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how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 1:34:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		How do you enforce disaplin from 85 miles away, my slave are part time right now and I do get to see her on the weekends..
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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 1:46:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		You don't. You tell her what it is she needs to do or whatever it is you're trying to accomplish and then, you trust that she'll do it. And you take the stance that if she can't be trusted to do what's necessary with only 85 miles between you and the knowledge that she'll see you on the weekend, then you don't need her. It's only five days for crying out loud. If she can't manage herself for five days, then why do you want her in the first place? You're not talking six states and months in between visits.You're talking about a simple work week.

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 3:36:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		Discipline?  I would think the distance alone would make it null and void...not to mention she is only "part time".  It would be kind of hard to take the relationship seriously...maybe she thinks it is more a play session.  Good luck though...

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 3:44:57 AM   
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How do you enforce disaplin from 85 miles away, my slave are part time right now and I do get to see her on the weekends..


I beat her on the ass with a dictionary.......
 
If she is a "slave", a good one, she should do what you want. Right?

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 3:45:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		juliet is spot on.  It's a week for crying out loud.  If she can't "behave" herself for a week, who the hell needs her?  Or is this a game you are playing?

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 3:47:24 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL, Level, I just noticed the "disaplin" and was going to edit my post, but you beat me to it.

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 3:49:42 AM   
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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 3:56:54 AM   
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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 3:57:06 AM   
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Discipline?  I would think the distance alone would make it null and void...not to mention she is only "part time".  It would be kind of hard to take the relationship seriously...maybe she thinks it is more a play session.  Good luck though...


85 miles winds up being an hour and a half drive. Work requirements often necessitate that people who don't live together don't see each other except for the weekends. Those restrictions or conditions are not insurmountable and certainly no indication of a lack of any dedication or opportunity to serve or control. So, I'd say that the distance does not make the relationship "null and void."
The notion that 24/7 live-in situations are the ONLY way one can be involved in something more serious than a play session is as patently narrow as someone who thinks that 5 days is too long to be away from controlling their slave.

Committments to slavery entail a bit more dedication than simply being in the same place at the same time.

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 4:01:25 AM   
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Why, whatever do you mean, bandit? *waves big ass Funk and Wagnalls and grins*


um...can we request Oxford? (You know...that one that's in the library that's so big (thick, heavy, thuddy, oooh) that it requires its own table?

What can I say, I guess I'm an edge player.

Besides, the next morning, I can say "I feel like I've been hit by an OX(ford)!" and be entirely truthful.

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 4:07:42 AM   
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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 4:08:58 AM   
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Why, whatever do you mean, bandit? *waves big ass Funk and Wagnalls and grins*


um...can we request Oxford? (You know...that one that's in the library that's so big (thick, heavy, thuddy, oooh) that it requires its own table?

What can I say, I guess I'm an edge player.

Besides, the next morning, I can say "I feel like I've been hit by an OX(ford)!" and be entirely truthful.

juliet




Oh sure, try to give me a hernia, juliet.....

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 4:12:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lest I be seen as snarky and unhelpful, to the OP: why do  you think you need to discipline her? I was being serious, if she genuinely wants to submit to you, then she will. If the two of you are "playing", then I'm sure there are others here that can give you some great ideas.

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 4:15:28 AM   
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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 4:19:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yo, y'all need to lighten the hell up. Believe it or not, there are other ways to do things than 'total obedience all the time', some people enjoy the power play, some people enjoy the discipline, and that's okay, it doesn't mean it's any less serious or real than what you are doing. I'm so dissapointed in you all, making your jokes about 'twue' this and 'twue' that, and then leaping all over anything that doesn't conform to a narrow field of expectation. For SHAME!

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 4:24:38 AM   
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Yo, y'all need to lighten the hell up. Believe it or not, there are other ways to do things than 'total obedience all the time', some people enjoy the power play, some people enjoy the discipline, and that's okay, it doesn't mean it's any less serious or real than what you are doing. I'm so dissapointed in you all, making your jokes about 'twue' this and 'twue' that, and then leaping all over anything that doesn't conform to a narrow field of expectation. For SHAME!


Well, far be it from me to ignore a post starting off with "yo"......
 
Yep, for those that like to play, nothing wrong with that. It'd be nice if they stated that was the situation, however.

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 6:05:18 AM   
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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 6:17:29 AM   
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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 7:09:31 AM   
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Yo, y'all need to lighten the hell up. Believe it or not, there are other ways to do things than 'total obedience all the time', some people enjoy the power play, some people enjoy the discipline, and that's okay, it doesn't mean it's any less serious or real than what you are doing. I'm so dissapointed in you all, making your jokes about 'twue' this and 'twue' that, and then leaping all over anything that doesn't conform to a narrow field of expectation. For SHAME!


Well, far be it from me to ignore a post starting off with "yo"......
 
Yep, for those that like to play, nothing wrong with that. It'd be nice if they stated that was the situation, however.

LMAO.....gotta love the "yo"... and true enough, if Y'all are role playing... groovey. There must be tons of play you can use in your "play discipline" time on weekends... and like i always say..."Yo! don't be hatein!" 

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RE: how do you enforce disaplin - 8/14/2007 7:23:39 AM   
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How do you enforce disaplin from 85 miles away, my slave are part time right now and I do get to see her on the weekends..


I beat her on the ass with a dictionary.......
 
If she is a "slave", a good one, she should do what you want. Right?
How'd you know that's what I was thinking?

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