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ORIGINAL: Stephann

Something I don't typically discuss in public, but have a strong interest in, is body modification.

I love the idea of adding tattoos, a variety of piercings, firebranding, a severe (but healthy and medically safe) diet, and corset training.  Combined with a complete waredrobe overhaul, I see this as an opportunity to not only assert greater control over her life and lifestyle, but also as a means of giving her a permanent 'new look' that many women spend thousands of dollars on to try to get in a bottle, jar, or salon.  I think these sort of exterior changes, over time, would be a natural complement to the interior changes that will also be taking place.

I don't personally care to use any sort of surgery unless I feel it's absolutely necessary (i.e. breast reduction for example)  as I don't see the benefits to typically outweigh the risks.  My intentions are not for a 'temporary' change, but rather something lasting and sustainable for many decades.

I'm quite aware that most women would not find find this sort of aggressive modification to be palatable.  Thoughts?

Stepha

(p.s. yes, this is intended to be a more effective start to the 'bimbofication' thread; I'm also quite aware that it's not likely to be as popular )

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ORIGINAL: Hisbellaluna

i guess my only concern is do you go into a relationship looking to "fix" someone and if so what happens after they are "fixed"?
if this is just a fun hobby totally not primary, or even secondary or tertiary, not such an issue...
if you did have a desire to "fix" women like some people "fix" cars, then find some one with the intent of doing so, not stringing them along with the insinuation of a relationship, but also understanding that they may not be at you beck and call like a car in the garage...i am sure there are women out there that would love that, make appointments or something...they may not let you beat on them or fuck them, but they will let you do that...which is why i am an advocate for poly...not everyone can fill every need for every person

good luck on finding what you're looking for
luna
His not perfect beta slave

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ORIGINAL: Stephann

Something I don't typically discuss in public, but have a strong interest in, is body modification.

I love the idea of adding tattoos, a variety of piercings, firebranding, a severe (but healthy and medically safe) diet, and corset training.  Combined with a complete waredrobe overhaul, I see this as an opportunity to not only assert greater control over her life and lifestyle, but also as a means of giving her a permanent 'new look' that many women spend thousands of dollars on to try to get in a bottle, jar, or salon.  I think these sort of exterior changes, over time, would be a natural complement to the interior changes that will also be taking place.

I don't personally care to use any sort of surgery unless I feel it's absolutely necessary (i.e. breast reduction for example)  as I don't see the benefits to typically outweigh the risks.  My intentions are not for a 'temporary' change, but rather something lasting and sustainable for many decades.

I'm quite aware that most women would not find find this sort of aggressive modification to be palatable.  Thoughts?

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

The problem with you pushing these body modifications on someone is what happens after the relationship ends. And eventually it will, whether in two years or fifty. She's left with permanent changes to her body that she didn't want, that she agreed to solely because she enjoyed pleasing you. Piercings will close up if removed but tatts require expensive laser surgery that will still leave unsightly remains.

You do better to find someone who enjoys this in and of herself, not for you, and who will add tattoos or piercings because she wants it, not because you do.

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ORIGINAL: Stephann

As for the poly comment, I strongly disagree; while I'm not inherently monogamous, I would prefer to find partners that very closely match my interests and desires so that I won't be so likely to approach the relationship from an a la carte perspective.  The amount of time and personal investement that relationships require, for me, take years to really settle in.  I can't see myself reaching that point if I'm trying to juggle two, three, or four partners simultaneously.

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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

I guess my thoughts are that it seems a bit strange.  Are you saying you are going to intentionally look for a woman who is mousy, not really working what she has, and a bit overweight to transform her like those makeover shows?  There seem to be a lot of assumptions inherent in what you described: that she isn't dressed well, doesn't already have a good "look" going, and also mainly that you have a better sense of style then she would and thus your changes would actually improve how she looks.  I've seen some submissives who have their wardrobe approved by their dominant (and can't ever cut/dye/perm their hair without their oversight, etc, etc) and frankly.... I've never been impressed.

Assumptions that I think are inherent to your post aside, it just seems like an extension of body modification.  I think sometimes things that seem like a good idea in theory, aren't so wonderful in practice.  I also wonder about the longevity about such situations - I mean I do think that there is an implication that the person was chosen for their ability to have a dramatic change, which means they were selected for being in a sorry state of things.  And that seems like that epiphany/understanding would be a little bit of a... blow to a womans self esteem.

C~

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ORIGINAL: Stephann

No question, they'll seem strange.  Most of WIITWD would seem strange to non-lifestylers, no?

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As for the longevity, that's part of why I'm making this post; I'd love to hear from others who've been down this road, both good and bad.

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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs
It seemed strange because it reminded me of this tweeny movie I saw once years ago where these guys have a bet on whether one of them will take this mousy woman (hollywood mousy which meant brown hair and glasses) to the prom and to make her prom ready he does a makeover on her.  But the rest of your post helps clarify things, but your initial post really just did remind me of the movie.

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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs


Have you ever done this successfully?  Juggled two, three, or four women over years (since you said you wanted more permenant changes that lasted over the decades) where you slowly changed their physical looks?  I don't mean the stereotypical body mods of piercings, tats, and brands - but of the other ones you talked about - weight loss, wardrobe change, corset training where the waists went in, surgery, etc.

C~

Hi C,

I think you misread me.  I was saying I haven't, and don't believe I could have juggled women that way.  I could see myself maybe doing this with two women, max, under ideal circumstances. 

And, no, I have no white knight fetish.  I'm more of a black cat to be honest

Stephan


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ORIGINAL: Stephann

Hi C,

I think you misread me.  I was saying I haven't, and don't believe I could have juggled women that way.  I could see myself maybe doing this with two women, max, under ideal circumstances. 

And, no, I have no white knight fetish.  I'm more of a black cat to be honest

Stephan