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steamynotraunchy -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:26:31 AM)

well, thank you for the interest and input all. It's easy to see by the responses, who got what I was trying to say and  for whom it went entirely over their heads. I realize not everyone speaks english as a first language and therefore some of the concepts and the subtleties of the differences in meaning escaped them but I expected that and understand how it would happen.



temptressofsouls -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:28:30 AM)

Who are you to decide what "real" Doms and subs should and do want?

Some people might like what you despise.



Aileen68 -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:29:12 AM)

Because people didn't agree with you doesn't mean they didn't understand.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:29:50 AM)

Disagreeing and suggesting that you're word choice is inappropriate hardly suggests things "went over our head."  The fact that you feel the need to make yourself superior to anyone who disagrees with you says a lot more than anything.



camille65 -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:35:11 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

well, thank you for the interest and input all. It's easy to see by the responses, who got what I was trying to say and  for whom it went entirely over their heads. I realize not everyone speaks english as a first language and therefore some of the concepts and the subtleties of the differences in meaning escaped them but I expected that and understand how it would happen.


I'm not sure that you do understand. You bring up some very good points, but they only apply to some subs/slaves.

There are a lot who enjoy what 'you' would call abuse. It doesn't make them wrong, it makes them different from you.

It is impossible to apply absolutes to such a divergent population. It is similiar to saying that since 'you' know your religion is THE ONE, then everyone should also follow it. You know blue is the best color, so those that like yellow must be in need of help.

I may need things you abhor. You may get off on things that squick me.

Different people need different things.

Yes there are folks out there that take advantage and abuse naive people however as several have said 'abuse to one, is NOT abuse to another'.

When you make a statement using 'all, true, everyone' you will receive the same reaction no matter the topic. It ends up becoming the focus of your post.

As to what I copied above, you come across as condescending.



mnottertail -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:35:46 AM)

Well, but it is about what your profile says, and whoever you are talking to maybe needs the talking to, because this is defining you, but I am not sure who else you would be talking to.

Ron



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:46:21 AM)

pardon me for not reading all replies before this one

listening, darling, you're not super sub/slave sent here from Planet S to save every mortal submissive/slave from the evil wiles of the wicked, jerk ass villian known as "Dom".

let's get real for a moment - there will always be nasty, mean-spirited men everywhere.  are you going to be around to save me from the next guy who tries to hit on me while i'm reviewing a band or a dom who sends a message telling me i'm too fat to be a submissive?  we are all adults (or at least most of us are) with some type of common sense and good head on our shoulders to weed through the jerks, dumbasses, wannabes and "twue" (gawd i hate that word).

your intentions with this op are noble and good however you cannot save us all.



murmur -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:50:02 AM)

hmmm...trying to explicate things to a narrow-minded.... kind of hard. She already have *the* answer in her head. Let her be happy with it. She'll hit a wall with everybody she doesnt know, but the people near her shall be content (a big guess).



domiguy -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:51:18 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

well, thank you for the interest and input all. It's easy to see by the responses, who got what I was trying to say and  for whom it went entirely over their heads. I realize not everyone speaks english as a first language and therefore some of the concepts and the subtleties of the differences in meaning escaped them but I expected that and understand how it would happen.


Perhaps if you changed your name to raunchynotsteamy....Your responses would change. 

Look, you are somewhat of a handsome woman so I'm going to throw you a bone.  Perhaps if you removed  being "strongly" bi or that you lust for anal out of your profile you might start getting better responses....This is after all an open air environment and all can participate....If you didn't realize this fact it probably went over your 5'7" (tall) head....So just ignore the messages that you don't groove too and move on....And shut your pie hole.



murmur -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:52:02 AM)

quote:



listening, darling, you're not super sub/slave sent here from Planet S to save every mortal submissive/slave from the evil wiles of the wicked, jerk ass villian known as "Dom".



hehe great one



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 7:57:44 AM)

perhaps i should audition for next season's of  Stan Lee's Who Wants To Be A Superhero as Super Sub - she flies around the kink world saving mortal submissives/slaves and putting those evil Doms/Dommes in their place

*giggles*



violetaelf -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:01:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

well, thank you for the interest and input all. It's easy to see by the responses, who got what I was trying to say and for whom it went entirely over their heads. I realize not everyone speaks english as a first language and therefore some of the concepts and the subtleties of the differences in meaning escaped them but I expected that and understand how it would happen.


Wow! Seriously !! "All those who do not agree with me and bow down to my smarts are either stupid or foreign" What a concept.

Just goes to show that not only Doms can be "nasty" but subs too !!!!

Get off the throne, girl, please.. because instead of helping others all you do is showing how nasty you can be. And that's not the best way to start your way around the forums...

