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InnocentYoungSub -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 11:48:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Satyr6406

The same is true, obviously, of Hinduism.


B.S.

These sexist beliefs do NOT come from Santana Dharma. Hell, one of the four main schools of thought in Hinduism, Shaktism, exalts women. The great mother(Devi Mata/Shakti) is considered to be the highest form of Brahman(the essence of creation, i.e. God). The feminine aspect of God and creation is put open a pedestal.




Real0ne -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 12:25:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

RealOne: Well the topic is cultural treament that eradictes females. I think I got a little off-track. I am going to take a shoprt break, but I shall return. I appreciate the topic was introduced - it is a very worthy one.

- Susan


Well the problem is "dowry" and inheritance related and has little to do with misogony or patriarchism.  I am surprised no one has berought that up?


Written 3:02 AM May 26, 1997 by
Inheritance Reform in Maharashtra
A PNA dispatch
archives: November 1994
Gender and Inheritance Law Reform in Maharashtra
By Annabelle Perkins The government of Maharashtra State in India has recently passed a law designed to promote gender equity in property inheritance and discourage the practice of dowry-giving. The law provides for the right of a daughter to inherit parents' wealth on an equal basis with sons. Until this law was implemented in Maharashtra, daughters did not have the legal right to claim an equal share of an inheritance because of a loophole in national law. In most cases they had to be content with a dowry. Dowry is officially supposed to represent a daughter's share of her family's wealth, in the form of a pre-mortem inheritance from her parents at the time of her marriage. Dowry is also given by the parents of a daughter to compensate the groom's family for supporting her after her marriage, since she is often prohibited by social customs from earning a cash income that would contribute economically to the family into which she is married. Women may also become an economic burden in the event of widowhood, which is likely since brides are typically much younger than grooms. However, dowry has deteriorated into a method of extortion of wealth from bride's to groom's parents, leaving many parents of daughters in debt and encouraging the practice of female feticide - an increasing social evil in the state of Maharashtra, as elsewhere in India. This practice occurs as a result of great social pressure on parents to arrange socially acceptable marriages for their daughters without having the economic means to do so.

http://www.prout.org/pna/inheritance-india.html



and its not just india:


Female infanticide in India

Many cultures around the world place a much higher value on the male gender of the human species than the female. This has cultivated a deep-rooted preference for producing boys over girls in many nations, particularly Arab and Asian countries, such as Algeria, Afghanistan, Pakistan, and India.

There is no question that society always has been, and - even though there have been improvements - still is male-dominated. The status of women had been raised in many cultures since the 20th century, but in many patriarchal societies they are still considered second class citizens and not privy to the same advantages and benefits men are. One manifestation of this is the dowry system practiced in India. If a son of one family is to get married to a daughter of another, the daughter's family is expected to give large sums of money or other goods to the son's family. Thus, having a daughter is an economic burden on the family as a whole and it can bankrupt a poor family with more than one daughter. Even though this practice has been officially banned by law, the ban is largely ignored and still practiced in all social castes.

One reason women are not preferred over men - and this goes for other societies besides India - is that they are seen as impure because of menstruation and child birth. Also in agricultural societies women are seen as a financial loss because they do not work the fields, whereas the men do. This coupled with the financial burden of having a girl has led to the practice of infanticide in regards to the female babies. Rather than face economic hardship from the omnipresent - albeit illegal - dowry system or face any accusations of dishonor, a large number of infants are killed at birth immediately after it is discovered that they are not male.

The mother often has no say in this. The decision to kill the female infants is in the hands of the patriarch of the family. But he does not do it.  Midwives are very common in India. In addition to the responsibilities of assisting the mother in childbirth, as most midwives in many other countries and cultures do, for an extra fee will  euthanize the female babies shortly after birth. Senior women in the patriarch's family also will take this responsibility on.

http://everything2.com/index.pl?node=Female%20infanticide%20in%20India




Seems the women are knee deep in the practice as well!




