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Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/5/2005 9:05:35 PM

Senko

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is my profile a bit too intense? does it not inform enough? I am looking for some insight from the girls.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/5/2005 9:21:30 PM

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I don't think it is too intense at all. You give a bit of information about yourself and articulate what you are looking for in a sub. More specifics can be shared with others as you get to know them.

However, you may want to consider changing the word "girls" in your post to something else. It doesn't bother me but then I have never been particularly politically correct. My guess is that others will be offended by its presence.

Good luck to you,
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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/5/2005 9:24:56 PM

siamsa24

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quote:

I am looking for some insight from the girls

You would like some insight from my breasts? Certainly! They think that your profile is well-written and to the point. Not too long, but not so short that one thinks that you are hiding something. In all, they like it

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/5/2005 9:46:26 PM

Senko

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interesting..... well I am clueless as to why I never get any mail then LOL

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/5/2005 11:21:58 PM

pandoravampire

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Time? you only joined in June, took me 41 yrs to find that 'special' one.

You could stop looking like my brother, that might help lol.

A 21 Gorean master, mmmm not sure about that, as im ageist. At 21, i was master of nothing except my lack of insight.

But the profile looks fine. Youve a exercise machine in your photo, thats good, the rather esoteric taste in art's a bit dodgy on the wall though lol.

And 'girl', yeah, id drop that son lol.

I have a mate, who's a fab person, really good at what he says he is, and like you, got nowt from collarme?

I met mine in a chat room, chose him coz he was the quietest gorilla in the pack, did not show himself up like others, and was very respectful of me and others in the room, never asking me to submit like the other fools tried, just talked like a regular guy as we got to know each other. It was how he conducted himself that impressed me.

If you post more, so that people interested can do a search on your posts and get a feel for you, how you think, what makes you tick etc, well, id be more inclined to approach someone i felt i had a feel for. Rather than a anomynous add.

Good luck
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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 12:59:06 AM

Mylee

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I liked your profile, it's well written as the others have said, you let us know exaclty what your looking for, and let us know a little about you..and I think asking us if we like your profile is a GREAT way to get us to read it, oooh witty one! *Giggles* I'm sure you'll get notes anytime now..

good luck,
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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 2:10:15 AM

Senko

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counts the moments till his mail box is flooded with girls emails.... 1..2..3........50..51...52.......147....148...149........556....557...558........1123....1124.........5030......5031.............yeah thats a lot of moments LOL

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 5:35:29 AM

ElektraUkM

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Hello. I took a look at your profile, with a view to being critical, so I hope this doesn't sound TOO negative...

Spell check it. There are a couple of errors. That never looks good.

Secondly I'd say ~ put the stuff about you at the top, rather than outlining what you're looking for first off ~ it's a profile about you, so sell yourself. Put down some hobbies and things you like to do, etc.

I think you bring up some 'negative' things about yourself inadvertently (that's probably spelt wrongly now...), sounding a little tiny bit aware of things that may count against you ~ specifically your age and questions about maturity. I don't think you should mention either of those in your profile, because they put a question in someone's mind that needn't be there. See what I'm saying..?

egs: "... have spent the better part of my life", "the man I have become", "I am a very mature individual" (that last one almost screams to have 'for my age' following it).

I'd also question calling yourself a 'Gorean Master' at 21... because almost everyone is going to ask.. .hmm... what sort of experience have you had..?

The photo... I'd change it for something that doesn't make it look like you spend too much time online ~ in what COULD be your parents house (just the impression I got from it).

Hope that helps in some way.

~ Elektra

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 7:46:30 AM

kisshou

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I liked your profile but I was left wondering if you were only looking for a kajira and also wondering if age mattered to you.

Have you considered posting to other topics on the forums as a way to get noticed/emails?

Happy hunting and best wishes!

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 9:10:18 AM

Mylee

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kisshou

Have you considered posting to other topics on the forums as a way to get noticed/emails?

I was thinking about this as well, I never go profile surfing, I basically only look at profiles of people who's posts I found witty or helpfull in some way, the more you post the more you'll be noticed

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 10:08:55 AM

lonewolf05

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well? i am no female. but AS a slave, in that part of the D/s....

i personally find no ills with Your profile Sir.

but You say Yourself right in there......patience!

it takes time.
i just found a new Mistress, after waiting a year since my last. it is NOT easy on either end of this.
i believe Sir You WILL find her.
the wolf.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 10:17:49 AM

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Your profile reads well.

I would suggest a more clear photograph with no distracting background.
I would also suggest that you add an opening for people to write to you. You make no mention of being open to recieving communication if a party may be interested in getting to know you better.

Peace and Love

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 11:27:39 AM

FelinePersuasion

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Typically people are not masters till they own a slave or submissive. I wouldn't self lable yourself a master untill you have one who's submitted and collared. Also sorry but 21 is to younge to be titled a master yet expecially with out any slaves or submissives, as the title master, that comes with later age. A dominant is more apropriate. Anybody can be dominant regardless of age or submissives or lacks of.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 1:02:53 PM

Oumae

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Senko

interesting..... well I am clueless as to why I never get any mail then LOL

Are you just waiting or have you tried mailing any?

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 3:27:59 PM

darkinshadows

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The thing is Feline, is that He is interested in Gor - Men are Masters in Gorean culture - it is completely different to a Master in a BDSM or Ds sense.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 3:58:49 PM

perverseangelic

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Doesn't read badly, all told. Huzzah for us younguns.

Drop the "very submissive" though, at least IMHO. For some reason "very submisive" ALWAYS rubs me the wrong way. Either someone submits to you, or they don't. Maybe I'm making it overly black and white.

"I have spent the better part of my life learning who and what I am."

I think this line doesn't need to be said. As I see it, that's what life is--learning who/what you are.

Talk more about you. Talk about what you do or want to do. When I read the profile of someone my age who is looking, I'm often interested in what they are doing or seek to do, in a relationship, for a career, in school, in life.

Also, though I think I'm in the minority in this, colored backgrounds for profiles always make it harder for me to read.

Don't be offended by a lack of mail. From my experiences on here, male dominant people generally have to do the mailing.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 4:59:35 PM

Elegant

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Everyone ehere has covered the profile suggestions quite well.

My question: Why don't you get out and about to the numerous lifestyle events, munches, meetings etc in Metro Atlanta. Heck, there is a very active Cherokee munch group that would welcome you with smiles.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 6:59:52 PM

FelinePersuasion

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ya real time definatly beats online as far as events and stuff if they're any in your area.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 7:06:33 PM

perfection20005

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I think it is well written. It could be that you are young, and a lot of subs/slaves look for an older Dom. You still have a long life ahead of you, so be patient, the right one will come along sooner or later. Good luck.

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RE: Looking for a submissives/slaves opinion - 7/6/2005 7:09:02 PM

EmeraldSlave2

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OK got to read the profile, I think your pic and profile rock, though check for typos. You WILL get flak for calling yourself a master at 21, but there's plenty on this site who call themselves master who just found out what a flogger was yesterday.

I'd agree that you should put more specifics about yourself, what's your education background? What do you do for fun? What are your passions? You offer great things, but people ned a context to put them in.

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