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LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 7:45:48 AM)
It's the uber intellectual model of the "white knight." And tons of subs lick it up.

YourShyPet -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 8:45:25 AM)
I seem to attract these delusionals like crazy... which tickles me to no end because I have a bachlors in psychology... I can tell you one thing they all seem to have in common... they sure don't like it when you analyze them back... especially when you use terminology they have to run to google LOL.

mnottertail -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 8:47:43 AM)
I am going to google delusionals. BRB, Ron

YourShyPet -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 8:54:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail I am going to google delusionals. BRB, Ron Is going to go read Rons profile... write up one monsterous psycho-analysis email detailing exactly who he is... and attach some T&A pics.... WISH ME LUCK EVERYONE!

mnottertail -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 9:01:23 AM)
LOL, A psychoanalysis of me. A dissertation on that undertaking would require two words only. Jesus wept. Ron

came4U -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 9:39:51 AM)
He not only wept, he wept on a couch. and paid 100 bucks an hour to do so. ps. you will never get laid scaring the locals LOL.

LaTigresse -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 1:23:22 PM)
My favourites are like our most recent Bob. They love to expound upon their vast theories ( usually with veddy intelligent sounding words to make themself appear way cooler and smarter than they are ) of why everyone else is so fake, less enlightened, etc etc etc.......all while typing hideously long boring posts that make your eyes cross to try and read them. They are fun for a moment or two, then their fragile egos get all bent out of shape. At that time they just lose their tempers and cease being as much fun. Oh, and they also like to use said lingo to explain why they are "The One" (cue in music) to save all of the little lost subs and slaves from themselves.

Donnalee -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/23/2007 9:13:41 PM)
Domiguy...Too funny!

Neala -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/24/2007 12:01:27 AM)
I thought I'd share this with you lovelies. This guy messaged me..and told me he was a member of The Black Orchid Society (where the only twue Master's are allowed in). He then told me he was Michael Vick. So Michael Vick is my now one twue Master. I love CM. <3

came4U -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/24/2007 12:39:29 AM)
Tigress ... sigh dont uze big wurds k booob is just anoother post peeps that likes to colect the under edumacated for sport. edit: the lo espteemers too.

SirDraco7 -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/24/2007 9:15:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Neala Ya know the type when ya say something other than "Yes, lord of all things great and wonderful" they start to analyze you. What, what, whhhhat?! Slaves have an opinion...slander! Okay..so...yes...have you lovelies run into this as well? Well bad as it sounds, in some ways I am like this. Some, but not all. I have no degree in psychology, and nor have I ever taken any courses in it. Even still... from my dealings with people over time I'm a psychologist of sorts. Then again isn't anyone who has dealings with people and friends? ::shrugs:: My big flaw is that, as Neala said, analizing. I tend to analize everything. From others to myself. It is a flaw, and it is not something I can help, it's just a part of my personality. As such it makes me very opinionated about many things. I'm also very curious and it leads me to ask many many questions when given the chance. However that being said I'm not stupid or unintelligent in my reasonings. I tend to keep opinions to myself unless asked. On top of which my opinions are non phychologist like, just natural. Vanilla ice cream would bring up thoughts of "cool it's your choice". The quack type associations I leave to the quacks. That being said I feel like an online psychologist at times. But in reading the replies to this thread perhaps I'm a "good" one? Should there be such a thing even? lol Maybe it's natural. I tend to chat a lot. And in my conversations, both friends and strangers alike I have, countless times sat back and been a shoulder to cry on. In doing so I would listen analize and give my thoughts and opinions and whatever help I was able to lend. Always being as helpful as I was able and never reverting to stupid quack like statements unless they were logically true, and only if they would be helpful in said situation. ::smiles and shrugs:: Am I good? bad? It doesn't really matter. I am me, and I like who I am. I know I'm not really the type or style of guy that you were speaking of when this thread was created, but I do in a way consider myself to be an online psychologist of sorts.(Note I don't go out seeking such. If it happens in conversation with someone I'm not the type to brush it off. If I can listen and be helpful to someone that needs a kind ear or helpful advice I'll do my best to help.) Because of that I felt like I should reply and say something, even if it is a small defense of myself and those like me. :) That is all thank you for the moment of time. Me P.S. if you're reading this still it must mean that somehow in your childhood you had a strong attraction and wanted a relationship with your parents. What? no? I'm wrong? But it's what Freud says it means!!!! Dang. I misinterperated maybe. Guess I'm not a 'real' Psychologist afterall. lol ;) Yea.. corny I know. It's just part of who I am I guess. lol

HaveRopeWillBind -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/25/2007 5:55:46 AM)
I haven't met the "Mr/Ms Shrink" type, but on another site I have run into plenty of "Student Shrinks" who are pretending to be submissive so they can write their Doctoral papers on the psychology of dominants. Seems like I run across one or two of those every year.

