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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/17/2007 8:32:50 PM   
MistressTaboo


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Status: offline 		My husband was 21 when I met him and more mature than than most 35yr olds...

I prefer over 21 if I can get them....just because I don't have to worry if I send them to the store to buy wine for the dinner that night...if we want to take them to a club or party we don't have to worry about them getting carded or special permission...

but most of all maturity and attitude..


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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/18/2007 9:41:22 AM   
DivaZya


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Status: offline 		   I really enjoy novices, I like staying interested in younger generations - every one I accept has amazing surprizes to offer. Many smart boys and girls understand that the very first One they serve is not usually the ONE for them -for all time.   As an experienced, unjaded Dominant who is still willing to share the joys and intensitys with young submissives - it's pretty easy for Me to see the longing as well as the sincere potential in each.
  I am glad to actually make the training worth while, it's usually a matter of making certain the young ones learn safety - what to look out for and to be assured that their own feelings are important - to show them personal integrity works even for new want to be slaves.
   Honestly, it is far tougher for Me to take on an older submissive, even a 'newbie'.. so often the rest of their lives have caused them to shut down the responsiveness I so revel in with young ones!
   I found My Primary when he was 26.. several years younger than I.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/18/2007 10:20:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		I do.  I prefer younger lovers/mates/submissives, - I don't automatically dismiss any adult age as too young.
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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/25/2007 3:37:33 PM   
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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/25/2007 7:31:56 PM   
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If you were not born when Adam Ant was great and new, you are too young.

If you have no idea what I mean by that, you are too old.





I loved Adam & the Ants way back when.  Had all the albums, on vinyl of course.  I've been picking them up on CD lately.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/25/2007 7:52:08 PM   
arayofsunshine55


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Status: offline 		I want someone with whom I can share my life.  So that means not much younger, preferably older.  If I were looking for just a toy any age would do.  but that's not me.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/25/2007 10:06:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Grlwithboy

If you were not born when Adam Ant was great and new, you are too young.

If you have no idea what I mean by that, you are too old.


My measuring stick is:

Where were you for the Challenger disaster?

If they say:
"My mom told me about that."  Too Young
"We learned about that in school."  Too Young.
"Mommy picked us up from preschool. It was sad!"  Too young
"I went to school with Gus Grissom and Neal Armstrong."  Too Old
"The what?"  Too clueless

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/25/2007 11:40:27 PM   
slaveboyforyou


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My measuring stick is:

Where were you for the Challenger disaster?


Do you ask them if they remember any of the Challenger jokes?  *laughs*  I know that's horrible, but anyone old enough remembers them.  I was in the 6th grade watching it on television in homeroom class. 

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/26/2007 12:30:44 AM   
MisPandora


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ORIGINAL: slaveboyforyou

quote:

My measuring stick is:

Where were you for the Challenger disaster?


Do you ask them if they remember any of the Challenger jokes?  *laughs*  I know that's horrible, but anyone old enough remembers them.  I was in the 6th grade watching it on television in homeroom class. 

*shaking head*
No.  I most certainly wouldn't ask that ignorant a question, since the tragic loss of life was not a laughing matter.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/26/2007 7:31:22 AM   
slaveboyforyou


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*shaking head*
No.  I most certainly wouldn't ask that ignorant a question, since the tragic loss of life was not a laughing matter.


*sighs*  I was joking.  But since you seem to be the serious type....Those jokes were a widespread cultural phenomenon after the Challenger disaster.  I don't think there is anything "ignorant"  in asking someone if they have ever heard them.  Humor is commonly used to deflect the pain of tragedies, and there is nothing new about that.  Dark humor is by its very name...dark.  After 21 years, I think it is perfectly safe to mention those jokes which a lot of us heard.   

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/26/2007 8:01:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I really do love playing with older men, 40 plus, no limit to how old.  For some reason, the chemistry is better for me then it is with the younger subs I have played with, but then again I do really prefer experienced players.  I have never even dated someone younger.

As for the erectile dysfunction issues-nothing is better then getting a partner hard through bdsm activities who is otherwise unable to perform, as is their amazement at my ability to get them more excited then they have been in years.  My sex slave, who is 10 years older then me can keep it raging for 5 hours plus when we play!



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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 8/26/2007 8:22:17 AM   
MissMorrigan


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Status: offline 		I don't necessarily believe that maturity (Chronological) equates to emotional maturity and as far as i can see, there is no correlation between intellectual age, social age, chronological age or a person's emotional age. All but two of my relationships have been with younger men and I personally feel that a relationship is only as balanced as the individuals.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/1/2007 10:32:19 AM   
BossyLadyPamela


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Status: offline 		I am in my latest possible part of 30's........................ eeek.........

I enjoy subs who have a bit of life under their belt..  .. even when I started and was a pro 14 years ago.......doing sessions most of my submissives were men who were in their mid 30's...up to older dudes of distinction...   some of the older gents were the most fun actually.. mind fucks....

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/2/2007 12:49:13 AM   
DarkLovelyDomme


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Status: offline 		I prefer OLDER subs. Mostly because if they are much younger than me, it's illegal!

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/2/2007 12:08:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressTaboo
I prefer over 21 if I can get them....just because I don't have to worry if I send them to the store to buy wine for the dinner that night...if we want to take them to a club or party we don't have to worry about them getting carded or special permission...


Ladies!

Not only am I over 21, I am over 25! I can run to the store to purchase wine for you! Not only that, when you take me into your house to support me, I can chauffeur you and my auto insurance will cost less! Choose me, please, choose me!

Cheers,

Sea

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/3/2007 3:18:54 AM   
MistressShuggie


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Status: offline 		As long as he's legal, he has a chance.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/8/2007 12:33:37 AM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		My ex husband was four years younger than me, my ex partner was nine years younger than me, and my current partner is 12 years younger than me. If this keeps up, I might end up in jail! Honestly though, I don't think about it, but I do seem to attract (and be interested in) younger men and women. I don't know what it means, but I also don't worry about it, and if someone older interested me I'd have no problem with it -- I did pick older partners when I was in my twenties.



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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/8/2007 8:15:42 AM   
Cleopatra666


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Status: offline 		The youngest  male are very naïve, silly and always have problem with feelings, looking for mothers love. I prefer older age, they earn some life experience, they think they know all…………..that is perfect feelings when I show them how  they are wrong.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/8/2007 9:49:37 AM   
MiladyElaine


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Status: offline 		I like younger men.  Of course I'm going to be 54 soon, so younger to Me is no younger than 40!  Men My age have a tendency to look 60-80, so I usually draw the line at 50.

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RE: how many dommes prefer younger subs? - 9/27/2007 10:37:37 PM   
BadJezebel


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Oh, and my husband is nearly 10 yrs younger than me; we were 30/21 when we first got together and 32/23 when we got married. YUM!

Akasha



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