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RE: I have a question? - 7/7/2005 3:19:57 PM

perverseangelic

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I agree that there are different degrees of friends, however, if I can't mention that I'm doing somethign because my partner says so, or that I have to get home to make dinner before him or I'll get in trouble, I don't want to be friends.

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RE: I have a question? - 7/8/2005 8:36:07 PM

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i found D/s about 14 months ago; so most of my friends are vanilla..and very old, dear friends. i found i was able to tell my girlfriends, but i could never picture myself telling any of my male friends, not even my gay friends. i think there is a boundary in place there..when men and women are friends...that means intimate sexual matters are not discussed..and they would not know of BDSM, so i'd need to explain it, not just reveal i was involved..and i just could not imagine this happening.

My girlfriends all had the same reaction. Are you REALLY doing this? What's it like? Tell me more! No, no, no i do not want to join up (but i want every detail of yr experiences). Buncha voyeurs, LOL.

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RE: I have a question? - 7/9/2005 1:23:08 AM

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There always going to be differ`int degree of friends as i relize it now for me though it was hard at first because im sored of shy and never been in the post area till last week or so.....But now i know i can ask thease sored of questions and stuff on here as i know it was probobly dumb to ask but like i say i had this in my mind for a long time now and had differ`int friends that understood me and did not so i just had to ask the big Question....

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RE: I have a question? - 7/9/2005 3:21:56 AM

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No question is a dumb question. As for me...i have friends on both sides of the coin...vanilla and lifestylers. I won't stop being friends with those who are not in the lifestyle for i had been vanilla longer than I have been a lifestyler. But that's not to say i will hide what I am because the vanilla friends find me weird lol.

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RE: I have a question? - 7/11/2005 11:44:11 PM

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lol...that`s too funny the part where you said you were weird there slinkyone as my sence of humor goes along way with my vanilla friends and the other side of me as well as i just dress casual so people think im also werid in this lifestyle lol..

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