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Voltare -> RE: Are you crazy? (6/20/2004 11:14:15 AM)
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ORIGINAL: NetherLord
Every time I question this, I realize that vanilla girls don't follow a decent set of rules for relationships- if you try to get them to talk, they call the police. If you try to ask them out too often, they call the police. If you try to hold hands or act like a couple before _she_ wants to, they call the police. If you guess what she wants (because she won't ever tell you) and guess wrong, she calls the police.
Do we see a pattern emerging here?
Ummmmm not to sound too judgemental here, but what kind of girls do you date? I've dated at least my share of vanilla girls, and on the occasions where I have asked for more then she was willing to give at that time, the situation rarely goes beyond someone getting their feelings hurt. I've never had a woman call the police, have had no sexual assault charges of any kind, and in more instances then not, I am usually successful in at least getting the woman to communicate. Granted, I don't approach a girl I do not know well with a belt in hand, demanding "slut, you better start talking/spread your legs/date me NOW" as that would probably result in police interaction - and not just a roleplay.
The key to communication - with vanilla and BDSM people alike, is to give the woman/man good reason to talk to you: usually just being yourself is enough. BDSM doesn't give you any better or worse communication, I think, it just requires a greater awareness for the need to communicate.
Oh, and I am certainly mad. It's said that the there is a thin line between genius and madness. I'm of the opinion that one who delves deep within madness achieves genius, and that one who delves deep within genius finds only madness.
Stephan
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