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ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:18:53 AM

satyrsnymph28

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for some reason whenever i don't express intense interest in wanting to sleep with/play with someone... i get called psychotic... its like if i'm not madly in love with them and wanting to let them fuck me or beat me... i'm some weird strange creature from an unknown universe...

is that the male insecurity?

something MUST be wrong with me because they're perfect???

i'm not psychotic... i swear

well, i guess that depends on who you ask

but really, what the hell is up with that

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:20:32 AM

MissMagnolia

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HEY, don't knock the psychotics, there's a lot of us around!!

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:21:33 AM

becca333

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Well, you have to know some men think that the world is populated by two types of women:

Women who'll instantly sleep with him

and

Frigid, lesbian bitches.

Oddly, some of them find that there's a whole lot of Flb's out there.

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:21:53 AM

satyrsnymph28

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i just think its both strange and funny that so many men resort to "you're psychotic" as their retort for me not wanting to dedicate my life to their penis...

lol...

men

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:23:18 AM

e01n

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I'm discussing this very thing RN with someone... And the general conclusion we've come to is: neurosis. They have to rationalize the fact that you don't feel that "something" with them by calling you psychotic.

There *are* such unfortunates. They seem to have been born that way. They are not at fault - they are seemingly unable to grasp a manner of living that demands rigorous honesty...

And generally, they're best ignored and blocked

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:26:35 AM

satyrsnymph28

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but i don't call boys psychotic when they don't love me just the way i want them to..

i call them.. uhm... non-committal...

or uhm... male...

but every time... EVERY TIME i let a male know i'm not interested, its their first response "you're psychotic"

like its programed or something...

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:28:37 AM

e01n

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You're psychotic! ;) <j/k>

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:29:28 AM

satyrsnymph28

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yay!!!

another one...

i think that means you're normal or something... lol

<3

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:31:52 AM

MissMagnolia

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I find males who won't buy Me diamonds and a new sports car on a first date psychotic.

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:32:45 AM

satyrsnymph28

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haha

i agree :)

thats so awesome...

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:36:41 AM

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It is because they actually believe when their mamma (still) tells them

'A girl has to be crazy to not love you because YOU are adorable and a real catch!!'.

Boys, Mama been a-lyin' to ya! LOL

< Message edited by came4U -- 8/13/2007 1:38:06 AM >

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:37:22 AM

BlueCollar

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To be honest, you sound like you're just wanting to rant against the faults of men, as opposed to starting any meaningful dialogue here.

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:39:59 AM

came4U

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She DID start a real dialogue. Rant or no rant, it is meaningful to some. Who made you the dialogue-police?

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:43:42 AM

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I've never been called psychotic. Though someone told me today I was uglier than his dick. What's that sayin'?

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:45:08 AM

satyrsnymph28

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its because hes one of those.... the kind we speak of...

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:54:13 AM

came4U

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shhhh one of those,

<does secret labia shake.

gottcha.

btw. satyr, anyone tell you today that youzzz crazy?? lol

OMG earthy lolll uglier than his dick? haaaaaaaaa think about it, he has distaste and hatred for his own man-meat!! that IS crazy.

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 1:55:28 AM

heartcream

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the thing i have noticed and learned about some men, (well, women too, but most women tend to handle it diff) is that they do not like at all to be triggered into feelings of inadequacy. if ya trigger a man to make him feel impotent, not desirable, rejected, powerless, afraid or angry, or sad to name some of da uncomfortable feelins, well they might just lash out at ya for triggerin em. so you are psycho cuz they feel "psycho" within and hate it. it is not easy to have these kinds of feelins and not judge them or wanta push them away somehow. no one likes to feel these things that are painful to feel but when someone deflects it back to da one "makin" em feel this way, it can be abusive. personally i am not a big fan of feeling rejected, unrecognized, or not desirable by anyone lol. i do try and not lash out at da other guy for it, whoever it is.

callin someone psychotic is rude.

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 2:03:59 AM

came4U

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They call us psychotic cuz we have a uterus.

They are scared of the uterus.

Hysterectomy-lovin' rejects.

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 2:05:14 AM

MasterMagnus321

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I believe the "neurosis" explanation is correct. Men who react in such a fashion are highly insecure, and rather than look at themselves and their character defects, it is less painful for them to imagine that something is wrong with you, instead... run, DON'T walk, from such issue-laden, baggage-carrying people; they are very toxic, and drain positivity out of all they come in contact with...

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RE: ok... here's the thing - 8/13/2007 2:07:37 AM

MissMagnolia

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Sheesh lighten up blue collar. Not everything in the world needs to be a "meaningful dialogue". Heard of the f word.....FUN?

I've had a hyterectomy, there goes My excuse for psychosis

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