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RE: What if I dont have trust for my Dom? - 8/25/2007 8:53:06 PM

grlneedstolearn

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

If you aren't happy, if you don't trust him, if he breaks his word... why are you still there? What is he doing?

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RE: What if I dont have trust for my Dom? - 8/26/2007 5:27:09 AM

Redoubt

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ORIGINAL: velvetears

Doesn't sound like a good situation to be in. i would like to understand more what you mean by "obsessed with him" - could you explain it more.

If you are enjoying your weekend time with him and all is good when you are with him, why can't you just take it for what it is and enjoy yourself, not worrying so much about things. It all depends on what you are looking for. Why not keep looking yourself - tell him you enjoy your time together but since you know he's not 100% happy with you and is looking for another sub more to his preference, you want to keep doors open for yourself as well. As long as all are honest i don't see what the problem is.

I'm so with velvetears on this one. Whether or not it's within your ability or his to proceed with being play partners after reaching a level of intensity is up to you and him to decide through honest frank and open communication.

But if you've stopped trusting him, you need to talk to him and let him know that. Without trust everything else starts falling apart and it would behoove you both to get expectations straight before things become ugly.

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