idea what I mean by that, you are too old.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/14/2007 8:44:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: BadJezebel

I tend to like them best between 21 and 27 years old....

I just like the energy, curiousity and vitality of men that age. Because they often have less experience, they are less likely to have been very hurt and as a result, bitter. Really, I just find them more fun!!!!!!!!

The way I see it, men can be either men (meaning mature, something I see as positive) or boys (a term I use to mean immature, something I see as negative) whether they are 20, 30, 40, etc....

While the most important quality is a sincere desire to put time and effort into knowing my "hot buttons," I am with you on liking them "young and impressionable" -- 21 - 27 is my search criteria on this site, when I am just "trolling" for fresh meat. I also have always eroticized the idea of being a successful corporate exec with a pretty boy or harem to tend to - and in that ideal, the men are younger. I think I'd really enjoy "molding" a young, open minded man and turning him into a great "slave" through his college years so that he's prepared to enter into a real relationship. I still haven't nailed down the dynamics and how it would work, but it's something I've pondered a long time and dabbled a little in.

Oh, and my husband is nearly 10 yrs younger than me; we were 30/21 when we first got together and 32/23 when we got married. YUM!

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/14/2007 12:49:17 PM

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I was about 15 years younger than mine..........and that's what she wanted. She wanted someone younger she could train in her way to do what she wanted, to obey her, and to be used to please her sexually...........and be trained to do that in the way she desired. It worked out wonderfully for both of us.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/14/2007 5:49:58 PM

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I prefer a submissive around my age, or a few years younger or older.
Large age gaps either way don't work well for me.
I don't care for men young enough to be considered my son, nor old enough
to be my father.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/17/2007 2:20:59 PM

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I prefer a sub who is younger then me.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/17/2007 4:05:28 PM

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I know this term has been beat to death, but age means nothing to me, maturity does.

Can you sit in silence for an hour or more? Can you live with out television? Talking on the phone? Can you entertain your mind with something other then fantasies?

I have no preference where age is concerned.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/17/2007 4:12:32 PM

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In short: Hell no. I prefer a person who has experienced life first.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/17/2007 4:23:01 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: InnocentYoungSub

Well? I'm curious...

Me, well personaly I haved never had a sub under 25, but that is not something I go and look for. Subs are around my age, I dont find age an issue, of course nothing under 25 and never over 45, so yes I suppose there is an issue thing... *Laughs*

But in answer to your original question, depends on the sub...

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/17/2007 7:02:51 PM

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So there is hope for us young subs yet! I suppose maturity always wins the day...well thats what im hoping for

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/17/2007 7:08:24 PM

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Willingness and ability to serve how I desire is the definer for me, not age. I'm happy with you if you're compatible with me, whether younger or older.

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