SirDraco7 -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/25/2007 7:03:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HaveRopeWillBind I haven't met the "Mr/Ms Shrink" type, but on another site I have run into plenty of "Student Shrinks" who are pretending to be submissive so they can write their Doctoral papers on the psychology of dominants. Seems like I run across one or two of those every year. They would learn more about the psychology of Dominants if they actually became one for a little bit and know what it feels like. Not that I want those type of... people to become anything really as they only lead to someone's disappointment heartache and hurt. I'd like to see what thease 'students' write about Dom's and BDSM sometime. I wonder how much of it is the truth? And how much of it implies we are all deeply desturbed individuals? ::chuckles:: Wait! We have more interesting sex lives than just plain missionary sex and no change day after day! According to the super psychology book it means we ARE deeply desturbed individuals! Oh, what a shame! Bring on destrubia. ::grins::

HaveRopeWillBind -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/25/2007 7:10:47 AM)
Of course we are all disturbed. I'm fairly certain most shrink types would draw that conclusion (unless it were about themselves). Otherwise we would always color between the lines and live nice safe and secure vanilla lives. I too would enjoy reading some of those doctoral papers, might be good for a number of laughs.

Aswad -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/25/2007 10:43:38 PM)
~fr~ While I'll admit to being prone to analyze at times (I'm an engineer, so sue me), there's one thing that yanks my chain even more. People who attempt to treat what they have pegged as your problems (usually with outdated Freudian psychoanalysis to top it off) without any idea what they are doing, using a mix of BDSM and some obscure misinterpretation of psychotherapy. Some years ago, talking to another Dom about play (yes, mutual disclosure, open relationship, all of that), my nephandi ran into a guy who, upon hearing of her anxiety problems, immediately started trying to push her into letting him "treat" it, all the while playing mind games and a million other "little" things that- in total- made my spider sense crawl under the shower and down the drain to rest. I'm not adverse to using elements of cognitive behavioural therapy and/or dialectic behavioural therapy in a D/s or M/s relationship, provided the D/M is qualified (or at least knows their limits), but some people are just psychiatric clusterfucks waiting to get hold of a victim... er... patient... er... sub... whatever. That said, if I ever go Kung-Freud on someone, feel free to swap "sue me" for "bludgeon me". I'm sure it's damn annoying.

MadRabbit -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/26/2007 12:13:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Neala I just had the lovely opportunity of meeting Mr. Shrink and was curious if you boys and girls have ever run into that type before? Ya know the type when ya say something other than "Yes, lord of all things great and wonderful" they start to analyze you. "Yes, I think you have deep seeded child hood issues because you like vanilla ice cream and have this weird thing...called...an opinion!" What, what, whhhhat?! Slaves have an opinion...slander! Okay..so...yes...have you lovelies run into this as well? Its clear that you have some deep seated emotional neurosis regarding "psychologists" in general which is leading to your negative opinion of online dominants who try to analyze you, the result of the triggering of bad memories. Were you molested by a psychologist at some point? Its okay...you can talk about it here. Your safe. Show me on mnottertail where the doctor touched you.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/26/2007 12:58:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit Its clear that you have some deep seated emotional neurosis regarding "psychologists" in general which is leading to your negative opinion of online dominants who try to analyze you, the result of the triggering of bad memories. Some people really don't like to be analyzed by others. It's not something I can readily understand. If you know who you are, then what's the big deal, ya know? People are assessed every day based on conversations. I mean, if the person's wrong, then say he's wrong and why. But I think people have their own baggage and insecurities they hold onto, and it causes them to overreact to being "assessed" rather than just move on if they don't like it.

trusting -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/26/2007 2:40:25 AM)
LMAO...too many times to speak of![image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m11.gif[/image]

Padriag -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/26/2007 8:56:49 AM)
LOL... too funny Rabbit! [:D] To the OP... maybe they were just trying to get you on their couch. [8D] Not that I'd ever try to do that... na... you can trust me... really... :: big toothy grin :: [sm=evil.gif]

Neala -> RE: Online Psychologist? (8/27/2007 3:54:10 AM)
We'll start with SirDraco since he's at the top of the people I wanna respond to. Peering and proding at someone online is never a good thing. At least in my opinion. You can assume things...but one person's reaction could be different from the next. You have to treat it on a case by case basis. I do tend to analyze people and why they do what they do. I have a weak spot for wanting to know all I can about someone. Could be why I'm going to school to be a shrink. However, I always leave room to be wrong. I also don't try to poke too much at someone online. Not enough information when you're talking online. Or even on the phone...really. I reserve all my judgements for in person. HaveRopeWillBind- Hmmm....would you like to be my end project? I'll do a paper on you. It'll have to wait about another three years. Lol. Aswad- Do you have enough money to be worth suing? [:D] MadRabbit- I have yet to be molested by a phychologist. Do you know of any that could complete this task? It's on my list of things I need to do before I die. Also, can I show you on mnottertail where I would -like- to be touched? [;)] Ownedgirlie- People are analyzed constantly. The way the dress, speak, smell. When people get this through their heads maybe life will be easier for them. I agree with you...people seem to hold onto past baggage like it's a life line. Silly, silly people. Padriag- But...but...but...you don't want me on your couch?

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