Bobkgin -> RE: Avoiding that "Fatal Attraction" experience (o.O) (8/19/2007 9:10:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: violetaelf I'm sorry, but I just see the whole post, as eloquently put as it is, the OP's last word in the matter.. public word nevertheless. It's not a blame, for the OP is also a human being and many of us would often like to have the last word in... but some of us just wave a hand and brush it off as 'not worth it'. There are many people, unfortunately, who are vindictive - (it's a personality trait), persistent (another one) and not respectful of other's... And those traits are shown in many different ways, from plain and clear aggressiveness... to polite-subtle ways. If you really want to end it... just - move - on... because continuing the issue just shows that you can't let go. Just my two cents. 'violet' P.S. If I understood correctly about the comment "I'd like to thank collarchat for providing a block feature in the discussion groups, and thank those of you who encouraged me and who also pointed this feature out to me. You were right: it -does- improve the quality of a discussion. " I just have to say... Why open a thread if all you want to hear is people agreeing with you.... and block those who don't. Defeats the purpose I think, unless all you are looking for is sympathy in your situation. I have answered this twice, posted, and lost the response because the answer wouldn't go through. If this works I'll edit and repost. Stand-by. Ok, on edit: I think you misunderstand my motive for posting this topic. Were I prone to post whenever I experience a set-back or the like, I'd be here much more often ;-) We hear a lot about the plight of sub/slaves in the hands of maladjusted doms/masters, but almost never do we hear anything about the problems a dom/master faces with a maladjusted sub/slave. I think if raising this topic gives food for thought for those at risk it will be a useful contribution to the community. As for the block, I don't know what assumptions you are making to believe I only seek agreement, or consider any disagreement over a point to be a waste of my time. I prefer discussions involving mature individuals, and would prefer to waste as little time as possible on the immature. And so you know, for me maturity is a degree of mental development, not the number of times you've gone around the sun. Some people just can't handle serious adult conversation.
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