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MistressDaisy73 -> RE: why cheat???? (8/16/2007 8:45:45 AM)
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It is one reason why I prefer, personally, being poly.
Having an, um, er, pretty good deal of experience with men of all types, I have to say, I do think that between half to the majority of them will cheat in some form at some time, depending on the length of a relationship. (Women will too, but honestly my experience lowers the percentage for them, and I am focusing on men here.) They cheat for sooooooo many reasons, but the main one I have heard over and over is "something different". Now, our hot lil, red corsetted "thelunabird" made an excellent point, possibly missed by many. However, that lure of a "new" pussy is VERY strong. As another poster commented, I agree, in my personal point of view, that there is an instinct for some or many males to "spread their seed".
You will find upbringing and generational differences very strong also. Older men, usually 50 or older, because of the era in which they were raised, cheat less, and now, of course, their libidos (in SOME cases, dont get mad here my elder gentlemen) have somewhat diminished or at the least, have gotten refined as they have tasted the various fruits of life.
Mr D made, in my opinion, a good point in few sarcastic words, with the sting that I bet he gives to a nice ass... but, perhaps I might extrapolate a lil... correct me Mr. D, if I go to far here. Masters (Doms) may or may not cheat, but it shows a lack of respect for the trust that is imperative between a sub and Dom(me), more so, in my opinion, than a vanilla relationship. So one might go so far to say, it is WORSE if a man, claiming to be a Master, cheats. (Cheating here meaning involving lies and deception.)
I know I am being wordy here but this is a favorite topic of mine, and one I see soooooooo often that I really wish at the start of every relationship (of any sort) both parties looked at it as an agreement, subject to change at any time, and canceled at any time, if the agreement is broken. Jealousy and fear are the two worst things, IMO, for any relationship.
To the OP: Pretty one, find yourself someone more worthy, be smarter this time, and be very explicit about what you will and will not agree to. I have no doubt you will find happiness.
(And, Dommiguy is right, your cleavage will lead the way to many, er well not hearts, but, you get the idea. Mwuahh!)
M. Daisy
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