More:According to a recent report by the United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF) up to 50 million girls and women are missing from India' s population as a result of systematic gender discrimination in India. In most countries in the world, there are approximately 105 female births for every 100 males. In India, there are less than 93 women for every 100 men in the population. The accepted reason for such a disparity is the practice of female infanticide in India, prompted by the existence of a dowry system which requires the family to pay out a great deal of money when a female child is married. For a poor family, the birth of a girl child can signal the beginning of financial ruin and extreme hardship. However this anti-female bias is by no means limited to poor families. Much of the discrimination is to do with cultural beliefs and social norms. These norms themselves must be challenged if this practice is to stop. Diagnostic teams with ultrasound scanners which detect the sex of a child advertise with catchlines such as spend 600 rupees now and save 50,000 rupees later. The implication is that by avoiding a girl, a family will avoid paying a large dowry on the marriage of her daughter. According to UNICEF, the problem is getting worse as scientific methods of detecting the sex of a baby and of performing abortions are improving. These methods are becoming increasing available in rural areas of India, fuelling fears that the trend towards the abortion of female foetuses is on the increase


http://www.indianchild.com/abortion_infanticide_foeticide_india.htm


Approaching this as a patriarchial practice designed against women or worse as misogony is disingenous and totally overlooks what appears to be primarily pragmatic foundations of how it came into existance in the first place and how that system has now in todays age become economically corrupted. etc etc etc

The differentiation here being that these practices are based predominantly on the "usefullness" and economics of women as compared to men in "their" society, not ours.  It would not surprise me to see the same outcome if it were the same situation and it were a matriarchial society. 

It seems to me this practice has nothing to do with "putting down" women (at least in the indian culture), and is really not much different than comparing the maintenance costs and work one snow blower can do versus another.

Keeping in mind we are on the outside looking in and judging this society based on ours as if we have the right to do so with 25% of all abortions in america being directly related to soci-econimic.

Now I realise Kitten wants to portray them as worse than us regardless of their social structure and traditions.  That and 933:1000 versus 1050:1000 simplyu cannot be considered female genocide imo. 














DomKen -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 12:38:56 PM)

Has anyone considered the long term results of this? How many millions of single 20 to 40 year old men with absolutely no prospects for marriage or even much hetero sex will it take to put in to place an expansionist government that will look to their neighbors as sources of mates for their men? Will China invade Japan or Australia? Is India likely to covet Indonesia or European Russia first?




mnottertail -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 12:41:32 PM)

Will China invade Japan or Australia?

I am thinking Japan gots a couple coming from China, truth be told.





Real0ne -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 12:44:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

Has anyone considered the long term results of this? How many millions of single 20 to 40 year old men with absolutely no prospects for marriage or even much hetero sex will it take to put in to place an expansionist government that will look to their neighbors as sources of mates for their men? Will China invade Japan or Australia? Is India likely to covet Indonesia or European Russia first?


well they are in an arranged marriage society, it seems they chose to go with the 67 less woman instead of the 50 less men.  So all in all they are keeping it relative even imo, but that is a very good point.  i wonder how much of the population is gay?  It still may be balanced?




LotusSong -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 1:52:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

Has anyone considered the long term results of this? How many millions of single 20 to 40 year old men with absolutely no prospects for marriage or even much hetero sex will it take to put in to place an expansionist government that will look to their neighbors as sources of mates for their men? Will China invade Japan or Australia? Is India likely to covet Indonesia or European Russia first?


You realize, that this makes the time right for a woman to have more than one husband.....




Sinergy -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 1:54:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

Has anyone considered the long term results of this? How many millions of single 20 to 40 year old men with absolutely no prospects for marriage or even much hetero sex will it take to put in to place an expansionist government that will look to their neighbors as sources of mates for their men? Will China invade Japan or Australia? Is India likely to covet Indonesia or European Russia first?


You realize, that this makes the time right for a woman to have more than one husband.....


Frank Herbert wrote a lovely and frightening book which describes such a society.

Go find and read The White Plague...

Sinergy




kittinSol -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 3:03:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

You realize, that this makes the time right for a woman to have more than one husband.....



I NEARLY clicked on the 'dancing banana' emo, but thought better of it.

Thing is... who'd want more than one husband? A husband's not the same as a wife. It's far, far more demanding [8D].




Real0ne -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 4:22:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

You realize, that this makes the time right for a woman to have more than one husband.....



I NEARLY clicked on the 'dancing banana' emo, but thought better of it.

Thing is... who'd want more than one husband? A husband's not the same as a wife. It's far, far more demanding [8D].


so you say!




LotusSong -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 5:12:21 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

You realize, that this makes the time right for a woman to have more than one husband.....



I NEARLY clicked on the 'dancing banana' emo, but thought better of it.

Thing is... who'd want more than one husband? A husband's not the same as a wife. It's far, far more demanding [8D].