'violet'



murmur -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:01:43 AM)

lol for Super Sub, you gotta have a cape. you just have to. It wouldnt be as much fun without one!



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:08:28 AM)

LOL

a cape and a utility belt -  whip of justice, a paddle and the super dong dildo



CrazyC -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:08:53 AM)

I just hope after being around a week she realizes we are all talking English. We just all have diffrent interpetations of what those words mean. I just had this talk to my 8 year old.



Dom87110 -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:15:28 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy
A masogynist (woman hater) with mommy issues wants to subordinate, punish, inflict pain and generally keep a woman down.


Quite oddly enough - I have always been, and still am, a very loving, nurturing and caring individual and dominant being. I have also, by now, developed some tremendous sadistic skills. But I did not happen to develop these skills because I was mentally sick child that loved torturing cute little furry animals (or even ugly slimy ones for that matter). Nor did I develop these skills because I have deeply troubling and unresolved Freudian issues with my mother.

I have developed these skills through mutual growth in D/s relationships with subs that sought out and begged for that kind of sadistic interaction and dynamic. These subs were amazing and amazingly strong women, and every single one of them would be happy to have a closed-door chat with you about making their masochistic nature synonymous with being a doormat!

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy
Therefore, when you're approached by one of these woman haters, just block them, set them straight and block them.


Very mature behavior you are recommending here! To do a hit-and-run, do a drive-by flaming and instead of showing the backbone to discuss such a matter out with someone you deem abusive, you just block them.

Also that type of behavior reaks of as much disrespect as does the behavior of those few masogynists that may dwell here.



Online4Abuse -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:28:36 AM)

I always find it cute when people try to use the GROWN UP words and do not understand thier meanings.

"subordinate"  This word has many meanings, most of which the OP didnt read in Websters...

subordinate - WordNet (r) 2.1 (2005) :

subordinate
     adj 1: lower in rank or importance [syn: subordinate, low-  level
            ] [ant: dominant]
     2: subject or submissive to authority or the control of another;
        "a subordinate kingdom" [ant: insubordinate]
     3: (of a clause) unable to stand alone syntactically as a
        complete sentence; "a subordinate (or dependent) clause
        functions as a noun or adjective or adverb within a sentence"
        [syn: dependent, subordinate] [ant: independent,
        main(a)]
     n 1: an assistant subject to the authority or control of another
          [syn: subordinate, subsidiary, underling, foot soldier
          ]
     2: a word that is more specific than a given word [syn:
        hyponym, subordinate, subordinate word]
     v 1: rank or order as less important or consider of less value;
          "Art is sometimes subordinated to Science in these schools"
     2: make subordinate, dependent, or subservient; "Our wishes have
        to be subordinated to that of our ruler" [syn: subordinate,
        subdue]


"submissive"

submissive - WordNet (r) 2.1 (2005) :

submissive
     adj 1: inclined or willing to submit to orders or wishes of
            others or showing such inclination; "submissive
            servants"; "a submissive reply"; "replacing troublemakers
            with more submissive people" [ant: domineering]
     2: abjectly submissive; characteristic of a slave or servant;
        "slavish devotion to her job ruled her life"; "a slavish yes-
        man to the party bosses"- S.H.Adams; "she has become
        submissive and subservient" [syn: slavish, subservient,
        submissive]


So to those that said its a poor choice of words, I will agree.

As to the poster...just clicking delete will work alot better than trying to tame the entire submissive community to your thoughts of a true Dom.



Cheesecake -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:42:58 AM)

GM all:


(fast reply)

Whoopee, another OP that thinks their opinion of the alternative lifestyle is the one that matters or makes the most sense. [8|] Get over yourself. Quickly. BTW? Way to go on making friends & influencing people. Can we all take lessons from you?

My guess; she hasn't been laid in a very long time. Perhaps someone can take one for the team & do her up the poop shoot? I've always believed a good anal violation works wonders for readjusting a cocky ego. I'll even supply the rubbers!


CC



violetaelf -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:46:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Cheesecake


My guess; she hasn't been laid in a very long time. Perhaps someone can take one for the team & do her up the poop shoot? I've always believed a good anal violation works wonders for readjusting a cocky ego. I'll even supply the rubbers!


CC



Well.. for your first post on the threads.. you're nowhere nearer making a good impression with that remark/suggestion than the OP with hers. IMHO. I fail to see the humor there.

'violet'



breatheasone -> RE: nasty "doms" (8/22/2007 8:47:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: steamynotraunchy

well, thank you for the interest and input all. It's easy to see by the responses, who got what I was trying to say and  for whom it went entirely over their heads. I realize not everyone speaks english as a first language and therefore some of the concepts and the subtleties of the differences in meaning escaped them but I expected that and understand how it would happen.

That was a rather grandiose statement wasn't it dearie?




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