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Hard Choices


Go for the restaurant and give up the girl
  69% (9)
Go for the girl and give up the restaurant
  30% (4)


Total Votes : 13
(last vote on : 8/16/2007 3:39:42 PM)
(Poll ended: 8/17/2007 12:00:00 PM)
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Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:11:15 AM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		It comes down to this...
I can either own a crap restaurant that I can gut and remake in my image, or I can be with someone who makes me happy. They're mutually exclusive at this moment.
This is not me asking for help in making the decision (that part is done and done) - but I'm curious as to opinions on this site...

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:16:52 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		What do you want the most? What does your gut tell you? Always listen to your gut instincts.

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:18:37 AM   
instynctive


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Status: offline 		Go for the restaurant and be successful and get rich and you can have any girl you want.

Besides, anyone that offers up an ultimatum ("choose me or your dream" as it were) is in need of being replaced.




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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:21:04 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		Not enough info.  If you can't make a decision with what you know, how can someone else intelligently comment knowing even less?

Trick question!

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:24:20 AM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		Well, the choice has already been made. And it's an internal decision, not one forced on me as an ultimatum.

I'm asking what the general feeling is amongst posters: heart or wallet...

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:25:57 AM   
MySweetSubmssive


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Status: offline 		Flip a coin.

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:27:29 AM   
vltava


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Status: offline 		It doesn't sound like heart or wallet, it sounds two pieces of your heart in conflict, which is why you're torn, isn't it?

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:27:31 AM   
michaelsbrat


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Status: offline 		heart.....and if the rest is meant to be, it will happen in time

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:36:21 AM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		Again, the decision's been made. It's a done deal. I'm asking what *you* would do...

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:45:44 AM   
instynctive


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Status: offline 		That's what I'd do. :-)

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 9:49:48 AM   
instynctive


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Status: offline 		Actually, I thought this thread would be about this: http://www.popularpages.net/pics/her-first-gang-bang_4_1495_si.jpg

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 10:01:50 AM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		Well, if it were up to me, I 'd say she should have gone for the one on the right... but YMMV... ;)

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 10:11:55 AM   
instynctive


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Status: offline 		Actually, having actually looked at all the choices (since I'm at work, I wanted to copy and paste the URL without getting caught), there isn't a single attractive choice in there..

But, like you said.. YMMV   lol

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 10:22:31 AM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		Personally, I'd go for the dream and gamble that the person who makes me happy will also follow my dream.

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 12:34:44 PM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		Ah... but it's exclusionary... Can't have my cake and eat it too, in this case.

Aristotlean logic - source of many an hour's amusement...

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 12:50:01 PM   
MsBearlee


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Having been in the restaurant business for years (and understanding how hard a business it IS), and having owned my own once or twice; I cannot imagine why you say the two are exclusionary. 
 
However, in that you HAVE said this... I'd go with my heart, leave this place you say you can gut and fix up; and look for another......with your girl.    Cooking is a passion you don't have to live without.
 
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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 12:51:13 PM   
pixieluvsdaddy


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Status: offline 		Interesting question..

In putting myself in your position (I am very empathic btw.. smiles), I was imediately drawn towards the girl.  However, I wasn't comletely drawn to her with a feeling of a final decision.. but rather with a question.  If I were to make her my final decision, will I not only be able to provide for our basic needs, but also provide enough comforts to keep us both relatively satisfied?  See, if you end up having to go out and get  a second job (or her for that matter) to cover expenses.. what kind of quality time are you going to have to give to her anyway?  Is she a down to earth kind of girl, or a high maintenance woman who has high financial standards and thoughts towards keeping up appearances?

I have a strong hunch, you've considered all of the above and are choosing the girl.. smiles..

My best wishes to you both!

-pixie

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 1:30:51 PM   
e01n


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Status: offline 		But did you all vote? Eh, wot's that - you didn't?!

Someone goes looking for quantifiable evidence, and all he gets are good wishes on hooking up with the girl in question... sheesh!

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 1:32:44 PM   
FullCircle


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Status: offline 		Choose business first then when you have made loads of money find a hooker that looks like her.

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RE: Hard Choices - 8/16/2007 1:59:38 PM   
pixieluvsdaddy


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ORIGINAL: e01n

But did you all vote? Eh, wot's that - you didn't?!

Someone goes looking for quantifiable evidence, and all he gets are good wishes on hooking up with the girl in question... sheesh!


Hey now...looksie under my picture and see my level of experience posting here!  *laugh*  I know.. excuses excuses!  Actually, I didn't even see the poll question above.. lol  I did this time though, and guess what?  I voted!  YAY me!  hehehe

-pixie

BTW, thank you for providing a place for me to get out my *first post jitters*  A girl always remembers her first, you know.. *winkies*


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