It wouldn't be difficult. It's all in how you handle things. Besides, a woman can take care of  "certain needs" more efficiently than a man.  She doesn't  have to take a break to get "hard" :)  (she can actually handle up to 5 at a time if need be.  3 holes, two hands,  no waiting:)   [sm=banana.gif]




luckydog1 -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 6:14:14 PM)

Innocnet young sub, I am not a Hindu, but was shocked when I read the Bagavad Gita.  I had no idea how patriachal Krishna's teachings were.  There is no problem reconciling openly revering and putting  "pure" women on a pedastal and putting a whore to death, in far to many cultures. 




thornhappy -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 7:01:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomKen

Has anyone considered the long term results of this? How many millions of single 20 to 40 year old men with absolutely no prospects for marriage or even much hetero sex will it take to put in to place an expansionist government that will look to their neighbors as sources of mates for their men? Will China invade Japan or Australia? Is India likely to covet Indonesia or European Russia first?

Hi DomKen--

It's already a problem in China; men from the more urban areas are going to SE Asia for wives, and some are resorting to kidnapping women from the outer provinces.

Now there's are a few (diminishing) ethnic groups in Nepal and Tibet that practise polyandry (1 women, multiple men).  In one case, the woman marries a group of brothers.

thornhappy

thornhappy




kittinSol -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 7:07:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

It wouldn't be difficult. It's all in how you handle things. Besides, a woman can take care of  "certain needs" more efficiently than a man.  She doesn't  have to take a break to get "hard" :)  (she can actually handle up to 5 at a time if need be.  3 holes, two hands,  no waiting:)   [sm=banana.gif]



I wasn't even thinking about that particular aspect of things... YIKES! Five at a time? Ewwwwww!!! One splashing is enough for me. Five? The dowries had better be LARGE.

And the cocks tiny.




OrionTheWolf -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 8:12:19 PM)

Nothing wrong with patriarchy, or any other type of archy. It is the actions of the people. Your comments support that male chauvinism is okay, because you validate it by using those terms as bad things, just because they are male oriented.

If it was females doing the same thing, and in control of the society, would it be okay then to selective reduce one gender or another?

Orion

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

Complete and utter bollocks. I have said repeatedly that the issue isn't abortion, and that in this case abortion is merely instrumental in propagating a tradition of misogyny and patriarchy. I have also made it quite clear that I am far too aware of the difficulties inherent in reconciling abortion rights and what's happening in India.

Capice?




JackM1 -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/21/2007 8:49:49 PM)

people can be rather stupid at times. its like asking paper making compay owners to care about how we will have oxygen when they destroy all of the trees; they dont care because in that moment in time, their money was more important to them than the well being of the world and the generations of people to come it will be providing for.

its the same for these families, their culture demands that they shell out hundreds to thousands of dollars in dowrys for their female daughters which, in its self, is horrible if the family is poor or has many children, but to add insult to injury; a daughter isnt as helpful with agriculture as a strapping son if the family lives in the country side, nor can she aspire to a higher education and attain a profitable job in the city, or anywhere for that matter. any job that she may qualify for will undoubtably pay much less than the family actualy needs to keep her in the house, or that can pay for a full, profitable dowry(and if the family needs her to be working, then she/her family has most likely not found a husband willing to marry her and subsequently take over her exenses). its a sick practice, but to these people its worthwhile to kill their female infant if it means that they may try again and have a son, who will be able to add to the family, rather than ultimately take away from it.

my personal opinion is that every child is a precious gift, and that these people are incredibly selfish; there are thousands of eager and willing people who cannot have their own children, willing to adopt these female babies. also, clearly they arent thinking about how their children will reproduce in the future; men cannot share a single wife to each have children, and if THOSE future families get rid of their female daughters, well, all i can say is that they had better get over their gripes with homosexuality and invent male pregnancies, because that seems like it'll be the only option in a few generations if this trend continues.

just a thought though; we all seem totally shocked and repulsed by this practice, and dont take me wrong i am TOTALY sickened by it, but remember that we werent raised with those cultural practices and ideals. to us, females are no longer a burden but an asset, who can work and make more than a man, and who dont require any kind of dowry as incentive for a marriage. in these cultures, despite the times, women are unfortunately still a drain on the family money pouch, and people are, as a general rule of thumb, selfish and very much into self preservation, even if that means destroying something as precious as their own child.




meatcleaver -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/22/2007 1:02:45 AM)

You will always find in subsistance cultures something that affluent societies find cruel because dirt poor subsistence cultures can't afford to carry passengers, it endangers everyone. This is manifested in many different ways depending on the culture. It is rather arrogant of affluent westerners to point fingers when they are not faced with starving to death if the fields aren't sowed and harvested or not enough animals are hunted and killed. The fact that the Indian government is trying to tackle this issue is because Indai is becoming more affluent and many of its regions less dependent on subsistance but such ingrained practices become stubborn. When you are faced with starving due to failed crops, no doubt you would be the one to sacrifice yourself for the collective.

