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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

Hit them over the head with a club and drag them back to your place to be chained up untill you don't want them anymore.

Bloody hell Fangs! You sure you aren't an Aussie? I know one hell of a lot of guys who take this line when dating (In essence anyway).. There's a whole heap of great info here. One of the best threads I've read yet. I too made the (fatal) mistake in telling people that whilst I was an experienced Gorean Master I was new to BDSM.. bad move that seeing that most times people dont read, and I do mean read properly what is written but tend to be selective. Its caused a few red faces when some folk found out what I had said but you roll woth the punches and end up laughing. made me a few new friends too so alls well that ends ok. Only reason I have an empty collar is because I'm not getting about enough and had placed probably an over exacting criteria in what I wanted.. Fixed that and things are looking better.