The last famine in India was in Bengal in 1943, well within living memory, some 4 million people starved to death. It is difficult to get people to change practices that they rightly or wrongly think help them survive, especially when they are so near annihilation should a crop fail.




SusanofO -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/22/2007 1:16:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Real0ne

[Well the problem is "dowry" and inheritance related and has little to do with misogony or patriarchism.  I am surprised no one has berought that up?

RealOne: It's been brought up, several times (but you'd need to read this entire thread to know that, and it is a long thread).

I appreciated  all of your well-researched information on the Indian dowry system but I have to say -

I feel that dowry system is merely disguised to look "practical". I have to ask  - if this culture considered females able to earn money and operate thier own lives and care for themselves in the absence of a man - this dowry system would have ever been considered necessary to begin with?

Answer is, it most likely wouldn't have been. Unless I am mistaken, there is nothing in the Hindu religion that specifies the need for a female to have to have dowry (if I am mistaken, I hope someone corrects me). This is the work of a culture with a need to make the existence of females seem like a burden - and I am sorry, I do consider it completely patriarchal, and pretty misogynistic. 

In any case, it's destroying plenty of lives, including men's lives (fathers and other family members of of these females who may well spedn their entire lives paying off a dowry for a daughter). It's something I consider next to criminal, as it is basically fincancial extortion. I realize it is part of their culture, but it's hard to deny it is seriously harming families.

Many, many people in India think so as well - and yet is is still practiced as it has been, for centuries, although it is currently outlawed - it's still very prevalent, although its use is dwindling. 

- Susan




SusanofO -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/22/2007 1:21:59 AM)

meatcleaver: I adamantly disagree (as you probably already know).While I can agree that economic conditions can influence how a culture may treat its members - a country that is tacitly encouraging the killing of females (and not the males, and in fact raising their status far above that of females, while encouraging the killing off, or lowering of, the societal status of females) - simply cannot be regarded as something entirely due to poverty, famines, earthquakes, etc.

The fact that you think it can be solely attributed to this - is something I could maybe better understand your reasons for repeating, if you were to cite one shred of evidence (historical or current) that makes this theory of yours believable (to me).

- Susan




meatcleaver -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/22/2007 1:32:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

meatcleaver: I adamantly disagree (as you probably already know).While I can agree that economic conditions can influence how a culture may treat its memebrs, a country is tacitly encouraging the killing off females (and not the males, and in fact raising their status far abover that of females, while encouraging the killing off, or lowering of, the societal status of females) simply cannot be regarded as something entirely due to poverty.

The fact that you think it can be solely attirbuted to this - is something I could maybe better understand your reasons for repeating, if you were to cite one shred of evidence (historical or current) that makes this theory of yours believable (to me).

- Susan


Subsistance cultures aren't sophisticated cultures, they are largely influenced by tradition and the irrationality of religion.

http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/ethics/abortion/medical/infanticide_3.shtml
Son-preference in Hindu cultures is largely based on the fact that men are better providers, and that sons are required for the proper performance of funeral rites.
Some writers argue that Hindu culture has long had a patriarchal bias against women.
 
Even the educated, affluent west is culturally biased to the irrationailty of religion, its traditions and its superstitions so how can one expect an uneducated, subsistance culture to break free of its irrational beliefs?




SusanofO -> RE: Eradicating women. (8/22/2007 1:39:49 AM)

meatcleaver: Thank you for providing the information that links this to interpretation of religion in India. It is the interpretation of a religion (not a religion itself) - its perversion, if you will, that makes these practices persist. I read in your site reference that infanticide is prohibited (and yet it is tacitly encouraged). I cannot attribute this to anything except Patriarchy (and maybe misogyny).

I am not going to automatically fault the religion itself- unless it is very explicit in its insistence on the status of females, and there exist a vast majority of people in a culture who all interpret that religion in the same exact way as it relates to the status of females. That appears (to me) Not to be the case in India, because many people object to these practices (at least currently they do, although many still follow them, out of habit or belief) but that is just a superifcial impression of mine, I haven't researched that aspect that thoroughly).

So - I assume it's the fault of those interpreting the religion, for their own reasons, and with their own agenda in mind, who are to blame, for the persistence of pratices like dowries and funeral pyres in India.

In other words, it's people who are creating the problem -in the way they interpret a bunch of words on a page, in reference to a religion.

This is still not set in stone (IMO) as far as being a "cultural influence" - it can be changed *and it has changed, a little, in pockets of people, here and there, as far as things like a need for dowries and the use of funeral pyres for widows, in India).

- Susan




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